people have done nothing but use me when i had good intentions

[Despicablecel]

i had no bad intentions. I acted very genuinely and got punished for it. People with more social experience and ability would know I didn't have many friends so I had more to lose than them so they'd guilt me into doing things. I didn't usually see it coming and thought they were just as genuine as me. Turns out words mean nothing when coming out of a homo sapien's mouth. They just want to create a fake friendship and then use it for self validation. All just want to hear themselves talk over and over and will do anything to achieve this even guilting people. Like say they talk about themselves for 30 mins straight and then eventually I'm like can we talk about something else cause all we talk about is you, they'd literally tell me i dont care about them in a very serious voice. This is contradictory cause i'd talk about myself not even for validation just matter of factly and they'd ignore me and go on a tangent about themselves. People are just so selfish. They don't want a proper conversation where both people benefit intellectually. THey just want to hear the sound of their own voice.

 

[DespressedCurryCel1]

People like to hurt nice people. I can confirm this because I had a nice non-NT friend. He never swore, was always trying to be a "good person" and he was Catholic. Every time he spoke I wanted to punch him on the face for no reason. I also verbally insulted him at times cuz it felt good doing so.

 

[Mrugly420]

That's why you need to be a narcissistic asshole as an incel imo, best for you

 

[AsiaCel]

 

[Despicablecel]

People like to hurt nice people. I can confirm this because I had a nice non-NT friend. He never swore, was always trying to be a "good person" and he was Catholic. Every time he spoke I wanted to punch him on the face for no reason. I also verbally insulted him at times cuz it felt good doing so.

i wasn't trying to be a "good person" im not saying this cause i feel like the nice guy role is emasculating i genuinely just wasn't trying to be a good person. If someone asked me a question i would answer it in a practical manner. If i asked someone else anything they wouldn't even try to think of anything they'd just change the subject or say one word. Figuring out after a certain age people just don't care enough to answer things properly if they don't have respect for you or attraction to you is kinda annoying tbh.

 

[NihilisticSoul]

When i was younger i was kind by nature and this allowed people to use me as a doormat, i learned my lesson and im selfish now.

 

[Ramcel]

same here, I once helped an individual with an album cover and spent literal weeks on that shit and even bought some shit tablet. After that, one of my friends dragged me into his project and I hated the whole project because it made no sense but I tried to help anyways. Ended up having to buy 2d sw when I wanted to do 3d. Then, some fuckers wanted me to do rendered realistic scenes and I can't even afford a decent gpu. Art's not something I wish to do in this degenerate manner, it was sad to see myself slaving like a retard to s erve these folks when I had other plans for things to study.

 

[Intellau_Celistic]

He wanted Shannon. Shannon wanted James, so he settled for Samantha. I don't want either.

However, I think I'll remain a spectator and simply log my experiences with other holes.

 

[Despicablecel]

When i was younger i was kind by nature and this allowed people to use me as a doormat, i learned my lesson and im selfish now.

yes same, after 2 instances of people with higher status using me to talk about themselves i stopped making friends with people just for the sake of making friends. Before because i found it really hard to make any friends I would take anyone. Now since I'm better at making friends I know that missing out on one person won't be the end of the world. I also had 0 social experience and thought you were supposed to answer everything people told u when that is just making the other person think u would do anything for them. I never noticed social nuances until later than most people tbh. Most humans even us are selfish at heart dont forget this. Even if you got used by someone just know that that person also probably got used at some point. Maybe they didn't and they went through life acting the same way and succeeding cause of looks but there's always a bigger fish so they probably experienced it at least once. None of us are mentally better tbh. We are all flawed. Genetics influence whether we show our true side or not.

 

[Intellau_Celistic]

My major isn't even art lmfao.

I took Graphics Design.

 

[Despicablecel]

I realized that people treat you better if you stab them, steal all of their money and piss on them than if you actually help them. I've been manipulated too many times.

Unironically true. Respect is everything. You have to make people uncomfortable, you have to show them you are not afraid of reacting in a confrontational way when showing dismay at their actions. Even if you aren't that angry at their actions you have to show you are so they respect you. This makes your IMAGE better so they care more about you. Men love to worship men who command respect like Andrew Tate. I'm not someone who is obsessed with respect btw but I need to command it just to have a normal friendship.

 

[ADHD_cel]

That's why I've become a misanthrope

 

[Izayacel]

That's why you need to be a narcissistic asshole as an incel imo, best for you

 

[Izayacel]

People are Backwards , never forget "

 

[Count Yorga]

When i was younger i was kind by nature and this allowed people to use me as a doormat, i learned my lesson and im selfish now.

Based.

 

[Count Yorga]

I realized that people treat you better if you stab them, steal all of their money and piss on them than if you actually help them. I've been manipulated too many times.

This.