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Serious [Poll] should people who fell off the normie path be considered incels?

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  • Yes

    Votes: 21 70.0%
  • No

    Votes: 9 30.0%

  • Total voters
    30
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newbiecel

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I'm talking about people who did things like kissed a girl when they were 6, maybe went to a girls birthday party, might've had a gf when they were 10-13, has had female friends, possibly played spin the bottle when they were 12-16, and MAYBE landed a few bases, but never had sex and their female-related life went to shit some point after that for one reason or another. Do they count as incel?
 
You can become an incel by having your looks fucked, you can become a normie by looksmaxxing
 
i never did any of that but i didn't look that bad before puberty so i probably could've avoided trueceldom but i was volcel at the time (had no sex drive obv)
 
It all depends. If they kissed a girl once but never had sex with her, and never had any female contact for the remainder of there lives then I’d consider them Incels, just not truecels.

But they’ve had voluntary sex, then they aren’t incel.
 
if they managed to get a female validation then this means they are not ugly enough to be considered incels, if you can get a positive reaction from a female even once then you can repeat this (assuming your looks are still the same)
 
It all depends. If they kissed a girl once but never had sex with her, and never had any female contact for the remainder of there lives then I’d consider them Incels, just not truecels.

But they’ve had voluntary sex, then they aren’t incel.
yea maybe you are right. I still voted for no.
  • Incel (Allowed): Person who wishes, but is unable, to be in a romantic relationship
In rules there is to short definition of incels.
 
I'm talking about people who did things like kissed a girl when they were 6, maybe went to a girls birthday party
thats as far as I went the saddest part is that I remember girls being really attracted to me,puberty,childhood/mental problems and fat gain completely fucked me.:cryfeels::feelsrope:
 
yeah everything changes after puberty, puberty fucked me over big time
 
anything under 18 is fine tbh
 
An incel is merely a MAN who hasn’t had sex in 6+ months. Your hypothetical example meets both the normie and our more stringent criteria, he had some success with women but not full acceptance, I’d say he’s probably even a truecel.
 
An incel is merely a MAN who hasn’t had sex in 6+ months. Your hypothetical example meets both the normie and our more stringent criteria, he had some success with women but not full acceptance, I’d say he’s probably even a truecel.
hasn’t had sex in 6+ months. == Incel
:chad::chad::chad::chad::chad::chad::chad::banhammer::banhammer::banhammer::banhammer::banhammer:
 
Yeh puberty didn’t go well for some people. It didn’t reallly change me that much tbh. Voice just got deeper and I’m taller
 
i have some news for you newcel, these people are called failed normies. And to answer your question, No.
An incel is merely a MAN who hasn’t had sex in 6+ months. Your hypothetical example meets both the normie and our more stringent criteria, he had some success with women but not full acceptance, I’d say he’s probably even a truecel.
incels are virgins not people who struggle to get laid
 
if they managed to get a female validation then this means they are not ugly enough to be considered incels, if you can get a positive reaction from a female even once then you can repeat this (assuming your looks are still the same)
I don't understand this way of thinking, so if you win the lottery you can just do it again?
 
I don’t see a problem, as long as your legitimate mindset falls in line and you’re not a faggot
 
i have some news for you newcel, these people are called failed normies. And to answer your question, No.

incels are virgins not people who struggle to get laid

No, truecels are virgins, incel means hard-up normies or omegas who get laid rarely.

hasn’t had sex in 6+ months. == Incel
:chad::chad::chad::chad::chad::chad::chad::banhammer::banhammer::banhammer::banhammer::banhammer:

Not me or how I view incel, it’s the accepted definition of incel which is why I came up with truecel.
 
Yes. Even chad can become an Incel if his looks get fucked up.

Childhood doesn’t really count since you’re not fully formed yet.
 
No, truecels are virgins, incel means hard-up normies or omegas who get laid rarely.



Not me or how I view incel, it’s the accepted definition of incel which is why I came up with truecel.
nope, incel means virgin. dry spells don't mean incel.
 
nope, incel means virgin. dry spells don't mean incel.

You can say that incel means virgin but it’s not seen that way by most people familiar with the term which is why I stopped fighting the tide and used another word for it.
 
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i never did any of that but i didn't look that bad before puberty so i probably could've avoided trueceldom but i was volcel at the time (had no sex drive obv)
only started wanting sexs after 18 for some reason
 
Shit genes that unfortunately kicked in late.
i could definitely gotten laid if looks maxxed when i was 18, i was much better looking than now, right now i simply see no hope
 
You can say that incel means virgin but it’s not seen that way by most people familiar with the term which is why I stopped fighting the tide and used another word for it.
cope
 
No, truecels are virgins, incel means hard-up normies or omegas who get laid rarely.
incels don't get rare sex lol, they're people can't get paid sex. truecels are incels who've never kissed, nor held a girls hand
 
I don't understand this way of thinking, so if you win the lottery you can just do it again?
All females are the same fundamentally/are attracted to same things, so if you managed to get at least one foid to be genuinely attracted to you, you should be able to repeat this in theory. As long as your looks level is the same obviously. So your attractiveness is not an issue in that case. You can't compare that to lottery since lottery is random and females are not.
 
The dating market is getting harder and harder. So say balding 30 year olds have no chance, even if they got laid in their 20s.
 
incels don't get rare sex lol, they're people can't get paid sex. truecels are incels who've never kissed, nor held a girls hand

No need to tell me what a truecel is since I coined it. There are different degrees of what a truecel is, I intended it to mean a virgin as the accepted definition was too broad. TBH, I agree with you but look at the definition on this site, it can be a guy who’s hard up for a while.
 
The only way is if they get their looks ruined, but kids don't really care too much about looks when you're young, hypergamy is an adult problem because kids don't go for the top 20% like adult foids do.
 
if they are completely virgin yes, but i woun't consider someone who had a blowjob an incel
 
All females are the same fundamentally/are attracted to same things, so if you managed to get at least one foid to be genuinely attracted to you, you should be able to repeat this in theory. As long as your looks level is the same obviously. So your attractiveness is not an issue in that case. You can't compare that to lottery since lottery is random and females are not.
It's not quite right, miracles may happen or shit, it doesn't mean that it will necessarily happen again. This honestly makes me a bit afraid of ascension, since I know it would end up like that and I'd lose this cope too. Thankfully, women constantly remind me that there's no need for me to worry about such scenarios. :feelskek:
 
I'm talking about people who did things like kissed a girl when they were 6, maybe went to a girls birthday party, might've had a gf when they were 10-13, has had female friends, possibly played spin the bottle when they were 12-16, and MAYBE landed a few bases,
Now you’re pushing it
 
It really depends on each case and each person's judgement.

A guy who kissed a girl when he was 6 and then grew up to be an ugly virgin and never kissed again is an incel in my book. Much more so than a good-looking and tall "mentalcel".

If you managed to have sex and relationships as a teen, this is already something much more significant, but if a long time has passed and your looks decreased enough so that you can't get anything anymore, yes, you're an incel, but if your looks are the same or it happened just a while back then no. The exact time or looks decrease factor to be considered incel is tough to pinpoint.
 
I'm talking about people who did things like kissed a girl when they were 6, maybe went to a girls birthday party, might've had a gf when they were 10-13, has had female friends, possibly played spin the bottle when they were 12-16, and MAYBE landed a few bases, but never had sex and their female-related life went to shit some point after that for one reason or another. Do they count as incel?
Ye if they never had sex they definitely could but they're still more fortunate and less damaged than someone who had no romantic experience from their youth. Getting sex and love from one foid in your teens is worth more than a hundred foids in your thirties.
 
Men can become incel after puberty, agepill, accidents etc

Inceldom is a broad church
 

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