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Just a sampling of bullshit that I've been fed throughout my life that just popped into my mind. Usually preceded by some other bullshit about how women aren't superficial and the problem is not my looks etc etc.
What they don't realise is that if a woman isn't giving you signals based on her first sight of you then it is at best futile and at worst dangerous to try anything else with her. Women LOOK AT and GIVE SIGNALS to the men in the room that reach their acceptable standards the same way people click on the "Watch Later" button on YouTube videos they are interested in or memorise items on a menu that they may eventually choose to eat. Everything else is either uninteresting or inedible to them. They either look at these men to show they are interested in getting with them or to receive validation from a man they find high value enough for them.
If this doesn't happen to you then you are off their radar. If it doesn't happen time and time again no matter how many social situations you are in then that is final. Done deal. It's like ordering a KFC at McDonalds.
The other problem is that any reply to this advice can be countered with with more generic garbage:-
But women reject me aggressively and insultingly when I try to talk to them
They are not all like that. You will find someone
They ARE all like that. I have decades of experience of this and if there are some that aren't like that what are the chances they will like me???
Now you are just being sexist. It isn't their fault. That's not like you.
I've been told that the reason is that I'm not physically good enough BY GIRLS
Not all girls are like that. You will find someone
I'm in my 30s now
Love can happen at any age. Women care less about all that stuff as they get older
What they don't realise is that if a woman isn't giving you signals based on her first sight of you then it is at best futile and at worst dangerous to try anything else with her. Women LOOK AT and GIVE SIGNALS to the men in the room that reach their acceptable standards the same way people click on the "Watch Later" button on YouTube videos they are interested in or memorise items on a menu that they may eventually choose to eat. Everything else is either uninteresting or inedible to them. They either look at these men to show they are interested in getting with them or to receive validation from a man they find high value enough for them.
If this doesn't happen to you then you are off their radar. If it doesn't happen time and time again no matter how many social situations you are in then that is final. Done deal. It's like ordering a KFC at McDonalds.
The other problem is that any reply to this advice can be countered with with more generic garbage:-
But women reject me aggressively and insultingly when I try to talk to them
They are not all like that. You will find someone
They ARE all like that. I have decades of experience of this and if there are some that aren't like that what are the chances they will like me???
Now you are just being sexist. It isn't their fault. That's not like you.
I've been told that the reason is that I'm not physically good enough BY GIRLS
Not all girls are like that. You will find someone
I'm in my 30s now
Love can happen at any age. Women care less about all that stuff as they get older