I want to address this today:
View: https://www.reddit.com/r/IncelTear/comments/wpqzvt/here_incels_according_to_professionals_your/
This article, by a balding but still decent looking Chadriguez:
nypost.com
He cited a 2020 study and formed his own conclusions, and that is........it's all men's fault! (SHOCKING SCIENTIFIC DISCOVERY OF THE CENTURY) Despite the 2020 study he cites DID NOT imply that, and in fact they don't know why (I read the paper, and they write in their conclusion: No causal inferences can be made on the basis of this cross-sectional data)
Of course he's going to go with the female side ---- as a therapist, that's the major source of his income! And he's decent looking and has been treated well by women, so he's going to have a very positive and downright skewed view. Unlike me, who resembles a goblin and was treated like shit in his childhood and teenage years and has experienced that women can be as nasty as men. A hypothesis I repeat here often is that women display their true, uglier sides to unattractive men, as we're not on their radar
In his article:
“They (women) prefer men who are emotionally available, good communicators, and share similar values.”
Want to know why men are often emotionally unavailable and poor communicators? Because it's discouraged from boyhood. Wanna know my own example? I would get beaten for crying, even if I got hurt!!! I would get called a faggot for crying in a sad movie or seeing an animal dying. The result? I'm basically an emotionally detached robot now. And I'm not alone among men. Basically, for most guys, it works like this - 1) Childhood - be a man, don't cry, be tough and then 2) Adulthood - why are you so unavailable, cold, selfish?
After being criticized for his article, he writes: “Why? When all I am doing is asking you to be the best version of yourself. That’s all,” he said. “All I am inviting you to do is just be the best version of yourself.”
I'm one of the older commenters here, and I have stated it over and over again on this forum, and in conversation with relatives and acquaintances: Despite being born with fucked genetics, I have attempted to be the best version of myself (fitness, clothes, cleanliness, politeness).
Lurkers, don't believe me if you want to, but I consistently get called a "good person" and "helpful" but still find myself consistently alone. When trying to court the opposite sex, if I had a nickel for the times I have heard "you're really sweet but...."
IT - WHAT GREG MATOS WROTE IS CALLED AN OPINION AND NOT VERIFIABLE. HE ALSOPOORLY CITES AN ARTICLE BY JUMPING TO HIS OWN CONCLUSION JUST TO KEEP HIS FANBASE HAPPY
I'm sure as a couples therapist he damn well knows that women initiate most divorces, and that paternity fraud is a lot more fucking common than we think
View: https://www.reddit.com/r/IncelTear/comments/wpqzvt/here_incels_according_to_professionals_your/
This article, by a balding but still decent looking Chadriguez:
Therapist slammed for saying ‘lonely’ men need to ‘step up’ in dating
Psychologist Dr. Greg Matos penned a piece in which he argues “men need to address their [relationship] skills deficits.”
nypost.com
He cited a 2020 study and formed his own conclusions, and that is........it's all men's fault! (SHOCKING SCIENTIFIC DISCOVERY OF THE CENTURY) Despite the 2020 study he cites DID NOT imply that, and in fact they don't know why (I read the paper, and they write in their conclusion: No causal inferences can be made on the basis of this cross-sectional data)
Of course he's going to go with the female side ---- as a therapist, that's the major source of his income! And he's decent looking and has been treated well by women, so he's going to have a very positive and downright skewed view. Unlike me, who resembles a goblin and was treated like shit in his childhood and teenage years and has experienced that women can be as nasty as men. A hypothesis I repeat here often is that women display their true, uglier sides to unattractive men, as we're not on their radar
In his article:
“They (women) prefer men who are emotionally available, good communicators, and share similar values.”
Want to know why men are often emotionally unavailable and poor communicators? Because it's discouraged from boyhood. Wanna know my own example? I would get beaten for crying, even if I got hurt!!! I would get called a faggot for crying in a sad movie or seeing an animal dying. The result? I'm basically an emotionally detached robot now. And I'm not alone among men. Basically, for most guys, it works like this - 1) Childhood - be a man, don't cry, be tough and then 2) Adulthood - why are you so unavailable, cold, selfish?
After being criticized for his article, he writes: “Why? When all I am doing is asking you to be the best version of yourself. That’s all,” he said. “All I am inviting you to do is just be the best version of yourself.”
I'm one of the older commenters here, and I have stated it over and over again on this forum, and in conversation with relatives and acquaintances: Despite being born with fucked genetics, I have attempted to be the best version of myself (fitness, clothes, cleanliness, politeness).
Lurkers, don't believe me if you want to, but I consistently get called a "good person" and "helpful" but still find myself consistently alone. When trying to court the opposite sex, if I had a nickel for the times I have heard "you're really sweet but...."
IT - WHAT GREG MATOS WROTE IS CALLED AN OPINION AND NOT VERIFIABLE. HE ALSOPOORLY CITES AN ARTICLE BY JUMPING TO HIS OWN CONCLUSION JUST TO KEEP HIS FANBASE HAPPY
I'm sure as a couples therapist he damn well knows that women initiate most divorces, and that paternity fraud is a lot more fucking common than we think
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