Lv99_BixNood
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View: https://old.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/1cefq62/pick_better_men/
I'm so tired of hearing this stupid, lazy victim blaming bullshit. It's useless advice. Do they really think that abusive or otherwise terrible men act like that immediately in a relationship? If they do, (almost) no one is going to go on a second date with that man.
It's the "drink more water" of relationship advice. It's unhelpful at best and harmful at worse. Just be quiet if that's all you have to say.
It's just impossible to tell that 6'4 felon Chad with three prior convictions for DV will beat you up. He was so nice on the first date