Psoriasis and other psychical obstacles

[TheGoodGuy]

So do anyone feel like you are held back mainly because of psychical conditions? I will go first.

I have psoriasis. Not really bad but a few spots around my body, i.e. two big spots on my left leg and a small spot behind my right ear and some other smaller spots
I also have an undiagnosed eating condition that I have been operated on several times, so it takes me 3 times as long to finish a meal e.i. a bigmac and fries will take me 45 minutes. So it makes it near impossible to date. And one night stands is out of the picture since they are looking for some quick meat and not a guy with an "annoying" problem.
I am also allergic to almost every food so I will get a coating on my tongue that doesn´t look good. And sometimes it will give me bad breath.


So do any of you feel held back due to your psychical problems? being "ugly" doesn´t count since we are a lot in here struggling with that me included I am solely talking about psychical problems

 

[thePhantom]

I don't want to be too specific due to the risk of being doxxed, but I have an illness which pretty much ruined gymcelling for me and also gave me rather bad skin.

 

[RageAgainstTDL]

I have thoracic outlet syndrome which has led to tight muscles all over, mild piriformis syndrome which allows me to jerk off if I'm lying on my back but I can't function properly sexually otherwise, and bad tmj.

Yeah even if a girl did like me I'm still fucked. This is partly why I can't just buy sex to solve my problems either.

Takes me a few hours a day of exercise just to maintain my daily function and keep up with my job.

 

[CaptainCuck]

I have an autoimmune disease called alopecia universalis which means no hair anywhere on my entire body. Plus this illness is causing my fingernails and toenails to crack and peel off.

Not only does the disease make me look very freakish, but it also causes other problems (no eyelashes means constant dirt in my eyes, no nose/ear hairs causes dirt to constantly get in and cause irritation).

Pieces of what is remaining of my nails also gets caught on bits of clothing and tends to tear away, sometimes causing bleeding.

 

[TheGoodGuy]

I don't want to be too specific due to the risk of being doxxed, but I have an illness which pretty much ruined gymcelling for me and also gave me rather bad skin.

I´m sorry to hear, I know how you feel I actually also have a back injury on my spine so that plus my eating problems means I had to give up training a few years back and I was a bodybuilder and all of my friends are bodybuilders

I have thoracic outlet syndrome which has led to tight muscles all over, mild piriformis syndrome which allows me to jerk off if I'm lying on my back but I can't function properly sexually otherwise, and bad tmj.

Yeah even if a girl did like me I'm still fucked. This is partly why I can't just buy sex to solve my problems either.

Takes me a few hours a day of exercise just to maintain my daily function and keep up with my job.

Omg I am so sorry to hear that, It´s truly over for you. We all complain in here but you actually can´t no matter what

I have an autoimmune disease called alopecia universalis which means no hair anywhere on my entire body. Plus this illness is causing my fingernails and toenails to crack and peel off.

Not only does the disease make me look very freakish, but it also causes other problems (no eyelashes means constant dirt in my eyes, no nose/ear hairs causes dirt to constantly get in and cause irritation).

Pieces of what is remaining of my nails also gets caught on bits of clothing and tends to tear away, sometimes causing bleeding.

I feel like I keep repeating myself but I really mean it I am truly sorry for you. It sounds terrible I know how tormenting it is to suffer from an error in the body. Every time I eat a meal I have to think if I am going to choke to death and I can´t eat much at one take so I have to eat every 4-5 hour. I HATE eating because of that. But I can´t even imagine your problem, none of us can unless we have experienced it ourselves

 

[TomathonClancy]

My physical condition is that I'm ugly.

 

[TomathonClancy]

I don't want to be too specific due to the risk of being doxxed, but I have an illness which pretty much ruined gymcelling for me and also gave me rather bad skin.

How are you not able to work out?

 

[thePhantom]

I´m sorry to hear, I know how you feel I actually also have a back injury on my spine so that plus my eating problems means I had to give up training a few years back and I was a bodybuilder and all of my friends are bodybuilders



Omg I am so sorry to hear that, It´s truly over for you. We all complain in here but you actually can´t no matter what




I feel like I keep repeating myself but I really mean it I am truly sorry for you. It sounds terrible I know how tormenting it is to suffer from an error in the body. Every time I eat a meal I have to think if I am going to choke to death and I can´t eat much at one take so I have to eat every 4-5 hour. I HATE eating because of that. But I can´t even imagine your problem, none of us can unless we have experienced it ourselves

Thanks man. Yeah, then you are in the same boat; gymcelling is an awesome cope and it hit me hard that even that was taken from me.

 

[thePhantom]

How are you not able to work out?

I can work out, but all muscle from many years of gymcelling are gone and will not easily comer back due to a generally fucked up body (metabolism, hormones, internal organs …).

 

[TheGoodGuy]

Thanks man. Yeah, then you are in the same boat; gymcelling is an awesome cope and it hit me hard that even that was taken from me.

Yeah and it sucks even harder because I live with my little brother who is a big bodybuilder "42cm arms" and he has been with 50+ girls all of them minimum 7/10. Gymcelling is actually an excellent cope because it gives so much

 

[Kokoro]

I am 5'1 does that count and have very small arms.

 

[FeminismsCancer]

I have physical conditions that make me not pass a class I or even II medical to become a pilot. That was my first blackpill at a very young age as my dad already made me aware I might not pass that when I expressed interest in the profession.
I have mild colour blindness and am deaf through my left ear from birth.
In Europe, the partial deafness is a deal breaker so it's over but the colour blindness might be just OK. Conversely, in the US my hearing would pass (understanding a human conversation from 6 ft with your back turned to the speaker is a pass, Europe has mandatory beep test) but colour blindness tolerance is zero. I can't escape, maybe some third world shithole is more lenient?

 

[CaptainCuck]

I´m sorry to hear, I know how you feel I actually also have a back injury on my spine so that plus my eating problems means I had to give up training a few years back and I was a bodybuilder and all of my friends are bodybuilders



Omg I am so sorry to hear that, It´s truly over for you. We all complain in here but you actually can´t no matter what




I feel like I keep repeating myself but I really mean it I am truly sorry for you. It sounds terrible I know how tormenting it is to suffer from an error in the body. Every time I eat a meal I have to think if I am going to choke to death and I can´t eat much at one take so I have to eat every 4-5 hour. I HATE eating because of that. But I can´t even imagine your problem, none of us can unless we have experienced it ourselves

Thanks dude, I'm really sorry to hear about your physical ailments too - it sounds terrible. I agree that it is hard to understand what other people are going through - at least we are able to vent here.

 

[TheGoodGuy]

I am 5'1 does that count and have very small arms.

I was mainly talking about skin deceases, bone deformities etc. How small are your arms btw? I bet they aren´t smaller than mine was at 15yo

My arm on the left

Notice my left arm

 

[Kokoro]

I was mainly talking about skin deceases, bone deformities etc. How small are your arms btw? I bet they aren´t smaller than mine was at 15yo View attachment 13179
My arm on the left

View attachment 13180
Notice my left arm

No they are about the same. I have a fat face though and I don't know why every time I look in the mirror I want to take a knife and cut off my fucking doublechin.

 

[TheGoodGuy]

I have physical conditions that make me not pass a class I or even II medical to become a pilot. That was my first blackpill at a very young age as my dad already made me aware I might not pass that when I expressed interest in the profession.
I have mild colour blindness and am deaf through my left ear from birth.
In Europe, the partial deafness is a deal breaker so it's over but the colour blindness might be just OK. Conversely, in the US my hearing would pass (understanding a human conversation from 6 ft with your back turned to the speaker is a pass, Europe has mandatory beep test) but colour blindness tolerance is zero. I can't escape, maybe some third world shithole is more lenient?

I know the feeling I too am actually colorblind. I got told I was colorblind in my childhood and I used to draw all the time, and when I found out I was colorblind I gave it up. I remember the humilation in art class when we had to mix colors together to make another color. Also I am from Europe myself, Denmark to be specific

 

[TheGoodGuy]

No they are about the same. I have a fat face though and I don't know why every time I look in the mirror I want to take a knife and cut off my fucking doublechin.

How old are you maybe it isn´t over yet? Also you could become a gymcel. I tell you that you will look big in no time because of your height. My brother and me are 5´7" and you are going to look big fast due to your compact size. Although you are really short. One of my brothers friends is actually exactly the same height as you and he does look small but he has some good musclemass on him

 

[WarriorSkull]

I was mainly talking about skin deceases, bone deformities etc. How small are your arms btw? I bet they aren´t smaller than mine was at 15yo View attachment 13179
My arm on the left

View attachment 13180
Notice my left arm

Shit dude, you're Auschwitz-mode.

 

[FeminismsCancer]

I know the feeling I too am actually colorblind. I got told I was colorblind in my childhood and I used to draw all the time, and when I found out I was colorblind I gave it up. I remember the humilation in art class when we had to mix colors together to make another color. Also I am from Europe myself, Denmark to be specific

I got humiliated by bullies for my hearing. They would keep repeating "you're deaf" or snap fingers next to my bad ear to see me turn my head the wrong side to 'demonstrate' to others how I couldn't echo-locate sounds etc.
Then I will also always remember that terrifying day when in another school where they didn't know this (in the first school my stupid parents thought it was a good idea to tell this to the teacher because they imagined I couldn't hear well so had to sit in front JFL, I hear perfectly well, just can't tell from where a sound originates) biology class was about hearing and the teacher wanted a volunteer to demonstrate echo-location and I sat in fear that the teacher would pick me randomly. Fortunately he didn't.

 

[TheGoodGuy]

Shit dude, you're Auschwitz-mode.

Yeah people thought I had anorexia I hated when they said that. I am normal arm size now about 31cm

 

[Kokoro]

How old are you maybe it isn´t over yet? Also you could become a gymcel. I tell you that you will look big in no time because of your height. My brother and me are 5´7" and you are going to look big fast due to your compact size. Although you are really short. One of my brothers friends is actually exactly the same height as you and he does look small but he has some good musclemass on him

I am 23, it is over.

 

[Vainglorious]

I have psoriasis, but now that I'm taking Stelara injections, it's mostly gone away. You should see a dermatologist.

 

[TheGoodGuy]

I got humiliated by bullies for my hearing. They would keep repeating "you're deaf" or snap fingers next to my bad ear to see me turn my head the wrong side to 'demonstrate' to others how I couldn't echo-locate sounds etc.
Then I will also always remember that terrifying day when in another school where they didn't know this (in the first school my stupid parents thought it was a good idea to tell this to the teacher because they imagined I couldn't hear well so had to sit in front JFL, I hear perfectly well, just can't tell from where a sound originates) biology class was about hearing and the teacher wanted a volunteer to demonstrate echo-location and I sat in fear that the teacher would pick me randomly. Fortunately he didn't.

Okay that seems extremely terrible! The fear you mentioned I instantly remember from being colorblind "of course not as bad as you being bullied with hearing problems" But I remember standing in fear of the teacher picking me to tell a color. I know to most people it doens´t sound like a big problem and my parents always told me that people don´t care. But I thought it was so embarrassing and humiliating. I even practiced what colors my clothes were for english class when we had to stand in a circle and tell what clothes we had on. I also wore plain clothes like blue jeans and a red shirt, something easy to remember.

I am 23, it is over.

Seems like it. At least if you want to look buff in your young years I am sorry for you

I have psoriasis, but now that I'm taking Stelara injections, it's mostly gone away. You should see a dermatologist.

My dermatologist is a cunt, she didn´t even give me an diagnosis nor did my doctor I had psoriasis for 5 years and even though I got steroid creme for some sensitive area for 5 years before it spread. I never was told what decease it was. Danish doctors are completely incompetent they have NEVER helped me fix just a single of my many psychical problems I HATE them!

 

[FeminismsCancer]

Okay that seems extremely terrible! The fear you mentioned I instantly remember from being colorblind "of course not as bad as you being bullied with hearing problems" But I remember standing in fear of the teacher picking me to tell a color. I know to most people it doens´t sound like a big problem and my parents always told me that people don´t care. But I thought it was so embarrassing and humiliating. I even practiced what colors my clothes were for english class when we had to stand in a circle and tell what clothes we had on. I also wore plain clothes like blue jeans and a red shirt, something easy to remember.

tbh I think your colour vision problem is actually worse on a daily basis. You can almost not hide that at all.
Since HS is over I can't say my partial deafness was ever detected by people who don't know it. I have learnt to cope by not immediately turning my head to a person calling me (I prefer to pretend I didn't hear my name than have somebody call me from the left and I look silly scanning the horizon for whoever called me on the right and stuff like that) if I don't know where they are. I always stay hyper aware of my surroundings rather than live within my bubble.
What never changed though is that there is not a single day I don't think of how unfair it is that I'm like that and how I couldn't be a pilot. Hearing or seeing an aeroplane alone always reminds me.

 

[TheGoodGuy]

tbh I think your colour vision problem is actually worse on a daily basis. You can almost not hide that at all.
Since HS is over I can't say my partial deafness was ever detected by people who don't know it. I have learnt to cope by not immediately turning my head to a person calling me (I prefer to pretend I didn't hear my name than have somebody call me from the left and I look silly scanning the horizon for whoever called me on the right and stuff like that) if I don't know where they are. I always stay hyper aware of my surroundings rather than live within my bubble.
What never changed though is that there is not a single day I don't think of how unfair it is that I'm like that and how I couldn't be a pilot. Hearing or seeing an aeroplane alone always reminds me.

That´s actually very impressive that you have unlearned your reflexes. Because we all instinctively look and scan for the sounds we hear, and for you to have unlearn that and wait a second is pretty impressive.

Actually my color blindness isn´t THAT bad compared to other. I only have trouble seeing nuances in colors you know like when the color changes from darker to lighter. If you show me the colored A4 papers I can identify the colors without any trouble because they are at their normal neutral level, it´s only when they change from darker or lighter and get confused. Most colorblind people have trouble with green and red but for me it´s the nuances. The only color I truly can´t see is some sort of light blue that is so light in the color that it looks white to me.
I know what you mean about the airplanes. I never wanted to be a pilot but one of the first things I got told about being colorblind was that I would never become a pilot if I wanted to

 

[FeminismsCancer]

That´s actually very impressive that you have unlearned your reflexes. Because we all instinctively look and scan for the sounds we hear, and for you to have unlearn that and wait a second is pretty impressive.

Actually my color blindness isn´t THAT bad compared to other. I only have trouble seeing nuances in colors you know like when the color changes from darker to lighter. If you show me the colored A4 papers I can identify the colors without any trouble because they are at their normal neutral level, it´s only when they change from darker or lighter and get confused. Most colorblind people have trouble with green and red but for me it´s the nuances. The only color I truly can´t see is some sort of light blue that is so light in the color that it looks white to me.
I know what you mean about the airplanes. I never wanted to be a pilot but one of the first things I got told about being colorblind was that I would never become a pilot if I wanted to

My mild colour blindedness is indeed between subtle shades of red and green. It worsens with thin lines or dots like on certain graphs and charts.

 

[Classic_Jarvis]

I also have an undiagnosed eating condition that I have been operated on several times, so it takes me 3 times as long to finish a meal e.i. a bigmac and fries will take me 45 minutes. s

Is it achalasia?

Achalasia (/eɪkəˈleɪʒə/; a- + -chalasia "no relaxation") is a failure of smooth muscle fibers to relax, which can cause a sphincter to remain closed and fail to open when needed. Without a modifier, "achalasia" usually refers to achalasia of the esophagus, which is also called esophageal achalasia, achalasia cardiae, cardiospasm, and esophageal aperistalsis.

 

[TheGoodGuy]

Is it achalasia?

It mite as I have said danish doctors are incompetent, so they just said that there wasn´t more they could do for me. But it actually feels as if my muscles in the throat can´t be relaxed. But I have had an xray scan to see my swallow reflexes and they were fine. And also several operation to dilate my esophagus but only two of the 4 times I was operated on they actually had to dilate my esophagus. I am just doomed to suffer from this...

 

[Classic_Jarvis]

It mite as I have said danish doctors are incompetent, so they just said that there wasn´t more they could do for me. But it actually feels as if my muscles in the throat can´t be relaxed. But I have had an xray scan to see my swallow reflexes and they were fine. And also several operation to dilate my esophagus but only two of the 4 times I was operated on they actually had to dilate my esophagus. I am just doomed to suffer from this...

There are self-help groups in your country, maybe they can point you in the right direction: akalasiforum.dk akalasigruppen.dk

 

[ItsOverBuddyBoyos]

It's Over for Psoriacels.