Serious Oldcels How Long Do I Have To Wait For My Libido To Go Down?

[EnglishCel]

mid 20s still going strong, I think men have libido until late 30s at least, many more years of coom and doom.

Shame I was hoping it would go away soon.

 

[weaselbomber]

This goes a long way actually when I’ve done it. The problem is something random will just set it off again.

This. If I hold back I'll be watching a YouTube video and someone jokingly talks about tits or some shit, day ruined, I become horny as fuck

 

[BornToLose]

30s it drops off.

 

[Coldone666]

I'm 36 and still horny as fuck, especially when a pretty girl in her 20's walks buy

 

[BornToLose]

I'm 36 and still horny as fuck, especially when a pretty girl in her 20's walks buy

Of course that does still get to me but I'm so blackpilled at this point it doesn't take much for me to switch it off. Not compared to it how it used to be, anyway.

Either my rage or my apathy tends to win out over any hornyness, these days.

 

[Coldone666]

Of course that does still get to me but I'm so blackpilled at this point it doesn't take much for me to switch it off. Not compared to it how it used to be, anyway.

Either my rage or my apathy tends to win out over any hornyness, these days.

Well the severe depression has definitely lowered this week. I've only jerked of once where usually it is every day.

 

[iconoclast]

given myself erectile dysfunction.

If you have erectile dysfunction, your libido has already went down. How old are you? I’m 21 and have involuntary boners all the time, would probably have pre-mature ejaculation if I ever got to fuck. Also jerk off around 3 times a day.

 

[lifeisfucked215]

Im in my mid 20's now and I'll just say it's definitely lower compared to being 18 and 19. Holy shit. I would sometimes blow through my entire paychecks escortmaxxxing when I was 18 and 19

 

[SlayerSlayer]

I'm in my 40s, and it doesn't go away. I'm a 15 year old both aspirationally, and in libido

 

[VλREN]

especially when a pretty girl in her 20's walks buy

Suicidefuel

 

[SociallyStupid]

Mine went away at like 30-31 (I mean, compared to how horny I was earlier, probably still more than the average woman).

 

[Defetivecuckachu]

I just want my desire for women to go away, it is just getting on my nerves.

I don't know if this answers the question or not...

I was at my most down, and my most depressed, in my early to mid 30s.
Up to that point, I had been young and knew (consciously, or subconsciously) that I needed to find a partner soon if I was going to have that whole normie life I wanted. When you know time is running out, that fuels anxiety, and desperation, and fear of missing out, and thoughts like "perhaps I'm not good enough?"

By the end of my 30s, I knew I'd missed that boat. Even if I met someone tomorrow, I was too old to have that whole life. Somehow I just started to understand that I wasn't going to meet someone who was right for me like that, I wasn't going to have children and a family and a whole normal life, and that future I wanted was over. That's subtly different than being worried that a future you want might not happen.

Once I had lived with that knowledge for a while, I found I was at peace with it. It wasn't a source of dread like a deadline that I knew I wasn't going to hit. It was just a truth about the world, like the sun coming up in the morning.

That's "It's over" with real meaning. (As opposed to 20 year olds yelling "It's ovER" like a mantra.)

Once I got to that place, I was free. Free of the fear of missing out. Free of the fear of failure. Free of the fear of something terrible happening. Free of the things that elevate inceldom from a low-level background sadness into a crushing existential dread.

With that, you can enjoy total separation between people you know in real life, and porn that you fap to on your screen. Sex doesn't exist, except as a masturbation aid on your devices. When you want it, you search it up, and when you don't want it, it's just not there. That's a huge relief. It's exhausting being sad all the time.

It's not quite as simple as that, because I've escortcelled so I know sex and intimacy and women are real, and I have some limited idea of what it's like. And there are times when real-world people and their real-world love and relationships remind me of what I don't have, and that can bring me down. But I'm getting better at knowing what my triggers are and avoiding them.

So I would suggest: Libido and desire won't go away. But your perspective on them will change.

 

[lifeisfucked215]

You want to kill your libido? Just be super depressed. You won't be in the mood to be horny. As a matter of fact you won't be in the mood to do anything

 

[EnglishCel]

If you have erectile dysfunction, your libido has already went down. How old are you? I’m 21 and have involuntary boners all the time, would probably have pre-mature ejaculation if I ever got to fuck. Also jerk off around 3 times a day.

I'm 20.

 

[EnglishCel]

I don't know if this answers the question or not...

I was at my most down, and my most depressed, in my early to mid 30s.
Up to that point, I had been young and knew (consciously, or subconsciously) that I needed to find a partner soon if I was going to have that whole normie life I wanted. When you know time is running out, that fuels anxiety, and desperation, and fear of missing out, and thoughts like "perhaps I'm not good enough?"

By the end of my 30s, I knew I'd missed that boat. Even if I met someone tomorrow, I was too old to have that whole life. Somehow I just started to understand that I wasn't going to meet someone who was right for me like that, I wasn't going to have children and a family and a whole normal life, and that future I wanted was over. That's subtly different than being worried that a future you want might not happen.

Once I had lived with that knowledge for a while, I found I was at peace with it. It wasn't a source of dread like a deadline that I knew I wasn't going to hit. It was just a truth about the world, like the sun coming up in the morning.

That's "It's over" with real meaning. (As opposed to 20 year olds yelling "It's ovER" like a mantra.)

Once I got to that place, I was free. Free of the fear of missing out. Free of the fear of failure. Free of the fear of something terrible happening. Free of the things that elevate inceldom from a low-level background sadness into a crushing existential dread.

With that, you can enjoy total separation between people you know in real life, and porn that you fap to on your screen. Sex doesn't exist, except as a masturbation aid on your devices. When you want it, you search it up, and when you don't want it, it's just not there. That's a huge relief. It's exhausting being sad all the time.

It's not quite as simple as that, because I've escortcelled so I know sex and intimacy and women are real, and I have some limited idea of what it's like. And there are times when real-world people and their real-world love and relationships remind me of what I don't have, and that can bring me down. But I'm getting better at knowing what my triggers are and avoiding them.

So I would suggest: Libido and desire won't go away. But your perspective on them will change.

What a well written response. I still hope for a woman, I want to have a son so badly but I know that is out of the question. I hope your right about my perspective changing, if In fact my libido does not go away it would make it easier to cope.

I guess right now, I'm just like a drowning man flailing about trying desperately to grab onto dry land. Except I am trying to grab onto women. I hope as I grow older I won't care as much but my young brain right now just tortures me, as I know I am missing all my chances at young love and all those other experiences.

And thank you for your response you did not have to write such a long message but it means something to me that you took the time to answer my stupid question in such a well written manner.

 

[decafincel]

Wtf, I'm so jealous