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Serious Oldcels how did you cope for all these years?

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Oldcels how did you cope for all these years? And also what are your advices for youngcels?
 
There is no cope. Just be attractive.
 
At a certain point i simply stopped giving a fuck. But i always basically lived my life as if i were anesthetized.
 
I have respect for oldcels
 
I coped by being an aware. I live in Saudi Arabia so it’s not like I go outside and see couples holding hands or girls in yoga pants. I only started to become aware of my situation when I started to travel and talk to my better looking coworkers and realizing they have a healthy sex life even though we live in same country and make the same money.

I advice all youngcels to look max. Even if it doesn’t help you to attract a female you will be strong and healthy. And do not NEET get a job and get your finances together ASAP it will help you a lot in the long run. You don’t want to be the sad,old, ugly guy in the office.
 
Alcohol and drugs. 35 year old KHHV.
 
By nurturing thoughts of hatred and vengeance against society. I despise humanity. I'm happy that I'm able to witness the fall of mankind. This gives me life fuel.
 
By nurturing thoughts of hatred and vengeance against society. I despise humanity. I'm happy that I'm able to witness the fall of mankind. This gives me life fuel.
As much as people say it'll never happen, I believe AI will be our downfall within our lifetimes. amen.
 
I used to somewhat cope with video games, but now that feminists have completely overtaken the gaming industry that cope is gone, too.

Honestly, I´m absolutely miserable and wanting to die every single minute of the day, everyday. I´m almost 30 now and my mental health has gotten progressively worse each and every day. Being incel for so long has completely knocked the sail out of my will to live.
 
I used to somewhat cope with video games, but now that feminists have completely overtaken the gaming industry that cope is gone, too.

Honestly, I´m absolutely miserable and wanting to die every single minute of the day, everyday. I´m almost 30 now and my mental health has gotten progressively worse each and every day. Being incel for so long has completely knocked the sail out of my will to live.

Feminist dont even let us join a time alone now they want to take everything from us. Also are you neeting?
 
If by oldcel you mean 25+ then: Alcohol, mild autism and jewish pills.
 
Feminist dont even let us join a time alone now they want to take everything from us. Also are you neeting?
no, I have a job, but I make peanuts because I´m getting taken advantage of by my employer.
 
I used to somewhat cope with video games, but now that feminists have completely overtaken the gaming industry that cope is gone, too.

Honestly, I´m absolutely miserable and wanting to die every single minute of the day, everyday. I´m almost 30 now and my mental health has gotten progressively worse each and every day. Being incel for so long has completely knocked the sail out of my will to live.
I also coped hard.
I miss these days.
 
you just need to learn to stop giving a fuck. My advice is forget about women and focus on other things in life.
 
38 here.

Masturbation. Yes, it is possible to masturbate your life away. If you want to quit and ascend, make it a point to do so now, before it's too late.
 
38 here.

Masturbation. Yes, it is possible to masturbate your life away. If you want to quit and ascend, make it a point to do so now, before it's too late.
Have you any regrets and could you have ascend or was there no way to ascend?
 
I’m coping with gaming and porn.

My advice is to surgerymax if possible.
 
Looksmaxxing (ie: plastic surgery)

Gymcelling

Videogames

Series

Drugmaxxing
 
Your life contracts as compared to others. If you beat a dog when it enters a particular room, soon he will avoid that place.

Incels rarely experience harmony with the world around us. We can see there is a difference in us vs the others; we are treated differently. We just don’t know what the difference it is. From a very early age, bullying, derision by girls and teachers etc have provided a tortured skill. We are good at seeing the longer view.
We seek out interactions that result in less pain. Avoid those rooms of your youth.

In the end you will find the reason for your inceldom is completely incidental. It is your state that matters. You are incel, you are not. Your response to the world and its response to you depends on that. Nothing else really matters.
Finding reasons for inceldom is a folly of the young. If you can find the reason, then you might change things in your life or perhaps find other avenues to living a life that almost everyone else takes for granted.

As you age, you understand the futility of searching out “why”. The reason is external. It has nothing to do with you. Your incel responses are just like a dog cowering in the corner. You really do not know why this is happening. You just learn how to mitigate the pain.

In the end, you have to accept what can’t be changed. I imagine people born blind or deaf that has never seen a single moment of daylight or ever heard a note of music. They also miss out on a great deal too I think.

Almost every human can find empathy for the deaf or sightless. Less so for incels. We are deficient in something that is outside our control yet those around us presume it is within our ability to change and try to advise or deride you over that point.

That constant grind against this incomprehensible unfairness, especially experienced when so young, dominates your destiny. So when it comes time to form relationships with women, we find lack the ability because it was purposely driven from us all our lives by people that now find fault with those who suffer this way.

You have to let it go or it will consume you. I understand the young can’t do this and they should not try. I am afraid you have to burn in the fire to gain the strength to let go.
 
Your life contracts as compared to others. If you beat a dog when it enters a particular room, soon he will avoid that place.

Incels rarely experience harmony with the world around us. We can see there is a difference in us vs the others; we are treated differently. We just don’t know what the difference it is. From a very early age, bullying, derision by girls and teachers etc have provided a tortured skill. We are good at seeing the longer view.
We seek out interactions that result in less pain. Avoid those rooms of your youth.

In the end you will find the reason for your inceldom is completely incidental. It is your state that matters. You are incel, you are not. Your response to the world and its response to you depends on that. Nothing else really matters.
Finding reasons for inceldom is a folly of the young. If you can find the reason, then you might change things in your life or perhaps find other avenues to living a life that almost everyone else takes for granted.

As you age, you understand the futility of searching out “why”. The reason is external. It has nothing to do with you. Your incel responses are just like a dog cowering in the corner. You really do not know why this is happening. You just learn how to mitigate the pain.

In the end, you have to accept what can’t be changed. I imagine people born blind or deaf that has never seen a single moment of daylight or ever heard a note of music. They also miss out on a great deal too I think.

Almost every human can find empathy for the deaf or sightless. Less so for incels. We are deficient in something that is outside our control yet those around us presume it is within our ability to change and try to advise or deride you over that point.

That constant grind against this incomprehensible unfairness, especially experienced when so young, dominates your destiny. So when it comes time to form relationships with women, we find lack the ability because it was purposely driven from us all our lives by people that now find fault with those who suffer this way.

You have to let it go or it will consume you. I understand the young can’t do this and they should not try. I am afraid you have to burn in the fire to gain the strength to let go.
Wow beautifull you should speak more have not seen any threads from you yet.
 
Videogamemaxxing. World of Warcraft got me through about 8 years of it.
 

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