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One of the classics bluepill love advices is "join that club, do that hobby, go to that place", as if real life were an anime where you join the club and get a girlfriend there. Normies want you to go every week to the book club, the gym, hiking, join a Dungeons & Dragons group, church, kung fu classes, traveling to Ethiopia... But in reality normies go to school/work monday-friday and saturday-sunday they go to parties or watch netflix.
My super outgoing sister basically goes to 1-school, 2-friends houses and 3-occasionally to parties. And she met her boyfriend through friends of her school friends. I admit that I don't go to friends' houses or to parties, but that doesn't matter because 1- practically nobody gets a girlfriend at a friend's house, 2- I don't like parties and I won't force myself to go to places I don't like to try to get a girlfriend.
I do go to college, definitely one of the best places to get a girlfriend. But guess what? I still don't have a girlfriend, just like in high school.
My super outgoing sister basically goes to 1-school, 2-friends houses and 3-occasionally to parties. And she met her boyfriend through friends of her school friends. I admit that I don't go to friends' houses or to parties, but that doesn't matter because 1- practically nobody gets a girlfriend at a friend's house, 2- I don't like parties and I won't force myself to go to places I don't like to try to get a girlfriend.
I do go to college, definitely one of the best places to get a girlfriend. But guess what? I still don't have a girlfriend, just like in high school.