From reddit, some foids from my native country, not america, i m going to translate the text to english, i m not going to put the source because u won t understand the language!
All foids from all countries are the same!
Foid A:
My last relationship was a year ago, my ex hurt me a lot, but I still love him..after a year. Although I am aware that he hurt me a lot, the feelings don't go away, I thought it was just emotional attachment or trauma bonding, but I know it hurts like in the first months.
For a while I was ok, he looked for me even though he was in a relationship and I managed to hold on because during that time I was a little detached because I was aware of the traumas he left (I ended up on medication for depressive-anxiety disorder). I immersed myself in work and activities. I talked to other men for a while and for a while I forgot about him and thought I was over it, I was really happy. But now that the distractions are gone and my thoughts and longing for him are taking over.
I don't know if I suffer from him as a person or from the traumas and how ugly I have come to see myself because of him. I'm kicking myself for still feeling something for him and I'm the one who still suffers the most...and he's in another relationship. And yes, I know it's time to move on and that's what I'm trying to do, but it's hard because I feel like I'll never get over it.
How did you guys manage to get over it? What helped you?
Foid B:
What I don't recommend is, and I can't stress this enough, going back to him. Absolutely terrible mistake, which should be common sense, but it's not always like that.A few years later we met again by chance and I said, "That's it, he's definitely a new man." How wrong I could have been! ( this foid also had a toxic bf)
Foid C:
Yes, I had a kind of relationship that started and ended toxic. Which left me wanting to take a break from men for a few months. And I kept thinking about him? Why? Because I had nothing better to do.Clearly it's emotional attachment. And it's normal that once your distractions disappear, you keep thinking about him, because you have no one else to turn to. Usually we like to cling to one person when we're in pain.
Foid D:
You suffer for the potential you saw in him and the life you could have had if the relationship had worked.
A, B, C, D are all different foids!
Its over buddy boyos, there is no personality for our face and height!
All foids from all countries are the same!
Foid A:
My last relationship was a year ago, my ex hurt me a lot, but I still love him..after a year. Although I am aware that he hurt me a lot, the feelings don't go away, I thought it was just emotional attachment or trauma bonding, but I know it hurts like in the first months.
For a while I was ok, he looked for me even though he was in a relationship and I managed to hold on because during that time I was a little detached because I was aware of the traumas he left (I ended up on medication for depressive-anxiety disorder). I immersed myself in work and activities. I talked to other men for a while and for a while I forgot about him and thought I was over it, I was really happy. But now that the distractions are gone and my thoughts and longing for him are taking over.
I don't know if I suffer from him as a person or from the traumas and how ugly I have come to see myself because of him. I'm kicking myself for still feeling something for him and I'm the one who still suffers the most...and he's in another relationship. And yes, I know it's time to move on and that's what I'm trying to do, but it's hard because I feel like I'll never get over it.
How did you guys manage to get over it? What helped you?
Foid B:
What I don't recommend is, and I can't stress this enough, going back to him. Absolutely terrible mistake, which should be common sense, but it's not always like that.A few years later we met again by chance and I said, "That's it, he's definitely a new man." How wrong I could have been! ( this foid also had a toxic bf)
Foid C:
Yes, I had a kind of relationship that started and ended toxic. Which left me wanting to take a break from men for a few months. And I kept thinking about him? Why? Because I had nothing better to do.Clearly it's emotional attachment. And it's normal that once your distractions disappear, you keep thinking about him, because you have no one else to turn to. Usually we like to cling to one person when we're in pain.
Foid D:
You suffer for the potential you saw in him and the life you could have had if the relationship had worked.
A, B, C, D are all different foids!
Its over buddy boyos, there is no personality for our face and height!
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