A common misconception is that you need them to impress women. You don't. You need looks. But that's beside the point.
The theory is based on a semi-valid premise that, in order to meet women you need to place yourself where women are. Taken literally, this is true. Theoretically, were a gigachad to delete all his socials and lock himself in a basement, even he would be sexless. But only bad looking men would be inclined to do so because many forms of socializing do not work for us. A chad has no incentive to isolate.
When thinking about this, keep in mind also that practically all of us have experience socializing. Say, you went to school for like 12 years 5 days a week, didn't you? And it was not gender segregated because it's not the 19th century. Meaning, for many, many years you were placed in an environment which had plenty of women in it. And that did fucking nothing for you, did it? Now, why would a dance class be any different?
Sticking to the common example, dancing is probably not your natural talent. Just a wild guess. Meaning, you have not spent time practicing it because you have no inclination. Meaning, you will be bad at it. And being clumsy is not attractive. It's only endearing when a chad does it. What's cute about lanky or fat, horse faced guy tripping over his own feet? Fucking nothing.
That said, you SHOULD have hobbies. That is, nerdy male oriented hobbies where friendships can be developed. A common one is gaming, but I would advise against it because it can be too isolating. I mean, being alone in your room all day is not good. We know this better than anyone. You actually need to be in presence of other humans. These humans won't be women because we are too ugly for that. But they can be other nerdy men who laugh at your jokes. So a good hobby could be boys literary club where you actually meet in pizzeria and discuss the Warhammer novels.
You don't need your nerd friends to be blackpilled. In fact, maybe it's better if they aren't. Otherwise you'll just discuss lookism and hypergamy and bring each other down even more. We sometimes forget the function of blackpill. Primarily it's to protect ourselves. We know that for a romantic relationship to function, there needs to physical attraction. So betabuxxer type of relationships, were we even able to establish them, will be abusive. And we know that women generally react negatively towards not so good looking men. So don't try to woo your coworker. Chances are, you will get sacked. And so on. But you know all of this. This needs not be reminded on every social encounter.
The theory is based on a semi-valid premise that, in order to meet women you need to place yourself where women are. Taken literally, this is true. Theoretically, were a gigachad to delete all his socials and lock himself in a basement, even he would be sexless. But only bad looking men would be inclined to do so because many forms of socializing do not work for us. A chad has no incentive to isolate.
When thinking about this, keep in mind also that practically all of us have experience socializing. Say, you went to school for like 12 years 5 days a week, didn't you? And it was not gender segregated because it's not the 19th century. Meaning, for many, many years you were placed in an environment which had plenty of women in it. And that did fucking nothing for you, did it? Now, why would a dance class be any different?
Sticking to the common example, dancing is probably not your natural talent. Just a wild guess. Meaning, you have not spent time practicing it because you have no inclination. Meaning, you will be bad at it. And being clumsy is not attractive. It's only endearing when a chad does it. What's cute about lanky or fat, horse faced guy tripping over his own feet? Fucking nothing.
That said, you SHOULD have hobbies. That is, nerdy male oriented hobbies where friendships can be developed. A common one is gaming, but I would advise against it because it can be too isolating. I mean, being alone in your room all day is not good. We know this better than anyone. You actually need to be in presence of other humans. These humans won't be women because we are too ugly for that. But they can be other nerdy men who laugh at your jokes. So a good hobby could be boys literary club where you actually meet in pizzeria and discuss the Warhammer novels.
You don't need your nerd friends to be blackpilled. In fact, maybe it's better if they aren't. Otherwise you'll just discuss lookism and hypergamy and bring each other down even more. We sometimes forget the function of blackpill. Primarily it's to protect ourselves. We know that for a romantic relationship to function, there needs to physical attraction. So betabuxxer type of relationships, were we even able to establish them, will be abusive. And we know that women generally react negatively towards not so good looking men. So don't try to woo your coworker. Chances are, you will get sacked. And so on. But you know all of this. This needs not be reminded on every social encounter.
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