I dont know how to make this any more clear: that hug is self serving, the coach is just using the guys emotional state to restrain him so he can hand him over to some fat ford explorer riding cop
Actual compassion would involve helping the guy
For example, restraining the guy but not turning him over as to not ruin his life, setting him up with a gf, etc...
No normie is going to care to take these steps and show you actual compassion if youre an uggo incel, its much easier to just hug you and say it will be okay so you dont do go ER, its like when people paste the suicide hotline number
I dont know how to explain it better to you man, if youre this naive you will get fucked hardcore in life, I bet you also think that camwhores actually enjoy talking to their clients and its totally not because theyre pulling in tens of thousands in donations per week