For a long time, I always wanted to be loved and accepted, and would do just about anything to win other's approval. But in the end, no matter what I did, whether it's being "kind", "generous", a people-pleaser, and simply acting a fool to look cool, my situation always remained the same.
But after the day I was faced with severe rejection and saw people's true colors, I'm no longer able to look at anyone the same. And indeed, for a time I became severely depressed.
However, God came and revealed himself to me and got me back up. And with that, I've learned to let go.
It's a long story in regards to how I've made it this far, and indeed, I'm still single.
But the one thing I can say is that, I've learned over time, to be my authentic self, no matter what anyone says about me. Which is to say, when you face enough rejection, you start anchoring your identity. So much that it cannot be shaken, regardless of the storm.
And though I've made a thread recently about it, I'm thankful that I got catfished, because it served to make me more discerning and have stronger boundaries, and my standards are higher, teaching me to stop settling for less.
So with that, based on the fruits I'm yielding from these negative experiences, I know that the day will come when I'll make it to the other side, and there's someone waiting for me.
But first, I'm going to have to keep dying to complete my METAMORPHOSIS.
View: https://youtube.com/shorts/eVzhWvbcA3U?si=P0tzmBVH-ZUYfGQM
But after the day I was faced with severe rejection and saw people's true colors, I'm no longer able to look at anyone the same. And indeed, for a time I became severely depressed.
However, God came and revealed himself to me and got me back up. And with that, I've learned to let go.
It's a long story in regards to how I've made it this far, and indeed, I'm still single.
But the one thing I can say is that, I've learned over time, to be my authentic self, no matter what anyone says about me. Which is to say, when you face enough rejection, you start anchoring your identity. So much that it cannot be shaken, regardless of the storm.
And though I've made a thread recently about it, I'm thankful that I got catfished, because it served to make me more discerning and have stronger boundaries, and my standards are higher, teaching me to stop settling for less.
So with that, based on the fruits I'm yielding from these negative experiences, I know that the day will come when I'll make it to the other side, and there's someone waiting for me.
But first, I'm going to have to keep dying to complete my METAMORPHOSIS.
View: https://youtube.com/shorts/eVzhWvbcA3U?si=P0tzmBVH-ZUYfGQM
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