tehgymcel420
Fesikhcel From Zabbaleen
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I had only been out of inpatient for 4 days, & my parents kicked me out. It was also right before New Years Eve. The reason? Because I have a fiancé.
My parents had me talk with them. They told me they wanted me to get better (because I've been diagnosed with PTSD due to the abuse THEY put me through). Then, my n-mom asked, "Who's [insert bf's name]?" I kept asking how they got the name, & they wouldn't tell me. After almost an hour of going back & forth, I finally fessed up that I did have a fiancé.
Right after, my mom tried to force me to marry him the next day. She said that we would be driving down to his suburb, meet his parents, take us both to a mosque, have him convert to Islam, & both of us would get married (Islamically, not legally). Then they would kick me out. They told me that I'm now "his responsibility." They treated me like I was a burden, & now that burden is being passed on to someone else because I decided to date & get engaged.
We got into a screaming fight about it. They treated me like crap for being with someone before marriage. Meanwhile, my dad has been consistently sleeping with prostitutes & cheating on my mom for over 20 years. My dad kept denying it even though I saw the court documents. Then my dad had the audacity to tell me that my PTSD came from my fiancé. I yelled back saying it was from them. They knew I was recording them & denied abusing me which made me more upset. Then my dad said I can't talk to them that way, & he kicked me out.
I called 911 because I felt unsafe. I expected my parents to hit me or something. The cops came, took me outside, & listened to a previous recording I have of my dad admitting that my mom & him abused me. I called my fiancé & told him to pick me up. The police didn't think it was safe for him to come to my house directly, so they dropped me off to a nearby Dunkin Donuts where I could be picked up safely.
My fiancé & his mom came to pick me up. His mom was very sweet & understanding of the whole situation. I was in tears by how kind they were & how they were willing to let me stay with them. Since this was during winter break, I stayed with my fiancé at his parents' house because he likes to go there during breaks & weekends.
When school started, I moved into his apartment by our school. His roommates talked & decided to let me stay for a month only. If I didn't get a job by the end of the month, they want me out., even though I'm paying my share of the bills & as much of the rent as I can. My fiancé told me that's not going to happen because if I leave, he goes with me. Since he bought most of the furniture at the apartment, all of that is going away with us.
My parents have apologized for the way they acted & said they didn't mean it when they kicked me out. They've been nicer to me, but they still try to manipulate me by making me feel bad for taking meds, trying to get me to stop taking them & not listen to the doctors. I sometimes visit during the weekends because my autistic younger brother (2 years younger than me) misses me A LOT & doesn't understand what's going on. When I was gone, he barely talked. He didn't smile or laugh. I felt really bad, but I tried not to blame myself. After all, this only happened because my parents kicked me out.
Since I've been living away from my parents, my mental health has improved. I'm still healing, but things are much better now despite me being kicked out not too long ago (3 weeks ago). It's kind of scary being on my own without the financial support of my parents, but I'm handling it pretty well.
She is engaged to a non Muslim who her parents want to convert to Islam, it's safe to assume he's white. Females are willing to go through all this for a white man.
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