Opinions on "orbiting"

[Hoppipolla]

I think it's fine as long as it's being done because you genuinely want the company of the woman and not just because you're hoping you'll get sex out of it sometime. I know in theory the latter reason is the reason guys do it but I feel like it's used as a slur for any guy who simply has female friends. Which is of course ridiculous and also totally counter-productive. It makes it much harder to find a girlfriend if you avoid being friends with any females.

Anyway erm, that's my opinion but I want yours too!

 

[Deleted member]

if you are "just friends" with the female and have to resort to orbiting in the first place, you're not ever gonna fuck it because it does not find you attractive. orbiting is completely pointless and is disgusting.

 

[FrothySolutions]

Men orbit fantasizing for sex, but knowing they can't get it. It's got nothing to do with their right mind, it's just they gotta. They can't walk away. Like, a man will be up for ever Tiddy Twitch Stream and hang on every lilting word of encouragement she gives him every time he throws her money, and he knows it won't go very far, but he's just gotta. It's primal urges. And I can't just tell him not to. It's not smart, but it makes as much sense as telling Cho not to shoot up that school. He's just gotta.

 

[Zesto]

I think it's fine as long as it's being done because you genuinely want the company of the woman and not just because you're hoping you'll get sex out of it sometime

We're way beyond that on here boyo.

Being in the company of a steak is good, especially for someone that's well fed but we're starving here and we need to eat.

 

[Hoppipolla]

We're way beyond that on here boyo.

Being in the company of a steak is good, especially for someone that's well fed but we're starving here and we need to eat.

Yeah but if you avoid being around steaks then the chance that you'll get one diminishes!

 

[Zesto]

Yeah but if you avoid being around steaks then the chance that you'll get one diminishes!

Yeah that's true but why would you want to stay at a restaurant that refuses to serve you a steak but lets you look at them?

You need to keep going to the different steakhouses until you get your steak.

Right now I'm trying to talk to girls at my college but I don't see how a friendship is going to do much. If you look at these girls you see all they're doing is texting on their phones. That's what their friendships have been reduced to. If she's not interested in you it's pretty much over.

 

[Zaetheus]

“Orbiting” really nigga?

 

[Anger]

You´re a giga cuckold if you orbit women.

 

[Hoppipolla]

Yeah that's true but why would you want to stay at a restaurant that refuses to serve you a steak but lets you look at them?

You need to keep going to the different steakhouses until you get your steak.

Right now I'm trying to talk to girls at my college but I don't see how a friendship is going to do much. If you look at these girls you see all they're doing is texting on their phones. That's what their friendships have been reduced to. If she's not interested in you it's pretty much over.

That conversation made me start eating, lol

Sometimes it takes time for a relationship to develop. Remember Monica and Chandler in Friends?

You´re a giga cuckold if you orbit women.

Really? I would have thought you were a giga cuckold if you let other men fuck your woman, lol

 

[Hunter]

anyone who orbits should be hanged, end of fucking story.

 

[Life Wasted]

Orbiting is pathetic and shameful behavior that contributes to hypergamy by validating already entitled sluts who could not give one fuck about the orbiter.

If you orbit females you are part of the problem and should have your dick and nuts removed

 

[Deleted member 6657]

Sometimes it takes time for a relationship to develop. Remember Monica and Chandler in Friends?

Never saw friends because I am a) not a cuck b) not a faggot
If you have accepted the blackpill and rejected the bluepill into your heart, then you should have nothing but disdain for people who allow women to take advantage of them.

 

[Five Dozen Eggs]

Orbiting is never about "being friends" with a woman. Every single guy who orbits is just a beta who can't nut up to a girl telling her he likes her so he just sticks around and does things for her, hoping she develops feelings for him or some shit.

If you wanted to actually be friends with a girl you wouldn't need to constantly be around her or do shit for her, you would just treat her like a less useful male friend.

 

[Hoppipolla]

So none of you guys have any female friends at all?

 

[Vizion]

So none of you guys have any female friends at all?

Not really no. Was like that growing up for me. Where I come from youd have to be a Chad to even hang out with the girls in my old school.

 

[Existentialcel]

So none of you guys have any female friends at all?

I have female friends but it’s far from orbiting. If you have a somewhat healthy social life your social circle will include guys and girls. Orbiting means you’re expecting feelings to develop so you’re constantly giving them the wrong attention and being a cuck. It’s different when you treat them like bros and don’t waste your time bullshitting yourself

 

[RealCel]

To be honest even if you're orbiting, just to have the touch or smell of a woman is fuel enough and better than not having it

 

[Life Wasted]

So none of you guys have any female friends at all?

Lol what for? Unless theres sex happening then what's the point? The friendzone should be renamed the cuckzone because its really just another form of cuckoldry.

What do women as friends have to offer a man that another man cannot? Theres no relating to these bitches, no common interests. We are wired differently too which makes it even more difficult. If you befriend females then you are a just another type of cuck.

 

[Hoppipolla]

Huh, I just realised that options 4 and 5 aren't really needed because they're already eliminated by options 1 and 2! Silly me!

So we only really needed 1, 2, 3 and 6. Ah well, I can't change it now! My bad

I have female friends but it’s far from orbiting. If you have a somewhat healthy social life your social circle will include guys and girls. Orbiting means you’re expecting feelings to develop so you’re constantly giving them the wrong attention and being a cuck. It’s different when you treat them like bros and don’t waste your time bullshitting yourself

Ah yeah, that's the thing. One of my points was that oftentimes people accuse people who simply have female friends of being orbiters. That's one of the things I wanted to challenge in this thread and also clear up the hazy definition of the term that can originate from groundless accusations like that!

To be honest even if you're orbiting, just to have the touch or smell of a woman is fuel enough and better than not having it

Yeah I find it's nice to have women around. I like their company. I also think it's much harder to remain single for a long time if you have that attitude.

 

[Deleted member 10124]

if you are "just friends" with the female and have to resort to orbiting in the first place, you're not ever gonna fuck it because it does not find you attractive. orbiting is completely pointless and is disgusting.

1. Social game theory is nada
2. Being friend zoned is precisely that. If you've already made your intentions known then its pointless trying to continue.
3. Women and men can never simply be friends.
4. Women can befriend their male friends and still use THOSE friends as fuck buddies or friends with benefits. Where does that leave you.
5. The male escort who has never had an Incel moment in his life who said make friends with women you're not attracted to. Is counter productive due to the fact that your libido will dampen and that you'll be leading someone else on up the garden path.
6. I think you're a sleeper cell agent LARPer op or foid and I have reported my theory to the admin or mods.
7. This is "conversion therapy" that is being banned on gays now. This particular brand of "conversion therapy" will be banned on Incels once we've established ourselves as a disability and sexuality.

More to come. Should you wish.

Lol what for? Unless theres sex happening then what's the point? The friendzone should be renamed the cuckzone because its really just another form of cuckoldry.

What do women as friends have to offer a man that another man cannot? Theres no relating to these bitches, no common interests. We are wired differently too which makes it even more difficult. If you befriend females then you are a just another type of cuck.

Yeah but if you avoid being around steaks then the chance that you'll get one diminishes!

8. MGTOW propaganda after then propagating friendzoning cuckoldry propaganda.

That conversation made me start eating, lol

Sometimes it takes time for a relationship to develop. Remember Monica and Chandler in Friends?



Really? I would have thought you were a giga cuckold if you let other men fuck your woman, lol

9. Not when they've already established that you're only going to be a friend because you're not Chad. Such false optimistic (actually a word) propaganda.

Mods where the fuck are you out. GTFIH...

Yeah I find it's nice to have women around. I like their company. I also think it's much harder to remain single for a long time if you have that attitude.

10. Wrong. Just wrong. Foids only process your stats. They care nothing and I mean nothing for anything else of you. You'll only self combust if you do what your suggesting. So near yet so far. Torture. Hormones will trump all.

Not really no. Was like that growing up for me. Where I come from youd have to be a Chad to even hang out with the girls in my old school.

This times infinity.

 

[Of Manlets and Men]

Orbiting and friendship are two very different things. Friendship means she's actually your friend, that she does things for you as often as you do things for her. Orbiting is when the male is desperately trying to latch on to the female, but she couldn't care less. In orbiting, the male keeps doing favors for the female while getting nothing in return.

 

[Deleted member 60]

orbiters deserve the rope

 

[Hail The Bloatlord]

Foids despise their own orbiters

 

[iKillCucks]

Any type of interaction with a female this does not result in sexual activity is the pure cockholdry. Cucks and cucks orbiters are the LOWEST FORM OF FUCKING GIGA SCUM AND SHOULD BE FUCKING HUNTED DOWN ONE BY ONE AND EXECUTED MEXICAN CARTEL STYLE (DECAPITATION WITH A DULL RUSTY MACHETE) LIVE FOR EVERYONE TO SEE.

Any type of interaction with a female that does not result in sexual activity is the pure cockholdry. Cucks and cucks orbiters are the LOWEST FORM OF FUCKING GIGA SCUM AND SHOULD BE FUCKING HUNTED DOWN ONE BY ONE AND EXECUTED MEXICAN CARTEL STYLE (DECAPITATION WITH A DULL RUSTY MACHETE) LIVE FOR EVERYONE TO SEE.

 

[Hoppipolla]

Orbiting and friendship are two very different things. Friendship means she's actually your friend, that she does things for you as often as you do things for her. Orbiting is when the male is desperately trying to latch on to the female, but she couldn't care less. In orbiting, the male keeps doing favors for the female while getting nothing in return.

Fair enough OK. In that case people need to stop using orbiter as a slur when somebody simply has female friends, because I've had it hurled at me on here quite a bit!

It's like a lot of people on here do not want female friends as they think that would risk them being an orbiter, which is bad because ultimately all avoiding female friends does is reduce the time you spend around women, and the less time you spend around them, the less chance there is you'll end up dating one!

 

[UltraFayJr.]

I think you used the wrong word. What you’re talking about isn’t “orbiting” and seeing your replies in the thread you also agree with that. But it’s too late to change the thread title so oh well.

 

[Hoppipolla]

I think you used the wrong word. What you’re talking about isn’t “orbiting” and seeing your replies in the thread you also agree with that. But it’s too late to change the thread title so oh well.

Well at least it's cleared it up for me! Now people just need to stop accusing me of it whenever I say I have female friends, lol

 

[NeetSupremacist]

Can someone explain me what orbiting means?

 

[Ignas]

Orbiting is never a good thing, even for friendship. Let alone to attract girls

 

[Gepard]

1. Social game theory is nada
2. Being friend zoned is precisely that. If you've already made your intentions known then its pointless trying to continue.
3. Women and men can never simply be friends.
4. Women can befriend their male friends and still use THOSE friends as fuck buddies or friends with benefits. Where does that leave you.
5. The male escort who has never had an Incel moment in his life who said make friends with women you're not attracted to. Is counter productive due to the fact that your libido will dampen and that you'll be leading someone else on up the garden path.
6. I think you're a sleeper cell agent LARPer op or foid and I have reported my theory to the admin or mods.
7. This is "conversion therapy" that is being banned on gays now. This particular brand of "conversion therapy" will be banned on Incels once we've established ourselves as a disability and sexuality.

More to come. Should you wish.



8. MGTOW propaganda after then propagating friendzoning cuckoldry propaganda.


9. Not when they've already established that you're only going to be a friend because you're not Chad. Such false optimistic (actually a word) propaganda.

Mods where the fuck are you out. GTFIH...


10. Wrong. Just wrong. Foids only process your stats. They care nothing and I mean nothing for anything else of you. You'll only self combust if you do what your suggesting. So near yet so far. Torture. Hormones will trump all.


This times infinity.

Glad to know I'm not the only one who thinks "Hoppipolla" is some fakecel. High IQ.

 

[Limerencel]

Foids despise their own orbiters

High IQ

 

[JJtheIncel]

Having female friends/talking to foids=/=orbiting
Orbiting means spending money on foids or time that isnt reciprocated

To be honest even if you're orbiting, just to have the touch or smell of a woman is fuel enough and better than not having it

 

[Robtical]

Not many femoids have the same interests as men to the point where you would actually like hanging out with them just for the sake of hanging out and nothing more. Usually femoids use orbiters for rides or favors. If she's just walking all over you and using you for favors, while not trying to hook you up with her female friends, then you're being cucked and wasting your time if you continue the "friendship."

 

[Deleted member 10531]

It's not "wrong", it's just pathetic

 

[Robtical]

It's not "wrong", it's just pathetic

It increases the smv of useless cunts, which makes it both wrong and pathetic. Cucks deserve beatings.

 

[Hoppipolla]

Not many femoids have the same interests as men to the point where you would actually like hanging out with them just for the sake of hanging out and nothing more. Usually femoids use orbiters for rides or favors. If she's just walking all over you and using you for favors, while not trying to hook you up with her female friends, then you're being cucked and wasting your time if you continue the "friendship."

I actually have loads of female friends, lol. We have similar interests for sure. I mean, maybe the ratios are a bit different than with men. For example I have a female friend who also like gaming, music and politics like me, but she favours music over the other two, whereas I favour the others. And we have different tastes in music to some degree. But then... a male housemate of mine also prefers music and has a different taste, lol. I don't see how it's very different at all.

The reason I often like women as friends isn't due to interests, it's because they're more likely to be sensitive and less emotionally cold and aggressive. I like that softness because to be honest I'm a lot like that too.

And then sometimes of course it's nice to chat with other guys.

Overall I'd say my conversations with men and with women aren't THAT different.

 

[Robtical]

It's like a lot of people on here do not want female friends as they think that would risk them being an orbiter, which is bad because ultimately all avoiding female friends does is reduce the time you spend around women, and the less time you spend around them, the less chance there is you'll end up dating one!

You've just revealed your intentions of the real reason you're "friends" with these femoids. Or should I say orbiting these femoids.

The reason I often like women as friends isn't due to interests, it's because they're more likely to be sensitive and less emotionally cold and aggressive. I like that softness because to be honest I'm a lot like that too.

If you have to do them favors and kiss their ass to get that kind of relationship from them, then you're being cucked and manipulated. If they treat you that way for free, then sure go for it.

 

[Deleted member 1060]

Low IQ post.

A male and a female can't be friends unless the woman is your mother/sister/cousin. As a male, you can never go past your subconscious natural libido.

If you are orbitting a whore that means either you are gay or a cuck. There is no third option.

 

[Hoppipolla]

You've just revealed your intentions of the real reason you're "friends" with these femoids. Or should I say orbiting these femoids.

If you have to do them favors and kiss their ass to get that kind of relationship from them, then you're being cucked and manipulated. If they treat you that way for free, then sure go for it.

I think women are just more emotional and sensitive than men, on average. It applies to every social interaction they have, every thought, everything they say, etc.

And no that's not the only reason but it's a nice advantage to having friends that are made based on personality and interest similarities as opposed to gender.

 

[Robtical]

I think women are just more emotional and sensitive than men, on average. It applies to every social interaction they have, every thought, everything they say, etc.

And no that's not the only reason but it's a nice advantage to having friends that are made based on personality and interest similarities as opposed to gender.

Do femoids treat you nicely for free, or do you also kiss their ass and do them favors?

 

[Deleted member 10124]

Glad to know I'm not the only one who thinks "Hoppipolla" is some fakecel. High IQ.

Have you reported her? You should.

Not many femoids have the same interests as men to the point where you would actually like hanging out with them just for the sake of hanging out and nothing more. Usually femoids use orbiters for rides or favors. If she's just walking all over you and using you for favors, while not trying to hook you up with her female friends, then you're being cucked and wasting your time if you continue the "friendship."

Op. Your advice is useless AND harmful. You're either a Foid, gay BFF, sleeper LARPer agent.

 

[EthnicelNL]

Orbiting is the most beta non-sexual behaviour possible.

 

[Hoppipolla]

Do femoids treat you nicely for free, or do you also kiss their ass and do them favors?

To be fair I'm nice to everybody.

Have you reported her? You should.

Op. Your advice is useless AND harmful. You're either a Foid, gay BFF, sleeper LARPer agent.

LittleBoy seems to think that me having a different opinion to him is reason to try to get me banned.

 

[Gepard]

Have you reported her? You should.

Op. Your advice is useless AND harmful. You're either a Foid, gay BFF, sleeper LARPer agent.

He even types like a fucking foid.

@Hoppipolla answer for your crimes buddy boyo.

I will not accept any slander to my boy LittleBoy

 

[Robtical]

To be fair I'm nice to everybody.

That was the response I was expecting. Do the femoids you do favors for also do favors for you in a nearly equal amount? It seems like they just use you and have you do them favors, while they just offer you "emotional support" then not even having the decency to hook you up with one of their whore friends at least.

 

[Deleted member 10124]

Littleboy seems to think that me having a different opinion to him is reason to try to get me banned.

If it looks like a duck, walks like a duck, quacks like a duck...

He even types like a fucking foid.

@Hoppipolla answer for your crimes buddy boyo.

I will not accept any slander to my boy LittleBoy

That was the response I was expecting. Do the femoids you do favors for also do favors for you in a nearly equal amount? It seems like they just use you and have you do them favors, while they just offer you "emotional support" while not even having the decency to hook you up with one of their friends at least.

When you mention quid pro quo. Expect the number of orbiters to drastically reduce.
It's only logical at the end of the day.

 

[WarriorSkull]

From my past experience attempting to "just be friends" with girls (which is basically orbiting) is that friendship for men and women is to different and will always turn to shit given enough time. For example, male friendships emotionally confide in each other very differently from how women do it. Men generally will use shared experience and comedy to aleve the pain. Maybe exchange some psuedo-stoic philosophy about living life. Women are different. Women between each other will comfort each other. They tell each other things will be okay, things aren't their fault, they are good and special, they deserve better, etc. They tell each other that they love and care about them. What happens when men and women try to be friends is you often get women who make boring friends for the man (they're not funny, share life experience, nor are they philosophical) and woman implicitly emasculates the man by seeking emotional comfort from him, but not being in a sexual relationship with him.

As a man, if you're going to attempt to be friends with a woman, you MUST make a hard rule never to provide them emotional comfort. This has nothing to do with protecting your male pride. It is so you never develop feelings for her. You WILL develop feelings for a women you provide emotional comfort to. It is how we are wired. It is the exact behavior that causes males to bond with females. This is how you get cucks who are in love with women they never sleep with and treat them with no respect. This is also why Chad sleeps with countless women and has no feelings for them whatsoever - because sex is not what bonds males to females! If you attempt this, my guess is that your experiences will be much like my own - women don't stick around because you're to "mean" (not providing emotional comfort when they seek it) or they will actually start flirting with you hard to lead you on. If you were a Chad they would just fuck you and hope their pussy was worth you "investing" (providing emotional comfort) to them.

 

[Zesto]

To be honest even if you're orbiting, just to have the touch or smell of a woman is fuel enough and better than not having it

I have sat next to a female in class and I felt it.

If I ascend I will never be upset again, nothing could bring me down,it's intoxicating.

I will praise the sun every morning.

 

[Deleted member 10124]

As an orbiter you're only playing along to the nice guy image. Stop LARPing.
If you want to be a nice guy than fair enough but be one all round the board.
You're fucking it for the rest of the nice but assertive guys out there. That's another way to look at it.

 

[iKillCucks]

Soy thread. Intruder alert