Venting People don’t understand how hard it is to be ugly

[Michael15651]

I’m not just talking about the general struggles or not being handsome enough for anyone. I’m talking about how NO ONE believes you.

I’m 23 years old and have everything, M3, house, make well into 6 figures, get along with all my coworkers… BUT never had friends or had any girl attracted to me.

I always get invited to parties but I always reject them saying, “I’ll think about it,” but never get back to them. People genuinely wanting to help me get laid.

I’m too afraid of rejection because I KNOW I’m ugly. But if I say that to them, they’d instantly deny it or say I’m just feeling sorry for myself.

A recent example was just yesterday… someone say my car and was like, “how many bitches do you get in this thing?”

I responded, “none,”

And he was like, “you must be doing something wrong”

When in truth I’m so ugly I don’t wanna be an embarrassment to them when I’m with them in their friend group INCLUDING a bunch of girls.

No one believes you if you say you’re ugly. But at the same time no girl will ever call you handsome. It’s a constant spiral.

 

[Samkakum]

Have you gave hardmaxxing a try? im sure you find good plastic surgeons with 6 figures

 

[AsgardoTheFatcel]

I am almost 25 years old. I have no job. I am uneducated. And I'm of lower intelligence, too. We're not that different except for the aforementioned traits. Do not expect anything from anyone. Just... do your own thing. Move... on (better said than done (can't be done unless you are no longer conscious)). No one cares, like, really... no one cares. Even if you wanted to, most people cannot relate to the struggles of truly unappealing men (in looks) and so the only thing you have left is complaining with other men on the same boat (here) or maybe just continuing living while shifting your focus elsewhere.

 

[Notkev]

What do you do to make 6 figures man? Just curious. Men like us really need money.

 

[Corvus]

they want you to go to a party so they can kick your ass

 

[FumoCum]

A recent example was just yesterday… someone say my car and was like, “how many bitches do you get in this thing?”

I responded, “none,”

And he was like, “you must be doing something wrong”

He's right though you made the mistake of being born unattractive.

Have you gave hardmaxxing a try? im sure you find good plastic surgeons with 6 figures

This. At least you can do plastic surgery and maybe leg lengthening.

 

[NT's Aren't People]

you will be part chud incel techbro oligarchy. u will be fine. At least u make good money most of us here are just getting our lives together in our early to mid 20's or have nothing at all.

 

[Doesitmatter?]

Leg bons

 

[Grodd]

I always get invited to parties but I always reject them saying, “I’ll think about it,” but never get back to them. People genuinely wanting to help me get laid.

 

[Izayacel]

Get Even More Money so you can Fuck Off / Fuck All . Might aswell show a Middle Finger to someone while spitting on a 100 Dollar Bill @Michael15651

 

[WorthlessSlavicShit]

I’m 23 years old and have everything, M3, house, make well into 6 figures, get along with all my coworkers… BUT never had friends or had any girl attracted to me.

Cool, I'm 27 and have nothing. I'm from a country where the average age of leaving our parents' household is already 31 and it's been constantly increasing over the years due to our shit wages not being able to keep up with house price/rent inflation, we are the poorest country in the EU by multiple metrics and I'm a part-timer making less than 90% of the population...

What I'm saying is, wanna switch?

make well into 6 figures,

Honestly, with your money you can just find some poorfag girl and betabuxx her. Very hard to stay incel if you're rich.

I always get invited to parties but I always reject them saying, “I’ll think about it,” but never get back to them. People genuinely wanting to help me get laid.

This nigga got to be trolling at this point.

 

[Michael15651]

This nigga got to be trolling at this point.

I wish I was tbh

I genuinely have a fear of rejection. They told me to try dating apps and even picked out my pictures and setup my profile and not nothing.

They want me to cold approach with girls at the club with them and give me pointers and introduce me to their girlfriend’s friends, aka “two man”.

Basically two guys go on a date with two girls, but I’m afraid him and his date will hit it off meanwhile I’ll stand there awkwardly with my date when we’re having dinner

 

[WorthlessSlavicShit]

I wish I was tbh

I genuinely have a fear of rejection. They told me to try dating apps and even picked out my pictures and setup my profile and not nothing.

They want me to cold approach with girls at the club with them and give me pointers and introduce me to their girlfriend’s friends, aka “two man”.

Basically two guys go on a date with two girls, but I’m afraid him and his date will hit it off meanwhile I’ll stand there awkwardly with my date when we’re having dinner

Brutal. I can see that, hope you'll be able to defeat that fear eventually. From my own experience dealing with stuff like that, age alone might eventually help you, as the realization of how much time you're losing eventually start pushing you through even if your fear tries stopping.

Sorry if the tone of my post seemed too haughty, you seem like one of the few guys here who legit have a chance and have a lot of things going for them. Hope it works out for you.

 

[TheHungariancel]

I'm from a country where the average age of leaving our parents' household is already 31 and it's been constantly increasing over the years due to our shit wages not being able to keep up with house price/rent inflation, we are the poorest country in the EU by multiple metrics and I'm a part-timer making less than 90% of the population.

Let me guess: Bulgaria?

 

[skyrim]

 

[TheProphetMuscle]

Aren’t you a cop now?

 

[WorthlessSlavicShit]

Let me guess: Bulgaria?

No, to the north of you guys.

 

[TheHungariancel]

No, to the north of you guys.

I see. Well, I guess it depends on which part of the country are we talking about. The western part seems decent, the eastern part though…

 

[Michael15651]

Aren’t you a cop now?

Yeah

 

[DarkStar]

Cool, I'm 27 and have nothing. I'm from a country where the average age of leaving our parents' household is already 31 and it's been constantly increasing over the years due to our shit wages not being able to keep up with house price/rent inflation, we are the poorest country in the EU by multiple metrics and I'm a part-timer making less than 90% of the population...

Brutal to read & I agree he kinda bragged but in general, when people mention "well I make six figures and own a house" it is oftentimes them just saying they did everything literally everyone tells us & still can't ascend

What I'm saying is, wanna switch?

I'd take his circumstances ofc, atp all I ask for is my own place(ideally a house but apartment works), a decent job, and being able to live independent.

Honestly, with your money you can just find some poorfag girl and betabuxx her. Very hard to stay incel if you're rich.

I hate if i sound like a dick but in what world is just making 6 figures "rich?"

I mean yeah sure it is a lot better than what most people have & i know it depends on the location, but 6 figures alone isn't "rich" at all, especially if its less than like 250k i'd say. Now ofc, I am speaking by US metrics since as I said, I do know a lot of places are different.

Rich to me would mean you can go out and spend a grand on a weekend and have little to no repercussions

And even then, is betabuxxing really ascending ?

This nigga got to be trolling at this point.

Yeah that's the part I don't like, I mean he has people in the post-college world inviting him to actual "adult" parties & seemingly want to help him on top of him already having a decent income combined with a nice car.

 

[the kurdish loner]

so you have allat

 

[DarkStar]

Brutal. I can see that, hope you'll be able to defeat that fear eventually. From my own experience dealing with stuff like that, age alone might eventually help you, as the realization of how much time you're losing eventually start pushing you through even if your fear tries stopping.

From my experince it was a mix of age, and then also deciding that It was more or less "now or never" and that I unironically needed to "just do it"

This did cause tons of humiliating moments I want to burn from memory, but genuinely it did make me more lowinhib which ofc heloed in some cases

Sorry if the tone of my post seemed too haughty

Eh i mean i see why you would feel like that, especially since he doesn't just make 6 figures but owns a nice car & a house(most people nowadays rent apartments or houses even in the West) but at the end of the day, why do we need to play oppression olympics when the whole league is in the trenches?

, you seem like one of the few guys here who legit have a chance and have a lot of things going for them. Hope it works out for you.

Not sure if this is a bragpost/troll of his since i'm not exactly trusting of OP

But if so, he for sure is in a better spot than most here. If he can't ascend, it proves the NTpill which is his situation if he's not LARP

 

[Leonardo Part V]

I always get invited to parties but I always reject them saying, “I’ll think about it,” but never get back to them. People genuinely wanting to help me get laid.

fuck u

 

[justuseless]

You have graduated from dot ah yes. Its time you move on to looksmax for expert advice from mumbai dwelling indians.

 

[WorthlessSlavicShit]

I see. Well, I guess it depends on which part of the country are we talking about. The western part seems decent, the eastern part though…

True that. As someone who very much doesn't live in the latter, I guess I can't really complain about that aspect, but economically it very much could be better.

I hate if i sound like a dick but in what world is just making 6 figures "rich?"

I mean yeah sure it is a lot better than what most people have & i know it depends on the location, but 6 figures alone isn't "rich" at all, especially if its less than like 250k i'd say. Now ofc, I am speaking by US metrics since as I said, I do know a lot of places are different.

Rich to me would mean you can go out and spend a grand on a weekend and have little to no repercussions

I mean, it is enough to make you pretty rich in most of the world outside of the US. Even in the US, from what I've read of Americans talking about incomes online, I got the impression that at that point you are already starting to do pretty well for yourself, maybe not rich enough to not have to worry about anything, but definitely richer than most people you meet.

Incomes Across the Distribution - World Inequality Database Data Explorer

Explore World Inequality Database data on the distribution of incomes.

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Apparently, 167k is 90th percentile pre-tax income in the US, and honestly, top 10% is where "rich" more or less starts for me, which is still much less than the 250k you've mentioned.

Eh i mean i see why you would feel like that

You know how much I hate the idea of people thinking I'm angrier and nastier than I really am.

And even then, is betabuxxing really ascending ?

That's a question I don't think this forum has ever really answered, or dared to try answering.

 

[Wolnir]

make well into 6 figures

gibs me some of dat

 

[LWii]

I always get invited to parties but I always reject them saying, “I’ll think about it,” but never get back to them. People genuinely wanting to help me get laid.

Fakecel moment

 

[LWii]

I’m 23 years old

So you were 16 when you made ur account ?