Discussion Porn addiction

[Epicchingusdarkcel]

If you developed a porn addiction how did it begin and when did you realize its a problem? Tips for quitting?

For me it started getting bad in high school where I literally wasted by sexual energy down the drain twice a day. As I became more socially isolated / outcasted I lost more and more willpower and I began ejaculating on the rug directly without cleanups. Im 22 now, barely go to uni, no friends except one guy who just uses me to split rides and masturbation essentially became a drug I take to feel something. Every time I finish I hate myself for a couple of seconds and after that I just dont care.

 

[Hannibal]

What were you studying at uni?

 

[Epicchingusdarkcel]

What were you studying at uni?

Carthage

 

[coping_manlet]

I’d like to argue that your inceldom might not be a symptom of your porn addiction, rather that your porn addiction is a symptom of your inceldom

 

[Epicchingusdarkcel]

I have a severe porn addiction

How did it start/realize it was an actual addiction and are you trying to quit? I followed some r/nofap strategies but have 0 willpower so I should probably start there

 

[Monke]

I've got the opposite. When I see people fucking all I can think is "Damn, these bastards are 10 years younger than me and fucking. And I haven't even tried something like that!!!" Butthurt. The only feeling I have when I watch porn is butthurt.

 

[Epicchingusdarkcel]

I’d like to argue that your inceldom might not be a symptom of your porn addiction, rather that your porn addiction is a symptom of your inceldom

Never claimed the opposite but its a miserable spiral downward

 

[Epicchingusdarkcel]

I've got the opposite. When I see people fucking all I can think is "Damn, these bastards are 10 years younger than me and fucking. And I haven't even tried something like that!!!" Butthurt. The only feeling I have when I watch porn is butthurt.

Do you have a *need* to watch porn? Like how a meth head *needs* meth?

 

[Monke]

Do you have a *need* to watch porn? Like how a meth head *needs* meth?

Call me a faggot, but hentai only
I enjoyed porn, when I was 22 thou

 

[Epicchingusdarkcel]

Call me a faggot, but hentai only

Lmao I never managed to get into the hentai stuff (never found the appeal) but im probably a bigger cuck bc i watch JOI videos for hours

 

[El Enemigo]

Just stop watching it weakling

 

[Epicchingusdarkcel]

Just stop watching it weakling

Like I replied to a previous guy I absolutely lack willpower not just for that but for pretty much anything and should start building that up but I dont know how

 

[SoloAlex]

Leave your house so you can’t watch porn

 

[coping_manlet]

Leave your house so you can’t watch porn

Just-don’t-look-at-your-phone pill

 

[berais]

Lmao I never managed to get into the hentai stuff (never found the appeal) but im probably a bigger cuck bc i watch JOI videos for hours

JOI?

 

[Epicchingusdarkcel]

Leave your house so you can’t watch porn

Yeah and where am I gonna sleep? Before bed the urges are the biggest

 

[Epicchingusdarkcel]

JOI?

Jerk off instruction

 

[stonedmario224]

I think doing some exercise could help, like going out for a walk or playing a sport. Also what kind of porn are you watching? I recommend to deter from hardcore stuff that may send you down a rabbit hole. Go for vanilla stuff and when you feel like you have the urge, use it for 20 mins or so ONLY when you need to nut. Don’t sit there scrolling 100s of pages for hours looking for the “right” video. Porn addiction is no joke, but using it for masturbation is normal and healthy, if you use it in a modest way.

 

[nazianime]

Porn is addictive, still trying to figure out how cut down on watching real people, I don’t even like most of it it’s a habit at this rate.

I decided to start to make my own 2d erotica though.

 

[SoloAlex]

Yeah and where am I gonna sleep? Before bed the urges are the biggest

It’s ok to do it 1 time before going to bed

 

[Remaincel]

With the view I have today I believe that pornography has ruined or at least helped to ruin my head, mainly because I started watching it very early

 

[I want to believe]

Now I can't jerk off without porn.

 

[TheCatMan]

From being locked in my room growing up I got bored and started cooming. It went from one coom every couple days to multiple cooms in one day.

 

[subhuman]

I started watching porn when I was 10, probably earlier. I was on the internet at a young age so I just googled boobs when I was curious and got a boner. Eventually I found porn on YouTube that for some reason hadn’t gotten taken down and eventually i found x videos at like 10. When I was 11 I came for the first time and I have been masturbating to porn ever since

 

[Shrek]

If you developed a porn addiction how did it begin and when did you realize its a problem? Tips for quitting?

For me it started getting bad in high school where I literally wasted by sexual energy down the drain twice a day. As I became more socially isolated / outcasted I lost more and more willpower and I began ejaculating on the rug directly without cleanups. Im 22 now, barely go to uni, no friends except one guy who just uses me to split rides and masturbation essentially became a drug I take to feel something. Every time I finish I hate myself for a couple of seconds and after that I just dont care.

I have a masturbation addiction after i see beautiful becky+ foids irl.I don't use porn that much my mind works different maybe.

 

[Bedford Stye]

If you developed a porn addiction how did it begin and when did you realize its a problem? Tips for quitting?

For me it started getting bad in high school where I literally wasted by sexual energy down the drain twice a day. As I became more socially isolated / outcasted I lost more and more willpower and I began ejaculating on the rug directly without cleanups. Im 22 now, barely go to uni, no friends except one guy who just uses me to split rides and masturbation essentially became a drug I take to feel something. Every time I finish I hate myself for a couple of seconds and after that I just dont care.

Your life is not easy boyo.

 

[Nikalas]

I do it twice everyday and have been since I was 10-11 maybe, I realised when I couldn't stop even if I tried

 

[enegin2]

What's the size of your collection?

 

[Sexless incel]

Jerk off as much as you want, just don’t overdo it

 

[Deleted member 38680]

I realized I was addicted at 15 and trying over and over to quit it and not being able to drove me insane. I think having a girlfriend would help me quit it.