Is that no one is entitled to love or sex. Actually, no one is entitled to food, shelter or even life.
Nature decides. The cold, unforgiving laws of the universe decide who gets what and how.
I have personally never felt "entitled" to a girlfriend or wife, and I find incredibly childish the members who do here. I suspect most of them are under twenty years old.
The problem comes from the altruistic pretentions of human society. We have things like the Bible, or the Declaration of Human Rights, that try to mitigate the inherent amorality of Nature. This is a good thing, in my view. But it can become a terrible thing when this altruism is severely myopic--- when it focuses on the welfare of the poor and forgets the welfare of the ugly, for instance. This can only breed resentment and despair among the ugly, who feel unfairly treated in comparison, especially at a time when poverty isn't that much of an issue anymore, at least in the West. (No one is in danger of starving). When you decide to do charity, do it right.
Secondly, what most "incels" are actually angry about is the lying, hypocrisy and gaslighting. It is hard enough being ugly. There is no need to make us even more angry and frustrated by pretending ugliness doesn't exist, ugliness doesn't matter, or ugly people are treated on an equal footing with everyone everywhere in the social realm.
Most people here are young. They are still in the school system, or fresh out of it. That's where the disparity of treatment based on looks is the most flagrant, because of the general immaturity and low empathy of youth. Don't try to pretend to these people that they invented what they've seen or heard. Don't try to make them doubt their intellect and perception. The bullying, the giggling, the complete change in social dynamics depending on your attractiveness. Come on. While these things are sometimes exacerbated by a "negative attitude" or problematic hygiene, the original culprit is usually being too fat, ugly, or having red hair.
Nature decides. The cold, unforgiving laws of the universe decide who gets what and how.
I have personally never felt "entitled" to a girlfriend or wife, and I find incredibly childish the members who do here. I suspect most of them are under twenty years old.
The problem comes from the altruistic pretentions of human society. We have things like the Bible, or the Declaration of Human Rights, that try to mitigate the inherent amorality of Nature. This is a good thing, in my view. But it can become a terrible thing when this altruism is severely myopic--- when it focuses on the welfare of the poor and forgets the welfare of the ugly, for instance. This can only breed resentment and despair among the ugly, who feel unfairly treated in comparison, especially at a time when poverty isn't that much of an issue anymore, at least in the West. (No one is in danger of starving). When you decide to do charity, do it right.
Secondly, what most "incels" are actually angry about is the lying, hypocrisy and gaslighting. It is hard enough being ugly. There is no need to make us even more angry and frustrated by pretending ugliness doesn't exist, ugliness doesn't matter, or ugly people are treated on an equal footing with everyone everywhere in the social realm.
Most people here are young. They are still in the school system, or fresh out of it. That's where the disparity of treatment based on looks is the most flagrant, because of the general immaturity and low empathy of youth. Don't try to pretend to these people that they invented what they've seen or heard. Don't try to make them doubt their intellect and perception. The bullying, the giggling, the complete change in social dynamics depending on your attractiveness. Come on. While these things are sometimes exacerbated by a "negative attitude" or problematic hygiene, the original culprit is usually being too fat, ugly, or having red hair.
