Serious Partying in your 30s - how it looks?

[Deleted member 5089]

I went to just a couple of parties in my life, and I always stood in corner, highly inhibited, watching others have their fun. Now I'm 27, and as I'm slowly approaching my thirties I just feel like I haven't had enough fun in my youth and 20s. Therefore I decided to try to have fun in my late twenties and thirties. But is this even possible? I mean, I don't want to come across like some weirdo who is trying to do teen stuff while he should be starting a family, having children etc. Would I even be able to find friends who are into this? Even if they are younger, would they accept me? All this is torturing me for days already. I just want to have fun finally, or I can just kill myself. What do you guys think?

 

[Henry de Montherlant]

I don't even think I'll make it to 27 tbh

 

[TheIncelStaresBack]

Just give up, seriously. If you didn’t have fun back then, it won’t be any different now.

 

[Lubricure]

Just give up, seriously. If you didn’t have fun back then, it won’t be any different now.

I agree, especially considering that parties usually revolve around femoids, unless they are a man only event.

I think that you will not enjoy parties if you don't get any pussy out of them, OP.

 

[_incelinside]

Just give up, seriously. If you didn’t have fun back then, it won’t be any different now.

 

[Insomniac]

Just LDAR bro.

 

[JustinSane]

Just give up, seriously. If you didn’t have fun back then, it won’t be any different now.

This. If you try to have fun now, you will come off aloof and awkward. Even drunk foids will notice it and laugh, reject and mock you.

 

[Deleted member 6470]

How it looks ?
SAD
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[Deleted member 11159]

No reason trying to go for dusty 30 year old granny pussy. If you missed out on teenage parties, there's nothing you can do. Even Dan Bilzerian's ones can't compete with those.

 

[The Abyss]

If you haven't learned how to NPC already it'll be very noticeable to them when you try as an oldcel.

 

[TheRealChincel]

PATHETIC
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That’s how it looks and that’s how it is!

 

[tight&shiny-hotpants]

Partying in nightclubs in your 30s is a post recession activity (anything after 2009). In hard times for nightclubs your money is as good as any, but the resentment of a man amongst "children" is still there.

I started PUA aged 27 back in early 2008 and got mocked by bouncers. TBF most people are married and have children by age 25 based on long term relationships started in early 20s.

Never known as post 25 year old couple to last, unless both are uncool losers themselves. Looking 21 years old at age 25 plus just looks sad.

 

[Deleted member 236]

Tragic.

 

[RREEEEEEEEE]

Ask @Zyros. He goes to bars but it's the same thing basically.

 

[mylifeistrash]

well, first off, nightclubs and bars are dead, so none of this even matters.

 

[celery]

I drink alone. It's cheaper that way. Partying alone also saves me one shower and shave every time. Plus I don't have to change my cumstained briefs, which saves on laundry. All those saves add up in time.

 

[starystulejarz]

Just give up, seriously. If you didn’t have fun back then, it won’t be any different now.

 

[UKTroglodyte86]

Late 20s and you want to start 'partying,' JFL , you're about 10 years too late boyo. You wasted your best years in a darkened, musty-smelling room playing WoW whilst your peers were drinking, dancing, fucking, and smoking weed; now you think you can turn the clock back and get another chance at youth?

BRB going to a house party and everyone thinks you're someone's dad picking his daughter up.

 

[Deleted member 11138]

The nightmm

Late 20s and you want to start 'partying,' JFL , you're about 10 years too late boyo. You wasted your best years in a darkened, musty-smelling room playing WoW whilst your peers were drinking, dancing, fucking, and smoking weed; now you think you can turn the clock back and get another chance at youth?

BRB going to a house party and everyone thinks you're someone's dad picking his daughter up.

The dark nights sitting in front of a glowing television playing videa was always worth it to me. Video games pacify my lack of life.

I do feel for the OP. He wants to engage in the festivities, and possibly ascend. If his face is young perhaps he can.

I'm 27 as well, and my face is maturing quite a bit.

 

[CopeWithTheRope]

Late 20s and you want to start 'partying,' JFL , you're about 10 years too late boyo. You wasted your best years in a darkened, musty-smelling room playing WoW whilst your peers were drinking, dancing, fucking, and smoking weed; now you think you can turn the clock back and get another chance at youth?

BRB going to a house party and everyone thinks you're someone's dad picking his daughter up.

brutal agepill. i like it

 

[TheRealChincel]

Late 20s and you want to start 'partying,' JFL , you're about 10 years too late boyo. You wasted your best years in a darkened, musty-smelling room playing WoW whilst your peers were drinking, dancing, fucking, and smoking weed; now you think you can turn the clock back and get another chance at youth?

BRB going to a house party and everyone thinks you're someone's dad picking his daughter up.

 

[iblamemyself]

Depends on your looks.
Do you look younger than your age? Just LARP as a young guy and get on the dancefloor.
Do you look like your age? Be cool, be agreeable and don't annoy people.
Do you look older than your age? Don't bother, unless you have MS. In that case, you should throw parties on your yacht.

 

[UKTroglodyte86]

The dark nights sitting in front of a glowing television playing videa was always worth it to me. Video games pacify my lack of life.

I do feel for the OP. He wants to engage in the festivities, and possibly ascend. If his face is young perhaps he can.

Sure, on your deathbed I bet you wish you'd spent even more time playing video games and less time being outside.

brutal agepill. i like it

I'm 32, I know of whence I speak.

 

[CopeWithTheRope]

Sure, on your deathbed I bet you wish you'd spent even more time playing video games and less time being outside.


I'm 32, I know of whence I speak.

what is official oldcel age, in your opinion?

 

[Deleted member 60]

from what I've seen, it's bring your own gf. Majority of people in their 30s don't go to clubs to hookup.

 

[clip11]

I went to just a couple of parties in my life, and I always stood in corner, highly inhibited, watching others have their fun. Now I'm 27, and as I'm slowly approaching my thirties I just feel like I haven't had enough fun in my youth and 20s. Therefore I decided to try to have fun in my late twenties and thirties. But is this even possible? I mean, I don't want to come across like some weirdo who is trying to do teen stuff while he should be starting a family, having children etc. Would I even be able to find friends who are into this? Even if they are younger, would they accept me? All this is torturing me for days already. I just want to have fun finally, or I can just kill myself. What do you guys think?

Depends on how young you look. A early 30s man who looks like he's in his mid 20s can blend in at a college campus party. There was 2 people at my job, one 19 and the other 37 and I thought both were 25 or so.

Now if you're in your early 30s and look like you could be the father of a college kid, then you would just look odd and stupid trying to party

I guess once again it's all about looks.

 

[UKTroglodyte86]

what is official oldcel age, in your opinion?

Probably 25, that is the point when your family stops worrying about you being a 'late bloomer' and starts to suspect you are a closet case or paedo.

 

[mylifeistrash]

Depends on how young you look. A early 30s man who looks like he's in his mid 20s can blend in at a college campus party. There was 2 people at my job, one 19 and the other 37 and I thought both were 25 or so.

Now if you're in your early 30s and look like you could be the father of a college kid, then you would just look odd and stupid trying to party

I guess once again it's all about looks.

If you're good looking enough to pull in a nightclub in your 30s, you already have godly genetics.

You could just go on tinder, lie about your age and skip all this bullshit.

 

[EliteBlackBetaBuxx]

I went to just a couple of parties in my life, and I always stood in corner, highly inhibited, watching others have their fun. Now I'm 27, and as I'm slowly approaching my thirties I just feel like I haven't had enough fun in my youth and 20s. Therefore I decided to try to have fun in my late twenties and thirties. But is this even possible? I mean, I don't want to come across like some weirdo who is trying to do teen stuff while he should be starting a family, having children etc. Would I even be able to find friends who are into this? Even if they are younger, would they accept me? All this is torturing me for days already. I just want to have fun finally, or I can just kill myself. What do you guys think?

You basically have to be the host.
The steps are as follows. You basically just need one attractive young woman to 'validate' you.
Find her on a sugar site if you're hi inhib.
Through her you will have access to her social circle which will include other women around her looks level.
Have a gathering at your place which includes alcohol that you provide. Alcohol is your friend. Alcohol, Alcohol, Alcohol.
Somehow, other dudes will just appear (not sure how this happens) but now you have a social circle.
People will start playing beer-pong and what not, and stuff will just start happening.
This is the closest approximation you will get to having the youthful fun you missed out on.
If you are providing drinks and a safe, judgment free environment younger folk will not really concern themselves with your age.

 

[UKTroglodyte86]

You basically have to be the host.
The steps are as follows. You basically just need one attractive young woman to 'validate' you.
Find her on a sugar site if you're hi inhib.
Through her you will have access to her social circle which will include other women around her looks level.
Have a gathering at your place which includes alcohol that you provide. Alcohol is your friend. Alcohol, Alcohol, Alcohol.
Somehow, other dudes will just appear (not sure how this happens) but now you have a social circle.
People will start playing beer-pong and what not, and stuff will just start happening.
This is the closest approximation you will get to having the youthful fun you missed out on.
If you are providing drinks and a safe, judgment free environment younger folk will not really concern themselves with your age.

You forgot to mention the part when the teenyboppers trash your house and steal your property whilst you sit there smiling, being too high-inhib to tell them to stop. Then, when they run out of drink, they tell you to go out and buy some more whilst they are having an orgy on your bed.

 

[Inceldo]

Degenerate

All partying is degenerate no matter at what age (yes that includes childrens birthday parties)

 

[EliteBlackBetaBuxx]

You forgot to mention the part when the teenyboppers trash your house and steal your property whilst you sit there smiling, being too high-inhib to tell them to stop. Then, when they run out of drink, they tell you to go out and buy some more whilst they are having an orgy on your bed.

If you are high-inhib you need to start small and work your way up. Forgot to mention this.

But, yeah full disclosure, I did have an incident where the first sentence could be said to have happened, but not that extreme.
I dialed things back a little until I got as much of a fill of my lost youth that I could hope to reasonably expect.

 

[Johny.speiz]

Went once to a party with people in their 40's, boring .

 

[Vorbei]

It looks ridiculous. My housemates, one of whom was a DJ, threw house parties all the time when I was at university - every now and again some guy in his 30s would show up and start busting moves to shitty dance music like his life depended on it, it was sad to watch.

You had one shot at youth and you blew it, swallow the agepill and welcome to the junkheap.

 

[Smallondick]

 

[Deleted member 1060]

Depends on your looks.
Do you look younger than your age? Just LARP as a young guy and get on the dancefloor.
Do you look like your age? Be cool, be agreeable and don't annoy people.
Do you look older than your age? Don't bother, unless you have MS. In that case, you should throw parties on your yacht.

I have seen guys like this tbh. Some of them even do better than younger ones since they are more experienced and composed. Everything depends on the looks, if OP is a good looking guy, he should not have any problem.

 

[Reddit_is_for_cucks]

well, first off, nightclubs and bars are dead, so none of this even matters.

They are still active, specially when the semester starts. Some are huge

 

[LastGerman]

It looks ridiculous. My housemates, one of whom was a DJ, threw house parties all the time when I was at university - every now and again some guy in his 30s would show up and start busting moves to shitty dance music like his life depended on it, it was sad to watch.

Es ist vorbei.

 

[Deleted member 7573]

I'm 24 and I want to start doing as well, but I don't have any friends, It consumes me knowing that the people on my workplace have all gone to enless parties when they were my age and they still go sometimes, I never have gone to a party, I never was invited to do anything, they all know this and make fun of me for this

 

[iblamemyself]

I'm 24 and I want to start doing as well, but I don't have any friends, It consumes me knowing that the people on my workplace have all gone to enless parties when they were my age and they still go sometimes, I never have gone to a party, I never was invited to do anything, they all know this and make fun of me for this

How do they know this? Don't let them know anything about your private life.

 

[Deleted member 6470]

Do you really believe you would be a slayer now ? Because you have maturity (or similar cope).
Why do you think it would be different now ?
You're older and uglier then your prime. The average 21yo mog you to the moon.
You're gonna embarrass yourself.

 

[Cuyen]

After a point it is not possible to enjoy things you've missed in past

 

[StaroRavager]

Just give up, seriously. If you didn’t have fun back then, it won’t be any different now.

 

[Deleted member 7573]

How do they know this? Don't let them know anything about your private life.

It's on my face I guess

 

[Michael15651]

I don't even think I'll make it to 27 tbh

 

[Sparrow's Song]

I have seen guys like this tbh. Some of them even do better than younger ones since they are more experienced and composed. Everything depends on the looks, if OP is a good looking guy, he should not have any problem.

Just looksmax, be white, and party in India where the weed and wine is free...

 

[turbocuckcel_7000]

from what I've seen, it's bring your own gf. Majority of people in their 30s don't go to clubs to hookup.

it seems like there isn't a single social place where people actually go without being already accompanied by a partner.

how fucked are you these days if you moved away and didn't click with your work mates lol, because it seems like 100%

 

[Deleted member 60]

OP, don't listen to the idiots trying to discourage you. Just try it if it's something you want to experience

it seems like there isn't a single social place where people actually go without being already accompanied by a partner.

how fucked are you these days if you moved away and didn't click with your work mates lol, because it seems like 100%

tbh, there's not much reason to go out anywhere if you don't have a partner

I'm 24 and I want to start doing as well, but I don't have any friends, It consumes me knowing that the people on my workplace have all gone to enless parties when they were my age and they still go sometimes, I never have gone to a party, I never was invited to do anything, they all know this and make fun of me for this

try going solo. You might meet people (srs)

 

[Deleted member 677]

How it looks ?
SAD
A
D

 

[Deleted member 1060]

Just looksmax, be white, and party in India where the weed and wine is free...

Legit.