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Realistically, if I were a 5, what could I do to meet women/get a girlfriend?

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Name is Abdu, live in Laos, born on 24.08.1992.
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I'm not a 5 right now, I'm sure of that. If I gymcelled enough to get muscles and lose fat, got rid of my gruesome acne, got contact lenses, did something to compensate for the baldness

You know what, while I was writing this I realized that there are a few things that totally block me from being a 5. The baldness is the first, and the second is my narrow shoulders and tiny wrists. Even if I lost weight and put on muscles, I'd still look weird, like that time when I was anorexic.
 
Be a beta with money.
 
What weight were you at doing the time you went all anorexic and whatnot?
 
the only thing that can make me a 5 is continue my hair treatment and do plastic surgery to correct my chin/jaw and nose to match the face, my eyes are kinda bad but are acceptable for normie standards
 
What weight were you at doing the time you went all anorexic and whatnot?
Long story short, I was a fat kid, then at ~17 I lost a lot of weight (could see my damn ribcage), then after ~1 and a half years of being anorexic I put all the weight back and more. Since then I've only gotten fatter and balder.
 
realistically you would have to be ok with your below average looking girlfriend cheating on you and be happy for the opportunity to lick her feet
 
I mean I am a 5 (at least its that what others rated me) but being a high inhib retard around women is a death sentence and led me to being a 21 year old KV
 
go to SEA, run high status/money social circle game, RTT, go for ugly quirky looking chicks or whales, be a CUCK
 
Social circle game, probably. Have a friend hook you up.

You can run online dating on the side, and if you're white, save money for an Asia trip.
 
realistically you would have to be ok with your below average looking girlfriend cheating on you and be happy for the opportunity to lick her feet
You just accurately described Cucktears. Congratulations dude.
 
The baldness is the first, and the second is my narrow shoulders and tiny wrists.

Growth hormones and estrogen blocker will fix that.
 
If you were 5? I would begin mewing at kindergarten.
 
Off the top of my head... betabuxx? You DO have a degree right OP?
 
Yeah, betabux probably. I'm in the same boat tbh. I get a lot of 6/10 and 7/10 ratings on r/rateme, r/amiugly, and /soc/, so my actual rating is like 4 or 5, especially considering my height. Tinder gets me nothing. Thing is I gained a bunch of weight over the past month while I was laid up from surgery, and it shows on my face. I haven't even dieted for a week and I already see a difference.

Relevant to OP, however, just because you can see your ribs doesn't mean you're lean. Sub 10% bf is where your face looks its best. With no muscle, it's easy for your bones to stick out at a relatively high bf. Just focus on fat loss for now. It's cutting season anyway. You can focus on gaining muscle when summer's over.
 
If a man is a 5/10 nowadays it is impossible to find a girlfriend in Western countries.
 
take a shower and join women marches br0
 
You will need to be NT and make social circles. Using these social circles you will be able to find a GF.

Ignore all the "sUb8 lAw" "mUh bEtABuXXX" retardeds. 5/10 IS NOT incel tier unless you are Non-NT/Ethnic/Manlet.
 
being a 5 will not save you. You have to be 6-7 at least
 
being a 5 will only suffice if you have either money or status to back it up, but then you will probably have a betabuxx fate anywat
 
A male 5 has the following options:

- betabux/moneymaxx (very hard work and a lot of luck involved, but does pay off in the end)
- PUA (does work for 5+ guys, but it also takes a ton of practice, and honing of skills)
- Socialising (frustrating one but you will eventually find an ugly foid who will take you)
- Musicianmaxxing (get a band together or as a solo singer songwriter - involves some looksmaxxing/thugmaxxing)
- thugmaxxing (extremely effective method but not everyone can do it, and it does involve major life changes. Works best for ethnics and working class guys)
 
Being 5/10 is not enough these days...Even if in SEA, even if you are super social and all that. So i would sugges to find some better copes, lookmaxing is for normies. If you are not a 5/10 already there is no point trying to improve to avarage level. Nobody cares for someone who is avarage in this world.
 
No offense, but without a picture, I wouldn't be able to say. Besides, a lot of men rate themselves higher than usual.

However, I guess it also depends on what redeeming qualities you have, as well as what kind of women you choose to approach.

My advice is to find the least attractive women in your social network who are single, and focus on them. If a woman believes you are above her in either looks, money or status, she might at least consider you useful, if not attractive. It's not the best solution, but it's a start.
 
I thought it said "If I were 5" :feelskek::feelskek:
 

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