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View: https://www.tiktok.com/@laura_lape/video/7120798380212669738?referer_url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.msn.com%2F&referer_video_id=7120798380212669738&refer=embed&referer_url=https://www.msn.com/en-us/lifestyle/lifestyle-buzz/e2-80-98i-was-silent-e2-80-99-woman-says-uber-driver-played-e2-80-98incel-adjacent-misogynistic-e2-80-99-audiobook-during-ride/ar-AAZKTYU
Article: https://www.msn.com/en-us/lifestyle...tic-e2-80-99-audiobook-during-ride/ar-AAZKTYU
In an interview with the Daily Dot, Lape said she was at an event in downtown Fort Worth, Texas, when she ordered an Uber... She is a stay-at-home mother of three children and said that because it was late, and her husband was putting the children to bed, she decided to Uber home instead of having him pick her up.
When Lape got in the car, she said her Uber driver did not say hello or make small talk but instead cranked up the audiobook loudly without warning or asking for her permission. While listening to the book’s various assumptions about women, she said she went through “mental gymnastics” trying to understand if he was targeting her because he perceived her as a “party girl” or an easy target, and went through a process of “risk analysis” of trying to decide if she was actually in danger or not.
Lape said she texted her husband, shared her ride information with both him and a friend, and began recording the ride as evidence in case anything happened. Lape said the route of the ride was almost completely on a long, high-speed highway, making it difficult to end the ride. Despite usually being an outspoken person, she said she remained silent in an effort to not escalate the situation, out of fear the driver now knew her home address.
“As women, we’re taught to do this kind of risk analysis. … This person who clearly thinks women are beneath men in every sort of way, that has my information, do I want to make him mad?” the TikToker recalled questioning. “I couldn’t decide if I was disappointed in myself for not speaking up or if I was proud of myself for getting home, you know? Which is just another sort of mental gymnastics.”
The fear of violence, Lape said, is why she won’t publicly share the full details of the driver’s identity. As a mother with three children, she said she does not want to risk putting her family in danger.
“I’ve got kids and I want to respect their safety,” the TikToker said. “He should be held accountable. But I don’t know if I should be the one to hold him accountable for the safety of my family.”...
The audiobook in question is The Evolution of Desire: Strategies of Human Mating by evolutionary psychologist David M. Buss. While Buss is not an incel, nor does he identify as a misogynist in his work, many of the evolutionary psychology and economic ideas he promotes could certainly be identified as manosphere-adjacent.
Imagine listening to sociosexual dynamics being explained to you by an academic and feeling threatened for your life because of it
Holy shit roasties are neurotic as fuck, they are triggered so fucking easily. Not to mention this wrinkly pink-haired nose-pierced roast beef breeded three times and has a husband. Something about this clip and this story just struck me in a tantalizing way, it's like the entirety of clown world society distilled into a 23-second clip
