Lacan tells us that there is no sexual relationship. When we are having sex we are really alone. The TLDR is that in sex there is a dissymmetry of partners. Any sexual "relationship" is mediated by an object of desire, which is purely symbolic. Sexual pleasure is inherently narcissistic, because the foid you are fucking is just a stand in for processes that are happening in your own mind. Sexual relationships are impossible because they are structured along this fundamental divide.
Love to Lacan is basically an illusion of oneness with the love object that people use to cope with the fact that there can be no relationship between the sexes. In the end, however, it is always our own ego that we love when we are in love. I see this a lot when people try to shit on escortceling because its supposedly cucked when you can get in a relationship "for free". The problem is that this "relationship" doesn't exist, it is structured around a fantasy. So when people make this comparison, they attribute all sorts of positive qualities to relationships that make them seem so much better, when really they don't exist. Even if these people ascended, their desires will remain unfulfilled, because they can never be satisfied.
Since sexual pleasure is narcissistic, sex is transactional, even violent. It's always a question of what you can get from the other person. All sex is paid sex. Escortceling or relationships, they are just different means of exchange. Even chad pays for sex. Saying chad doesn't pay for sex is like saying a millionaire's heir doesn't have to pay for anything. They get their currency for free, but this does not deny the transactional nature of sex. This becomes apparent when something happens to chad, like that chad burn victim whose wife left him. Just like if the millionaire lost all his money.
I don't have any illusions about relationships. All relationships devolve into betabuxxing. Love is not possible. Getting into a relationship while being bluepilled about the nature of relationships is cucked, because you get a bad deal. For incels, escortceling is the better deal. I was able to fuck gigastacy for 150e. If that is somehow "cucked", it is cucked for the foid. Because she had to let a subhumancel have his way with her for a such meager amount of money. The most cucked thing you can do as an incel is try to ascend. Because you are putting all the time and money into it and you get no sex out of it. The ratio of resources spent per lay is infinity. Whereas with escortceling, it is finite.
Love to Lacan is basically an illusion of oneness with the love object that people use to cope with the fact that there can be no relationship between the sexes. In the end, however, it is always our own ego that we love when we are in love. I see this a lot when people try to shit on escortceling because its supposedly cucked when you can get in a relationship "for free". The problem is that this "relationship" doesn't exist, it is structured around a fantasy. So when people make this comparison, they attribute all sorts of positive qualities to relationships that make them seem so much better, when really they don't exist. Even if these people ascended, their desires will remain unfulfilled, because they can never be satisfied.
Since sexual pleasure is narcissistic, sex is transactional, even violent. It's always a question of what you can get from the other person. All sex is paid sex. Escortceling or relationships, they are just different means of exchange. Even chad pays for sex. Saying chad doesn't pay for sex is like saying a millionaire's heir doesn't have to pay for anything. They get their currency for free, but this does not deny the transactional nature of sex. This becomes apparent when something happens to chad, like that chad burn victim whose wife left him. Just like if the millionaire lost all his money.
I don't have any illusions about relationships. All relationships devolve into betabuxxing. Love is not possible. Getting into a relationship while being bluepilled about the nature of relationships is cucked, because you get a bad deal. For incels, escortceling is the better deal. I was able to fuck gigastacy for 150e. If that is somehow "cucked", it is cucked for the foid. Because she had to let a subhumancel have his way with her for a such meager amount of money. The most cucked thing you can do as an incel is try to ascend. Because you are putting all the time and money into it and you get no sex out of it. The ratio of resources spent per lay is infinity. Whereas with escortceling, it is finite.
