It's Over One of the main problems of social isolation

[Deleted member 1780]

You start to not understand how you are seen through the eyes of others. I actually imagine people starting at something grotesque and alien when people look at me. I'm just an ugly male, but my mind makes me into something far worse.

Lack of social approval & social reinforcement solidify this image; these things are like a proof of what you believe yourself to be. No one cares to drag you out of this uncontrollable spiral either. Social reinforcement is for the winners.

 

[MarriedAndLookin4Fun]

Social isolation is the worst thing a person can suffer tbh, I wouldnt wish inceldom on my worst enemy

 

[needsolution]

Social isolation is the worst thing a person can suffer tbh, I wouldnt wish inceldom on my worst enemy

being mogged is the worst thing a person can suffer ded srs

 

[MarriedAndLookin4Fun]

being mogged is the worst thing a person can suffer ded srs

I wish I could mog people tbh, but I am inferior in every way

 

[needsolution]

I wish I could mog people tbh, but I am inferior in every way

mogging people is the objective of every person just fucking laugh at dreams like having loving family or go around the world

 

[Deleted member 20659]

I actually imagine people starting at something grotesque and alien when people look at me.

Same, so i'm usually surprised when people treat me normally

 

[mcfroggy]

I actually imagine people starting at something grotesque and alien when people look at me. I'm just an ugly male, but my mind makes me into something far worse.

Whenever I have to go outside I feel like everyone is staring and every little movement I make is judged, like if I move a certain way then they will start screaming 'monster monster kill him'. Then I end up thinking too much about how my body moves and I walk weirdly. Just too much stress to go out.

 

[Deleted member 20434]

Inceldom is a worser punishment than life in prison.

 

[Deleted member 1780]

Whenever I have to go outside I feel like everyone is staring and every little movement I make is judged, like if I move a certain way then they will start screaming 'monster monster kill him'. Then I end up thinking too much about how my body moves and I walk weirdly. Just too much stress to go out.

Yes bro.. I'm hyper aware of every movement I make, muscle that twitches and sound I hear. Normal folk filter these things out, which is why they are able to "be chill" or "are vibing". I can't. The mind of the loser is hyper aware of the environment.

Lack of social contact usually meant you were on the verge of death, so the brain is picking up on the environment in very high detail. It thinks you are close to the end.

The only way to fix it is positive social experiences. Of course, that is reserved for the people that have already accumulated positive social experiences. The losers sink deeper, and the winners rise upwards.

 

[mcfroggy]

The losers sink deeper, and the winners rise upwards.

This is the one the blackest pills I had to swallow, it's harder and harder to try to break the negative loop, and it increases exponentially. Just like how normie 35 year olds these days are becoming friendless incels because their wife divorced them and their friends drifted apart because he's no longer in the same life stage as them.

 

[Mystic]

Same, so i'm usually surprised when people treat me normally

 

[iblamemyself]

It's called alienation. Yes, you can develop some really weird beliefs when you are left alone for too long. You won't notice that these beliefs are weird until someone calls the cops on you.

 

[Noob Cake]

Its a compounding effect which you just cant help but laugh at the ridiculousness of it all. Studies show your physical and mental health deteriorates, you get dumber, etc.

 

[Hail The Bloatlord]

With time it decreased, but for a large part of my life I thought that every laughter I'd hear on the street was someone making joke of me, that everyone was lookig at me etc
For a large part of my life I've been paranoid, while the truth is, in most cases, people don't mind me

 

[Vermilioncore]

I enjoy being isolated now. My mind can't handle anything else because it's become accustomed to this

 

[Deleted member 16455]

i hate walking around campus alone and seeing females