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Perfect or nothing mentality

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Just say NIGGER!

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I have seen that a lot of people in these spaces seem to have the mentality of "I'm not a 9/10 7' tall multibillionare, so I will throw my life away" or in the case of looksmaxxers they attempt to reach this unrealistic standard. I'm far way in my stats from even being passable, so this doesn't bother me much, but there are people who would be able to live decent (not ideal) lives if they simply accepted the genetics and money/status they were given at birth.
 
Ya I don't like ultimatum way of thinking either. I'm only 90% of the way to women's ideal therefore LDAR never began
 
Yea tbh, if anything as a disadvantaged male you should b trying to progress in at least something, even if its something small like going for a walk or something. How can you call yourself incel if you never even tried? Not jus for women but jus for ur own quality of life.

I see it as one should have a balance to have a good life, sometimes periods of intense obsession and drive when u need to get something done or progress as building something takes way more work than maintaining it.
 
No ones coming to save our asses, u gotta save urself
 
Yea tbh, if anything as a disadvantaged male you should b trying to progress in at least something, even if its something small like going for a walk or something. How can you call yourself incel if you never even tried? Not jus for women but jus for ur own quality of life.
I'm not even specifically talking about improving one's situation in a meaningful sense, but just improving your life quality in simple ways that can make you feel better or live better. Getting healthier and living in a clean environment is good for both your body and mind, but it obviously won't get you women or money.
 
I'm not even specifically talking about improving one's situation in a meaningful sense, but just improving your life quality in simple ways that can make you feel better or live better. Getting healthier and living in a clean environment is good for both your body and mind, but it obviously won't get you women or money.
Me 2
 
I think it is somewhat of a fakecel trait to let yourself go like that. I for an example don't have the luxury of getting fat since I don't have the money to support myself if I get some heart complications because of it nor would my job care.
 
I think it is somewhat of a fakecel trait to let yourself go like that. I for an example don't have the luxury of getting fat since I don't have the money to support myself if I get some heart complications because of it nor would my job care.
It shows youre not that far gone imo, some guys cant even get employment or a roof over their heads theres no rotting when stuff like that happens. Its a luxury for us to even b using this forum tbh
 
These days im thankfuk jus to even be able to drink water shit can get bad real quick
 
I will never be perfect, I will never be good, I will never even be average. This is not a mentality, this is my reality. I have nothing and am nothing
 
Most blue pilled low IQ thread with the most blue pilled low IQ responses in 2026 so far.
 
I will never be perfect, I will never be good, I will never even be average. This is not a mentality, this is my reality. I have nothing and am nothing
:yes:
 
I will never be perfect, I will never be good, I will never even be average. This is not a mentality, this is my reality. I have nothing and am nothing
Same.:cryfeels:
 
We are nothing.
 
Most blue pilled low IQ thread with the most blue pilled low IQ responses in 2026 so far.
Thank you for your high IQ input
 
I will never be perfect, I will never be good, I will never even be average. This is not a mentality, this is my reality. I have nothing and am nothing
Missed the whole point award. It's not think about changing your view of where you are in reality, but simply saying "I never stood a chance, so I might as well enjoy my life however I can"
 
Something something Fatalism.

I'm an ND NEET in a country where the bare minimum requirement for a GF is having a job.

I know a total of 4 incels, all ND and NEETs, this is what happens to sub 7 NEETs where I live, pussyless and childless, thankfully I woke up and embranced Fatalism so I can tank another decade.

But the suffering will only end when your eyes close and your existence slowly fades, not before.

Fatalism > Stoicism > Buddhism > Any other faggotry.
 
I have seen that a lot of people in these spaces seem to have the mentality of "I'm not a 9/10 7' tall multibillionare, so I will throw my life away" or in the case of looksmaxxers they attempt to reach this unrealistic standard. I'm far way in my stats from even being passable, so this doesn't bother me much, but there are people who would be able to live decent (not ideal) lives if they simply accepted the genetics and money/status they were given at birth.
I just want to become gl MTN.
That's it. Nothing else.
 

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