jesus christ what a bluepill. also this comment made me laugh:
Seriously though, great advice. I always say that confidence is key with attraction in women, but not necessarily confidence with women. Just confidence. It can be in some random skill you have. My late first husband looked like Monty Burns from the Simpson's did meth and listened to punk, only his nose was bigger and scarred from acne and skin cancer. He was broke and weird, but he had absolutely no shortage of women, and men, that pursued him sexually. Frankly he was kind of a slut at times, and objectively a downright FLK (Funny Looking Kid).
Why? Because he was confident as hell because he had developed his interests into talents. He was a trained chef that specialized in vegan food, rode Flatland Freestyle BMX like gravity was not a thing (yeah, im old, and he would be older if he was alive), played the bass, and held well developed and passionate political beliefs. (Very left, sorry any super right guys, women do fall on the political side of treating fellow humans as human and that's not what the right is up to currently) He knew he was severely funny looking, 6'2" and like 120lbs soaking wet in his boots. So he got interesting. It worked. I miss you Ollie you sexy Bastard, you taught me how to love myself, how to fuck, and how to build bicycles, may a portion of your swagger pass on to the lonely guys here that are trying to live a better life.