Discussion [Poll] How many times have you attempted to ascend?

[superpsycho]

This includes but is not limited to:
-Warm approaches
-Cold approaches
-Asking a woman out on a date/asking a woman to be your girlfriend
-Attending a normie social event in hopes of getting a one night stand of some sort

I personally have attempted to ascend 4 times and all were a massive failure. I’m interested in seeing how many times you guys have tried.

 

[RealSchizo]

Never tried but what's the point ? I know the outcome. Foids will come to you if you were destined for ascension. Being outcasted your entire life signals your subhumanity, there is no point in trying.

 

[basedbaumi]

0

 

[outerdarkness]

Never tried but what's the point ? I know the outcome. Foids will come to you if you were destined for ascension. Being outcasted your entire life signals your subhumanity, there is no point in trying.

Yup, most people have it, we don’t.

 

[superpsycho]

Never tried but what's the point ? I know the outcome. Foids will come to you if you were destined for ascension. Being outcasted your entire life signals your subhumanity, there is no point in trying.

yea i agree trying is retarded

i only have 4 attempts because i was a redpiller as a teenager and i believed in cold approaching jfl, i wish i realized that most people dont try, it just comes to them

 

[AtrociousCitizen]

I can't say I have tried in any meaningful sense, but it seems pointless when I have had nothing but negative experiences with the opposite sex, and receive zero indicators of interest.

 

[TimeMachineOrLDAR]

10+

 

[TooSomething]

10+ easily in my teens. After that it got less and less.

Even as a blue pilled cuck I felt that it was over after my teens passed.

The closest I had ever gotten to ascension, if one can call that, was from an arranged date when I was 17.

One of my aunts arranged it.

I've had the feeling that the foid only went on the dates because she did not want to be rude and disappoint my aunt and her parents, who were friends.

She was so disinterested in what I've had to say, it was infuriating and extremely boring.

My aunt and uncle told me how they had prepared condoms for me, in case we end up having sex.

I, like the inexperienced sperg ghat I was, decided to tell her this.

I said something like "Just so you know, in case you want to have sex, I have condoms." .

Jfl at my stupid 17 yo self.

Anyway, no other date ever happened after that. Her mother called my aunt and told her that she does not want to see me anymore because I have said some perverted and insensitive things to her.

Like she ever wanted to see me in the first place.

My aunt was angry at me for saying this. I really had zero clue on how to talk to foid back then.
My uncle chuckled and was not angry. He was cool about it and told me that I had mich go learn.

Now he knows that I am an incel.

 

[Macaca nigra]

There's no point only foids will approach.

 

[Caichan]

Twice then I decided to never get up

 

[TooSomething]

I can't say I have tried in any meaningful sense, but it seems pointless when I have had nothing but negative experiences with the opposite sex, and receive zero indicators of interest.

Not being obviously desired is a horrible feeling, man.

I am closing in on turning 39 and I am growing more bitter with every day.

I have never had passionate and mutual sex, especially not in my teens, when I was at the top.

My hormones were raging and I've had no outlet for that.
I was so brutally alive as a teen.
It lasted till 25.

I was so full of strength, stamina and lifefuel.

But the older I got, the more it faded.

It is taking a toll on my health and I am beginning to feel it.

Another curse is being too conscious and too intelligent, so you can thoroughly process it all and it hurts even more.

Sometimes knowledge and thorough understanding are a curse. This is such a time.

 

[AtrociousCitizen]

Not being obviously desired is a horrible feeling, man.

I am closing in on turning 39 and I am growing more bitter with every day.

I have never had passionate and mutual sex, especially not in my teens, when I was at the top.

My hormones were raging and I've had no outlet for that.
I was so brutally alive as a teen.
It lasted till 25.

I was so full of strength, stamina and lifefuel.

But the older I got, the more it faded.

It is taking a toll on my health and I am beginning to feel it.

What hurts most is knowing you have all that energy for nothing. Your body is screaming for intimacy, connection, passion, yet you will never have the opportunity to fulfill those needs.

Another curse is being too conscious and too intelligent, so you can thoroughly process it all and it hurts even more.

Sometimes knowledge and thorough understanding are a curse. This is such a time.

Indeed.

 

[LeFrenchCel]

10+

 

[Chirag gupta]

I’ve never walked up and asked out any foids, but I have went on big weight loss phases with the intention of foids finding me attractive and walking up to me which obviously ended up In failure.

Last year I went to a may-day festival and walked around it all alone waiting for any girl to come up to me and ask me out.

I probably looked like such a retard just walking around a relatively small field all by myself for hours jfl

 

[ihatelife2]

Not being obviously desired is a horrible feeling, man.

I am closing in on turning 39 and I am growing more bitter with every day.

I have never had passionate and mutual sex, especially not in my teens, when I was at the top.

My hormones were raging and I've had no outlet for that.
I was so brutally alive as a teen.
It lasted till 25.

I was so full of strength, stamina and lifefuel.

But the older I got, the more it faded.

It is taking a toll on my health and I am beginning to feel it.

Another curse is being too conscious and too intelligent, so you can thoroughly process it all and it hurts even more.

Sometimes knowledge and thorough understanding are a curse. This is such a time.

Wow I'm similar age man. I'm bitter and miserable too.

 

[Grodd]

10+

 

[endoftheskies]

This includes but is not limited to:
-Warm approaches
-Cold approaches
-Asking a woman out on a date/asking a woman to be your girlfriend
-Attending a normie social event in hopes of getting a one night stand of some sort

I personally have attempted to ascend 4 times and all were a massive failure. I’m interested in seeing how many times you guys have tried.

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[ordinaryotaku]

Dozens of times. I think at this point my only solution is kidnapmaxxing or rapemaxxing if I really want to get out of this.

 

[Mr.Breb]

Once when I began teenage, I socialized much more than nowadays
Other when I got into the gym at 17, to "ascend" though most of my teenage was already missed

 

[Rapistcel]

This includes but is not limited to:
-Warm approaches
-Cold approaches
-Asking a woman out on a date/asking a woman to be your girlfriend
-Attending a normie social event in hopes of getting a one night stand of some sort

I personally have attempted to ascend 4 times and all were a massive failure. I’m interested in seeing how many times you guys have tried.

I tried 5 times online but all of those foids rejected me, I have never tried it in real life, would have been a suicide.

 

[NormieCelll]

I've lost count, must be in the triple digits by now

 

[Ryo_Hazuki]

Hundreds and hundreds.

Back when I was young there were some days where I did more than 10 approaches. There were plenty of whole days I dedicated to cold approaching. I'd wake up, shower, get dressed, go to the mall, go some cold approaches, maybe change venues and hit up a coffee shop or something just to cold approach there, then go home, message some women on okcupid or POF, shower, change clothes, and either go to a house party to approach if I got invited to one, or just hit up a club to cold approach there too.

I regret all of it.

 

[nirvana]

Lost track of how many rejections I got.

 

[bluetonguedskink]

Many times, however as i’ve got older less and less. Once I became blackpilled I stopped trying.

 

[The Death Devil]

I can't say I have tried in any meaningful sense, but it seems pointless when I have had nothing but negative experiences with the opposite sex, and receive zero indicators of interest.

This has generally been my experience as well desu. I've always been kind of 'off' as a person as a whole, even though I hadn't noticed it for a while. I already had a pretty tough time with managing to keep more than a male friend or two in school, let alone manage to court a girl. I wish I could say that I've always been treated like 'trash' by foids, but that's not entirely true—outside of a few notable instances (of which, all were extremely negative), I just kind of got treated like I didn't exist. Foids have always seemed uncomfortable talking to me, almost like some foreign, inhuman creature started conversing with them and they wished for nothing more than to just disengage entirely.

Perhaps we truly are just a different species, after all.

 

[The Death Devil]

I regret all of it.

Oh? What particular part of it do you regret? The time wasted? Or the humiliation you experienced?

 

[Ryo_Hazuki]

Oh? What particular part of it do you regret? The time wasted? Or the humiliation you experienced?

Both.

Also, no matter how "STOOOOIC" you are, doing that many cold approaches and getting rejected by every single woman is going to take a psychological toll on you. Especially true when a lot of those women are sub4 and some rejected you extremely harshly. I also got knocked out by a woman's boyfriend doing day game. And by knocked out I mean literally knocked unconscious. I probably have brain damage from that.

 

[superpsycho]

Hundreds and hundreds.

Back when I was young there were some days where I did more than 10 approaches. There were plenty of whole days I dedicated to cold approaching. I'd wake up, shower, get dressed, go to the mall, go some cold approaches, maybe change venues and hit up a coffee shop or something just to cold approach there, then go home, message some women on okcupid or POF, shower, change clothes, and either go to a house party to approach if I got invited to one, or just hit up a club to cold approach there too.

I regret all of it.

this is fucking insane man

i got bullied out of cold approaching after my 4th failed attempt, i dont know how u kept going for so long.

 

[TooSomething]

Hundreds and hundreds.

Back when I was young there were some days where I did more than 10 approaches. There were plenty of whole days I dedicated to cold approaching. I'd wake up, shower, get dressed, go to the mall, go some cold approaches, maybe change venues and hit up a coffee shop or something just to cold approach there, then go home, message some women on okcupid or POF, shower, change clothes, and either go to a house party to approach if I got invited to one, or just hit up a club to cold approach there too.

I regret all of it.

It truely is over for you and I am sorry this happened to you, man.

 

[superpsycho]

I said something like "Just so you know, in case you want to have sex, I have condoms." .

Jfl at my stupid 17 yo self.

it was worth it to be honest, as it wasnt going anywhere anyway

 

[Hoodpreet]

Directly? Never. But I did “put myself out there” for much of HS by thugmaxxing/jestermaxxing and trying to socialmaxx. My hope was that I’d get approached by a foid, since I wasn’t BP’d at the time and saw Chads and Tyrones getting it

 

[TooSomething]

it was worth it to be honest, as it wasnt going anywhere anyway

My aunt was super ashamed because of me. I was quite a bit of a sperg back then too, for some reason.

It has gotten better, compared to back then.

 

[superpsycho]

I’ve never walked up and asked out any foids, but I have went on big weight loss phases with the intention of foids finding me attractive and walking up to me which obviously ended up In failure.

Last year I went to a may-day festival and walked around it all alone waiting for any girl to come up to me and ask me out.

I probably looked like such a retard just walking around a relatively small field all by myself for hours jfl

Once when I began teenage, I socialized much more than nowadays
Other when I got into the gym at 17, to "ascend" though most of my teenage was already missed

i also gymcelled and went through weight loss phases as a teen in hopes of ascending

i just ended up anorexic and suicidal because my bone structure is garbage

 

[DeformedDysgenicCel]

I never tried.

 

[St3v3Cel]

Once I became blackpilled I stopped trying.

I also got knocked out by a woman's boyfriend doing day game. And by knocked out I mean literally knocked unconscious. I probably have brain damage from that.

Insane world we live in. You really went above and beyond, at least you can have some pride in that. Even if it wasn't worth it. Brutal.

 

[Reapercel]

Plus 10+

It not fair

 

[The Death Devil]

Also, no matter how "STOOOOIC" you are, doing that many cold approaches and getting rejected by every single woman is going to take a psychological toll on you. Especially true when a lot of those women are sub4 and some rejected you extremely harshly.

I can imagine so. I suppose I should count myself as fortunate to have discovered the black-pill early enough to save me from those experiences...

I also got knocked out by a woman's boyfriend doing day game. And by knocked out I mean literally knocked unconscious. I probably have brain damage from that.

Jesus Christ, my most sincere condolences... the worst part is that those grifting PUA won't ever comment on how this is a thing that happens. Some faggots really are so into that 'competitive' mindset that they will happily risk going to jail for assault just to defend against an attack on their pride—or at least, what they perceive to be one. It's why I carry Mace on me for the sake of defending myself in case some random person decides I've somehow done something offensive towards them.

 

[ImperialArk]

enough to be blackpilled, at some point pattern recognition kicks in

 

[keithbauhaus]

Look at the gaps in my post history, lol.

 

[AtrociousCitizen]

This has generally been my experience as well desu. I've always been kind of 'off' as a person as a whole, even though I hadn't noticed it for a while. I already had a pretty tough time with managing to keep more than a male friend or two in school, let alone manage to court a girl. I wish I could say that I've always been treated like 'trash' by foids, but that's not entirely true—outside of a few notable instances (of which, all were extremely negative), I just kind of got treated like I didn't exist. Foids have always seemed uncomfortable talking to me, almost like some foreign, inhuman creature started conversing with them and they wished for nothing more than to just disengage entirely.

Perhaps we truly are just a different species, after all.

I strongly relate to this, man. My entire life I have felt like an aberration in my environment — a being which is incompatible with the rest of humanity, the people around me; I have never been able to hack the social landscape and comprehend how to be a human. The very fact that I have had to deliberate for so long about possibilities to do so is a demonstration of that fact in and of itself, because what human spends such a considerable amount of time reverse engineering human affairs? I have said it before, but I may as well be an extraterrestrial roaming the earth; at least that is how I feel in comparison to the humans around me, in comparison to those whose life flows seamlessly; the only problem is that I remain held back by my humanity, and the inescapable needs that are part of its essence.

 

[superpsycho]

I strongly relate to this, man. My entire life I have felt like an aberration in my environment — a being which is incompatible with the rest of humanity, the people around me; I have never been able to hack the social landscape and comprehend how to be a human. The very fact that I have had to deliberate for so long about possibilities to do so is a demonstration of that fact in and of itself, because what human spends such a considerable amount of time reverse engineering human affairs? I have said it before, but I may as well be an extraterrestrial roaming the earth; at least that is how I feel in comparison to the humans around me, in comparison to those whose life flows seamlessly; the only problem is that I remain held back by my humanity, and the inescapable needs that are part of its essence.

same here man, i feel like an alien among everyone else

life is just one big RNG

 

[AtrociousCitizen]

same here man, i feel like an alien among everyone else

life is just one big RNG

Yep. It's such a miserable existence, especially when we cannot escape our human needs

 

[The Death Devil]

I strongly relate to this, man. My entire life I have felt like an aberration in my environment — a being which is incompatible with the rest of humanity, the people around me; I have never been able to hack the social landscape and comprehend how to be a human. The very fact that I have had to deliberate for so long about possibilities to do so is a demonstration of that fact in and of itself, because what human spends such a considerable amount of time reverse engineering human affairs? I have said it before, but I may as well be an extraterrestrial roaming the earth; at least that is how I feel in comparison to the humans around me, in comparison to those whose life flows seamlessly; the only problem is that I remain held back by my humanity, and the inescapable needs that are part of its essence.

I'm pleased to see that there are others who truly do relate to what I'm describing. Frequently does one second-guess his ability to comprehend his own situation...

I have said it before, but I may as well be an extraterrestrial roaming the earth

How interesting, I chose the title of 'devil' instead. I thought it appropriate considering devils are beings who are inherently evil and loathed. I'm quite content with it~. Ultimately, though, I don't think it matters what kind of label one chooses to adorn himself with—be it 'alien,' 'devil,' or 'subhuman'—it merely need be something other than 'human being,' and it would be accurate.

To believe one is something other than human—merely engaging in some vague form of mimicry, but never skilled enough to manage it successfully... eternally 'strange' and 'other.' A solemn thought, is it not?

 

[MokaWeed]

4-5 times warm and cold approach, but rejected every time. Now i have a fear of rejection and humiliation so i've stopped trying.

 

[Q. H. Cooks]

JFL at those options. Hundreds of times, nigger. When I was much younger and better-looking at that. At least I know for a fact it's 100% over for me.

 

[autistandugly]

0

Really?

 

[Creamcel]

I don't know the exact number, but it is more than 50.

I did 6 cold approaches, and the rest were warm approaches. None of them resulted in a first date, they either wanted to friendzone me or they just started avoiding me entirely.

I haven't tried a dating app yet and I haven't done anymore IRL approaches since I graduated high school. I might try a dating app as a last ditch effort to ascend, but knowing how dating apps are, I'm sure it will be a fail.

 

[StressTensorCel]

I have tried multiple times, but it never worked out. One time I had a foid who I was really close with, she even called me funny, but she said we should just remain friends.

 

[StressTensorCel]

I don't know the exact number, but it is more than 50.

I did 6 cold approaches, and the rest were warm approaches. None of them resulted in a first date, they either wanted to friendzone me or they just started avoiding me entirely.

I haven't tried a dating app yet and I haven't done anymore IRL approaches since I graduated high school. I might try a dating app as a last ditch effort to ascend, but knowing how dating apps are, I'm sure it will be a fail.

How tf do you even cold approach? I have never tried cold approaching because I would probably get charged for SA or something because of my height, autism and below average face. All my attempts were by asking out foids I was already friends with.

 

[cactusjuice]

zero, ive never talked to a girl outside of school or work.