According to an article from the scientific blackpill, it is normal for a man to want to exert control over his female partners
https://digitalcommons.usu.edu/cgi/viewcontent.cgi?article=1601&context=fchd_facpub
"There should be strong selection on males to control females' reproduction through direct coercive control of females.... Evolutionary thinkers, whether informed by feminist ideas or not, are not surprised by one of the overwhelming facts of patriarchal cultures, namely that men ... seek to constrain and control the reproductive capacities of women.... Juvenilization decreases the threat some men may feel when confronted with women; many men are comfortable around women whom they can clearly dominate and are profoundly uncomfortable around women whom they cannot so clearly dominate. The hypothesis that femininity signals ability to be dominated through juvenilization is an alternative to, but not necessarily mutually exclusive of, other evolutionary hypotheses that posit that femininity signals, sometimes deceptively, reproductive value and fertility.
The reverse is true for females, they want to be dominated by their male partners, as evidenced by their rape fantasies and their love for 50 Shades of Grey. In fact, women will often admit they want a man who can take control in bed and be a leader.
So society applauds females' submissive side, but shames males' natural desire to dominate.
