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Post from r/incels: The ULTIMATE Black Pill - /u/PM_YOUR_LEFT_TITTY



Nov 8, 2017
The ULTIMATE Black Pill: This post will absolutely destroy your perception of dating reality and women.

"In this country, you gotta make the money first. Then when you get the money, you get the power. Then when you get the power, then you get the women." -- Tony Montana (Scarface)
It seems Tony was right, well, almost. Basically looks, money and status are the only things that matter when it comes to dating. Everything else, game, personality etc. is just icing on the cake that makes only a marginal difference.

Online Dating Statistics
First let's look at online dating statistics, and before you tell me to go find females elsewhere, online dating is actually now the number #1 location where dating happens (the chart only goes up to 2010, before Tinder and dating apps).
This first bit is from OkCupid; the gist of it is that women find most men unattractive.

As you can see from the gray line, women rate an incredible 80% of guys as worse-looking than medium. Very harsh. [...] Females of OkCupid, we site founders say to you: ouch! Paradoxically, it seems it’s women, not men, who have unrealistic standards for the “average” member of the opposite sex. link

And Tinder statistics confirm this data ...

Tinder usage data was collected and statistically analyzed to determine the inequality in the Tinder economy. It was determined that the bottom 80% of men (in terms of attractiveness) are competing for the bottom 22% of women and the top 78% of women are competing for the top 20% of men. link

Still don't believe it? Take a look at our Tinder experiments: 1 (Atomic Black Pill), 2, 3, 4 (if you are physically attractive, women will forgive any bad personality traits such as being a misogynist, Nazi, child molester, serial killer)

Scientific Evidence
Before you say attractiveness is subjective to the individual, it's really not, especially when it comes to males. Many scientific studies have shown this, here is one.

Facial attractiveness: evolutionary based research
Being more or less attractive has important social consequences and people do generally agree on who is and who is not attractive. Beauty is not just a simple social construct—attractiveness appears to be ingrained in our biology. link

And another study, from the UK ...

The relationship between health and mating success in humans
We replicated previous findings that facial attractiveness was positively related to the number of sexual partners in men [...] Men with more masculine faces have been found to look more dominant [76], to react with stronger testosterone responses during a competition task [77], and to exhibit more aggression both in a laboratory and in a naturalistic setting involving players in university and professional hockey [78]. Therefore, men with more masculine faces might be more attractive because they are better at competing with other males for mates through increased dominance or aggressiveness. link

And another one, this time a study from Spain ...

How Important is Physical Attractiveness in the Marriage Market?
The study highlighted some important facts. First, that physical attractiveness matters for males to find a partner and for the type of partner they find. The less attractive are less likely to find a partner who is a graduate, or someone with a higher education level. This phenomenon did not happen in women. They all formed partnerships equally. link

But ... but it's personality that matters! No ... people judge your personality based on your physical looks. And yes, there's research to prove it, like this study ...

The Effects of Attractiveness and Status on Personality Evaluation
In general, results are in line with the ‘beauty is good’ effect (Dion et al., 1972), as people seem to believe that physical attractiveness implies positive personality traits [...] overall the “beauty is good effect” seems to be greater for men. [basically its more important for men to be physically attractive] link

DNA & Anthropological Evidence
Next, let's take a look at our genetics.

Citing recent DNA research, Dr. Baumeister explained that today’s human population is descended from twice as many women as men. Maybe 80 percent of women reproduced, whereas only 40 percent of men did. link

Throughout history, only 40% of males have reproduced and passed on their genes on average. This is measured by analyzing Y-chromosome DNA and mitochondrial DNA. Humans today have twice as much mitochondrial DNA, which is inherited from females, compared to Y-chromosome DNA inherited from males.

But it gets worse at some times in history ...

Once upon a time, 4,000 to 8,000 years after humanity invented agriculture, something very strange happened to human reproduction. Across the globe, for every 17 women who were reproducing, passing on genes that are still around today—only one man did the same. link

That's right, for every 17 women that reproduced, only 1 man reproduced during these early times after agriculture. That means some super Chads, most likely extremely wealthy men (kings, dukes) had literal harems of women.

This is happening again
I would say we are heading this way again where some men have harems, due to sexual liberation, women's rights and technology such as dating apps. If attractive and high status men are allowed to have multiple partners, and women can freely have sex with whomever they want, then they are mostly going to have sex with and/or compete for those attractive and high status men. Makes perfect sense, and this is being enabled by dating apps like Tinder.

Especially considering women do not need to rely directly on men for survival (such as a husband), they instead do it by proxy through the government, economy and society.

This will leave the rest of men (60-80%) with a constantly shrinking pool of female partners.

If this has not convinced you normshits, here is some further research.
What Attracts Women? Part 1
What Attracts Women? Part 2
What Attracts Women? Part 3
What Attracts Women? Part 4
ABC 20/20 Interpersonal Attraction (Lookism documentary)

TL;DR Women are not attracted to your personality. Women are in fact more shallow and visual than men, much more. For men, physical attractiveness is the most important thing to attract women, after that comes money and status.


This is nice. Thanks for posting.
What Attracts Women Part 4 has come out since then: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6aq0eGdHMkA

The asian thinking his tinder is bugged is fucking hilariosu
scoliosiscel said:
What Attracts Women Part 4 has come out since then: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6aq0eGdHMkA

The asian thinking his tinder is bugged is fucking hilariosu

ty, added it.

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