wizardcels, does it get better? I'm 21 and have no friends. I have esoteric views to the maisntream world. i'll be forever lonely
The older you get the harder it will be to socialize, so if you're a khhv without friends at 25 then you will most likely stay that way for your whole life
i think it depends on whether you're the type of person who can appreciate the other blessings in your life.- For me, life is pretty good because I stay aware of the horrific conditions that many people in the world have to endure in their daily lives... millions of people who live in abject poverty or in war zones, etc.
If one of those people had the chance to switch places with me, they would feel like they had won life's lottery and were living in paradise.- So I keep that in mind, and that helps me to develop a sense of gratitude about how great my life truly is.
If one of those people had the chance to switch places with me, they would feel like they had won life's lottery and were living in paradise.- So I keep that in mind, and that helps me to develop a sense of gratitude about how great my life truly is.
was literally just thinking about this a few moments ago.
No. Time is not on your side. I can think of three effects working against men just now:
Women demands increase with age. As you age with the women in your age group, they become exponentially more demanding, far outpacing the average man's ability to rise. As demanding as they may seem, younger women are the most forgiving of low achievement in men. A 15-year-old girl will date any above-average boy of 15 in her school. A 20-year-old woman might stumble into a relationship with an eye-catching man of 20 in her college. An unpartnered 30-year-old woman demands the world from a man of 30 anywhere in the world.
Your circle decreases with age. As you age, again alongside your peers, your funnel of potential mates narrows dramatically. Desirable individuals pair off quickly: only the dregs remain. Others move away geographically, breaking old connections and forming new ones: this churn, plus the pull towards larger cities, of course favors the sociable. With age come undesirable health events: some become crippled; others straight up die.
Stigmatization of older men. You can aim to date younger. The Ponzi scheme of senior men farming junior generations for women was widespread in the past, but mostly closed off now. The invisible hand of the market works against men who try this path: age-gap relationships are heavily policed by both younger men and older women in the same measure as they would give older men the upper hand otherwise.
In other words, if you can't make it at 15, at 20, it's over.
Women demands increase with age. As you age with the women in your age group, they become exponentially more demanding, far outpacing the average man's ability to rise. As demanding as they may seem, younger women are the most forgiving of low achievement in men. A 15-year-old girl will date any above-average boy of 15 in her school. A 20-year-old woman might stumble into a relationship with an eye-catching man of 20 in her college. An unpartnered 30-year-old woman demands the world from a man of 30 anywhere in the world.
Your circle decreases with age. As you age, again alongside your peers, your funnel of potential mates narrows dramatically. Desirable individuals pair off quickly: only the dregs remain. Others move away geographically, breaking old connections and forming new ones: this churn, plus the pull towards larger cities, of course favors the sociable. With age come undesirable health events: some become crippled; others straight up die.
Stigmatization of older men. You can aim to date younger. The Ponzi scheme of senior men farming junior generations for women was widespread in the past, but mostly closed off now. The invisible hand of the market works against men who try this path: age-gap relationships are heavily policed by both younger men and older women in the same measure as they would give older men the upper hand otherwise.
In other words, if you can't make it at 15, at 20, it's over.
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No but you do or can with time and age mellow out and stop caring so much.
You always have the knowledge ever present in your mind that having a wife and family or being a giga Chad that can live the pump n’ dump playboy lifestyle is far preferable to what you’ve got but still you try and make the most of it with your copes and as you learn to cope you can numb yourself to a certain degree and thereby anesthetize yourself to the cruelties of women and the world in general in regards to yourself.
I myself have McDonald’s, Stardew Valley, @Todd Thundercock videos and you guys as my copes for example and they/you do help but of course I want more ie a normal life with a woman that I love and a family but I just no longer allow to beat myself up over that so much anymore because it’s largely out of my control and I don’t desire to SEA maxx for an Asian male order bride so what’s the point of continuing to beat myself up really?
No, your social hopes get much worse.
I strongly suggest if you have any desire to be social, get out there and try now because your acceptable time to be looking for friends is nearly running out.
If you think it's bad now, wait until you're 25, I say 23, and try talking to any random people. It's a nightmare. You are fully expected to have your social life in order by then, and nobody will help you.
see, this is why i come here for real answers. reddit fags always say "jsut talk to people" what they don't tell is that it gets you locked up. They treat reality as illusion and illusion as reality. the prolem with that is many autistic people can't comprehend that and when the treat reality as reality and say it out loud, when's social suicide for them, if you say an axiom that we have all been conditioned to agree to out loud or worse, question it, then that gets you in REAL trouble... and i don't see them claim ableism there... where it actually matters.
those faggots had me believeing that i could be friend people as a 26 year old person
If you want to social maxx easily just use your autism to meticulously learn all of the various sports team stats of your local area and state.
Also wear team sports jerseys and or themed shirts and clothing whenever you can, hats too if you like as well sunglasses can help hide any mental illnesses you have.
Anyway when it comes to sports all I can say is that normies fuckin love that shit.
I’ve had dudes come up and try to spark up conversations with me before about their favorite teams just because I was wearing a comfortable fitting shirt with the team logo on it.
I had no fucking clue who was playing who or doing what I just nodded went “uh huh” and played along and these guts did the rest and probably thought I was one of them.
Post I made in another similar thread
You stop giving a fuck at some point
After like 20 its basically impossible to make friends and women only come if your:
- Chad
- Rich
- Famous
A regular ass normie stands no chance in the current Dating Market. A sub5 was finished the moment he popped out the womb.
- Chad
- Rich
- Famous
A regular ass normie stands no chance in the current Dating Market. A sub5 was finished the moment he popped out the womb.
if you can seamaxx you should do itNo but you do or can with time and age mellow out and stop caring so much.
You always have the knowledge ever present in your mind that having a wife and family or being a giga Chad that can live the pump n’ dump playboy lifestyle is far preferable to what you’ve got but still you try and make the most of it with your copes and as you learn to cope you can numb yourself to a certain degree and thereby anesthetize yourself to the cruelties of women and the world in general in regards to yourself.
I myself have McDonald’s, Stardew Valley, @Todd Thundercock videos and you guys as my copes for example and they/you do help but of course I want more ie a normal life with a woman that I love and a family but I just no longer allow to beat myself up over that so much anymore because it’s largely out of my control and I don’t desire to SEA maxx for an Asian male order bride so what’s the point of continuing to beat myself up really?
No i hit the wall years ago
You care less. And I find I can cope with neetdom and neetbux. They take that away from me and the rope will be calling sharpish.
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