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Serious Partying in your 30s - how it looks?

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It's over for midlifecrisiscels
 
I had a phase where i for a few years tried going to clubs alone because of my annoying bluepilled relatives who told me the advice. It was hell, i have no friends so i went alone, most of the time i just stood in the corner because im socially retarded and my attempts at socializing were pathetic tbh. This shit only works for socially adept normies...
 
I had a phase where i for a few years tried going to clubs alone because of my annoying bluepilled relatives who told me the advice. It was hell, i have no friends so i went alone, most of the time i just stood in the corner because im socially retarded and my attempts at socializing were pathetic tbh. This shit only works for socially adept normies...

nobody cares anymore, not our families, not any institutions of state, nothing, it's literally self-destruct to become cool and die trying
 
Late 20s and you want to start 'partying,' JFL :lul:, you're about 10 years too late boyo. You wasted your best years in a darkened, musty-smelling room playing WoW whilst your peers were drinking, dancing, fucking, and smoking weed; now you think you can turn the clock back and get another chance at youth?

BRB going to a house party and everyone thinks you're someone's dad picking his daughter up. :feelskek:
WTF is the difference if he's 27 trying to pick up a girl at a party who's 22-23?? 5 years is nothing. He's not going to look like her father. He's going to look like her peer, unless he has fucked up genes and looks old. He should worry more about how his face looks, rather than a handful of years age difference.
 
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WTF is the difference if he's 27 trying to pick up a girl at a party who's 22-23?? 5 years is nothing. He's not going to look like her father. He's going to look like her peer, unless he has fucked up genes and looks old. He should worry more about how his face looks, rather than a handful of years age difference.
Because normie foids age 22-23 are shacked up with their oneitis and thinking about muh careers, travelling, and babies, not going to house parties. JFL @ 27 and wanting to start what everyone else did at 14-15, you blew it son.
 
WTF is the difference if he's 27 trying to pick up a girl at a party who's 22-23?? 5 years is nothing. He's not going to look like her father. He's going to look like her peer, unless he has fucked up genes and looks old. He should worry more about how his face looks, rather than a handful of years age difference.


tbh if you have a full head of hair and you're in decent shape, you won't look out of place

the problem is, even if you do look decent, you're still going to get no lays, no action, nothing
 
tbh if you have a full head of hair and you're in decent shape, you won't look out of place

the problem is, even if you do look decent, you're still going to get no lays, no action, nothing
I had an acquantaince that looks better than me, is in good mental shape AFAIK, high-inhib, is gymaxxing, regimemaxxing, steroidmaxxing, looksmaxxing, and traveling a lot. He makes statistics and record all his approaches. He revealed me that he approached "daygame" more than 1'500 foids and had only 2 lays in EE, none in WE, and only by tinder. It depressed me a lot.
 
I had an acquantaince that looks better than me, is in good mental shape AFAIK, high-inhib, is gymaxxing, regimemaxxing, steroidmaxxing, looksmaxxing, and traveling a lot. He makes statistics and record all his approaches. He revealed me that he approached "daygame" more than 1'500 foids and had only 2 lays in EE, none in WE, and only by tinder. It depressed me a lot.

jesus christ

that makes no sense

if it's that hard how are people even having kids? you basically need to be god to get a lay with an average woman
 
jesus christ

that makes no sense

if it's that hard how are people even having kids? you basically need to be god to get a lay with an average woman
Really, don't know man. I always had 0 lays until now, despite approaching at least 200 foids for the last 2 years, and being on tinder for a while. Alcohol and anxiolytics helped for it, but not to get laid, despite I took care of look as well.
 
Really, don't know man. I always had 0 lays until now.


i know it makes zero sense but it sounds true. i don't know anyone who gets laid with a non-obese women.

all my friends are tall white guys or black guys i play ball with. almost all are former d1 basketball players. almost none of them get laid. we never talk about women. they all cope harder than incels.

the ones that do bring their wives / girlfriends to league games in the city we play then. they all look fat as fuck and awful.
 
Partying is for Chadlites, Chads, and high tier normies.

After 25, if still incel, you will live a life similar to that of a grandpa. You never were young.

Don’t make the mistake to think for just a moment you can become an NPC, that will never happen.

You are destined to be alone, until the end of your days. You will never be a normie, cope with that.
 
You basically have to be the host.
The steps are as follows. You basically just need one attractive young woman to 'validate' you.
Find her on a sugar site if you're hi inhib.
Through her you will have access to her social circle which will include other women around her looks level.
Have a gathering at your place which includes alcohol that you provide. Alcohol is your friend. Alcohol, Alcohol, Alcohol.
Somehow, other dudes will just appear (not sure how this happens) but now you have a social circle.
People will start playing beer-pong and what not, and stuff will just start happening.
This is the closest approximation you will get to having the youthful fun you missed out on.
If you are providing drinks and a safe, judgment free environment younger folk will not really concern themselves with your age.


this is basically what i did...
You forgot to mention the part when the teenyboppers trash your house and steal your property whilst you sit there smiling, being too high-inhib to tell them to stop. Then, when they run out of drink, they tell you to go out and buy some more whilst they are having an orgy on your bed. :feelskek:

and this is what happened
 
I went to just a couple of parties in my life, and I always stood in corner, highly inhibited, watching others have their fun. Now I'm 27, and as I'm slowly approaching my thirties I just feel like I haven't had enough fun in my youth and 20s. Therefore I decided to try to have fun in my late twenties and thirties. But is this even possible? I mean, I don't want to come across like some weirdo who is trying to do teen stuff while he should be starting a family, having children etc. Would I even be able to find friends who are into this? Even if they are younger, would they accept me? All this is torturing me for days already. I just want to have fun finally, or I can just kill myself. What do you guys think?

I'm against partying, but I wouldn't feel self-conscious about being an older person at teen parties. 30+ normie women don't like seeing people their age socializing with teen girls, so they shame guys in their 30s who go to college parties telling them to "grow up". The truth is that the opinions of 30+ roasties don't matter - the only opinions that matter are those of the 1-2 teen roasties at the party who might possibly think of you as being a cool older guy.

As a general rule, I think it is much easier to socialize with high school and college aged people as a 25+yo than when I was 18-22. When you're a little older, they respect you and listen to what you say. I honestly think I could get a teen gf if I just had more exposure.
 
I’ll make up for lost fun in my youth at any age. I’ll be up for partying in my 70s if I don’t rope before then
 
Just give up, seriously. If you didn’t have fun back then, it won’t be any different now.
Very true.

And yes, it will be weird if you go to places for 20-somethings in your 30s (also, bouncers won't let you into to trendy clubs if you're old and ugly and male). But good news, any place you go to will be weird and awkward. So go be a creepy pest, and eventually some meathead will try to impress his girlfriend by kicking the shit out of you. You'll piss yourself, and everyone will laugh.
 

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