Serious Question for Coomers and NEETs

[ChinaCurry]

Guys, how do you deal with the fact each day that passes is a day normies are developing themselves to the point they will achieve more than you, and NPC go-getters are accelerating ahead of you?

It means you are aware at a point in time the Coomer or NEET is winning relative to his piers, as he has all that free time, plus has that crazy dopamine hit, but you are also aware that it will flip, and inevitably the normie or go-getter will lifemog you.

How do you internalise this so you're happy?

 

[Words2_live_bye]

How do you internalise this so you're happy?

I'm never happy

 

[Over_this_Life]

I guess i count as a coomer. Most of my same age peers already lifemog me with cars, degrees, and several year long relationships some of which date back to high school. Yeah even more people will lifemog me as time goes on.
I just try not to think about it too much. Ignoring it doesnt make it go away but it helps me through my days

 

[Quarantined]

I'm trying to become a programmer, so I move out of my parents house. Being NEET and fapping all day is giving me panic attacks

 

[ChinaCurry]

I'm trying to become a programmer, so I move out of my parents house. Being NEET and fapping all day is giving me panic attacks

Yeah so that makes sense, as you have noticed the long term outlook on NEETing and cooming isn't great, I guess unless u live where there's really good welfare like Germany or Sweden

 

[AFsShouldntExist]

I try not to think about it, it makes me want to go ER

 

[AlexanderTheGreat11]

Don't care much

 

[Deleted member 26242]

I try not to think about it, it makes me want to go ER

Based fellow greycel.

 

[wereqryan]

I've accepted that I've lost and that my life is essentially over. I'm existing past my expiry date. That's how I deal with this.

 

[Gyros_Pretcel]

Maximum Maneater Ogerdrive Mode.

 

[Lebensmüder]

Guys, how do you deal with the fact each day that passes is a day normies are developing themselves to the point they will achieve more than you, and NPC go-getters are accelerating ahead of you?

It means you are aware at a point in time the Coomer or NEET is winning relative to his piers, as he has all that free time, plus has that crazy dopamine hit, but you are also aware that it will flip, and inevitably the normie or go-getter will lifemog you.

How do you internalise this so you're happy?

I try to minimize my thoughts about the topic. Of course they lifemog me, even fucking kids lifemog me to hell and back. Whenever they talk about their formative years it fills me with extremely bitter rage - I am not going to pretend that I am glad for them, I don't feel joy about their success/happiness and their success fills me with jealousy, sadness and rage because I cannot have it because of factors beyond my control. For some people success comes naturally, for others no amount of work is enough.
My jealousy/contempt sounds disgusting, evil and vile, but it's the honest truth. They are superior in every regard to me (IQ, life experience, looks, life quality, mental health) - there is simply no cope for that. Jealousy is simply a natural response to such an injustice. I simply cannot imagine myself in a position where I could actually succeed in something.

 

[DirtyCurryCell]

Normies are wageslaving.
They're not achieving jackshit.

 

[ChinaCurry]

I try to minimize my thoughts about the topic. Of course they lifemog me, even fucking kids lifemog me to hell and back. Whenever they talk about their formative years it fills me with extremely bitter rage - I am not going to pretend that I am glad for them, I don't feel joy about their success/happiness and their success fills me with jealousy, sadness and rage because I cannot have it because of factors beyond my control. For some people success comes naturally, for others no amount of work is enough.
My jealousy/contempt sounds disgusting, evil and vile, but it's the honest truth. They are superior in every regard to me (IQ, life experience, looks, life quality, mental health) - there is simply no cope for that. Jealousy is simply a natural response to such an injustice. I simply cannot imagine myself in a position where I could actually succeed in something.

I know what you mean, I get rage when I hear people's experiences from formative years, and compare to the hell that was mine, even went into a repressed good will hunting type shit at one point about it.

But now if I look forward, i see it as if choose not to neet and coom, then if we ignore what came before in formative years, I'd rather live a life where, in some way, and at least in the face of it, everyone won't lifemog me

 

[Mecoja]

I ignore the entire world and wish it will burn to the ground. Even when i leave my house i never interact with anyone like they are not real, just a bad programmed NPCs. Sometime i google my ex class mates and see they have married and have kids, moved out this small shitty town and have jobs with future its break my heart and makes wanna rope.