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RageFuel Normies and their "personality gotcha"

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Why on Earth do Normies' always resort to a "It's not your looks, it's your personality, You should work on that". At some point I think that Normies think that personality is like a toy you get when you are at a child from your nearest store and then once it stops working get a new one.

Like no dude, My personality is the way it is, is because it is the cummilative result of all the interactions I've had growing up which are themselves influenced by how people bounced off of my being and my looks.

Unless you want me to wear a mask and completely destroy who I am, I can't just "work" on my personality.

Not to mention how for most normies, personality just means humor. And they don't realize that understanding and learning humor objectively as someone who has missed the childhood window is one of the most humiliating processes in existence.
 
Why on Earth do Normies' always resort to a "It's not your looks, it's your personality, You should work on that". At some point I think that Normies think that personality is like a toy you get when you are at a child from your nearest store and then once it stops working get a new one.

Like no dude, My personality is the way it is, is because it is the cummilative result of all the interactions I've had growing up which are themselves influenced by how people bounced off of my being and my looks.

Unless you want me to wear a mask and completely destroy who I am, I can't just "work" on my personality.

Not to mention how for most normies, personality just means humor. And they don't realize that understanding and learning humor objectively as someone who has missed the childhood window is one of the most humiliating processes in existence.
"Just change years of experiences and behaviour broo"
Even so personality is one of the biggest copes.
Try imitating what a 6 5 chad does and see if normies treat you the same way they treat him.
By this point i have given up on most normies.
Some for sure may be able to be made to understand but most will not.
 
I don’t think normies do this anymore

They’ll just say “you hella chopped” or something

Bluepill crap is done
 
I don’t think normies do this anymore

They’ll just say “you hella chopped” or something

Bluepill crap is done
Society when it came to face it's sins wimply accepted them wholesale. Such is the cruelness of the Human creature
 
"Just change years of experiences and behaviour broo"
Even so personality is one of the biggest copes.
Try imitating what a 6 5 chad does and see if normies treat you the same way they treat him.
By this point i have given up on most normies.
Some for sure may be able to be made to understand but most will not.
Genuinely. They don't get it. When you are good looking your jokes bounce off of you. When you are ugly the jokes have to overcome the disgust that comes into the normie mind first. You looks either aid or destroy your joke's effectiveness. There is no in between
 
Genuinely. They don't get it. When you are good looking your jokes bounce off of you. When you are ugly the jokes have to overcome the disgust that comes into the normie mind first. You looks either aid or destroy your joke's effectiveness. There is no in between
A good example would be a chad taking your joke and saying it louder.
This situation is both a brutal lookspill and also a voicepill
 
Because at their core they think everyone is the Hero of their own Story, that we are all destined for greatness or at least happiness, and that if you're saying material reality is holding you back, you just don's have a fighting spirit!

TL;DR
Niggas be Coping cuz they watched Spiderman as a kid and thought they'd grow up to be Peter Parker
 
Because they know you are right but they can’t accept it, so they have to resort to something.
 
Because at their core they think everyone is the Hero of their own Story, that we are all destined for greatness or at least happiness, and that if you're saying material reality is holding you back, you just don's have a fighting spirit!

TL;DR
Niggas be Coping cuz they watched Spiderman as a kid and thought they'd grow up to be Peter Parker
Which is funny af cuz they always try to make him the loser bullied nerd with no friends yet they never make the jump to make the dude actually be ugly. And when you ask why this broke loser is drowning in puh, they say it's cuz he "is such a good guy that felicia mj and gwen all fall for that" obv not for the 6'2 chadlite look instead
 
Why on Earth do Normies' always resort to a "It's not your looks, it's your personality, You should work on that". At some point I think that Normies think that personality is like a toy you get when you are at a child from your nearest store and then once it stops working get a new one.

Like no dude, My personality is the way it is, is because it is the cummilative result of all the interactions I've had growing up which are themselves influenced by how people bounced off of my being and my looks.

Unless you want me to wear a mask and completely destroy who I am, I can't just "work" on my personality.

Not to mention how for most normies, personality just means humor. And they don't realize that understanding and learning humor objectively as someone who has missed the childhood window is one of the most humiliating processes in existence.
Most normies think that being a "good person" means being overly agreeable and fake to the person standing in front you, then talking shit about them behind their back or behaving passive agressively. I'd consider that having a "bad personality" but apparently, I am wrong and it's actually people who are honest and act with good faith who actually have a "bad Personality (TM)".

Besides, normies always have an excuse for their bad "personality" excesses. They like to sleep around with domestic abusers and criminals? It's all because of their "trauma" or something. Normie women who behave like irrational over the top children around their partners? They have to do that for their "safety" bro! Those mind games are actually strategic!
 
Most normies think that being a "good person" means being overly agreeable and fake to the person standing in front you, then talking shit about them behind their back or behaving passive agressively. I'd consider that having a "bad personality" but apparently, I am wrong and it's actually people who are honest and act with good faith who actually have a "bad Personality (TM)".

Besides, normies always have an excuse for their bad "personality" excesses. They like to sleep around with domestic abusers and criminals? It's all because of their "trauma" or something. Normie women who behave like irrational over the top children around their partners? They have to do that for their "safety" bro! Those mind games are actually strategic!
Always a get out of jail free card they have. But yeah, I hate personality from the funny angle. When they say have a better personality they just mean relegate yourself to eternal humordom and become the group clown. "Just be funny"
 
"It's not your looks, it's your personality, You should work on that"
This is basically saying "Just change the whole way you present yourself to others to please them...just be a psychopath!"
 
it is a platitude, in other words they don't give a damn and only want to put you down.
 
This is basically saying "Just change the whole way you present yourself to others to please them...just be a psychopath!"
Just wear a mask, just be a performer without a stage. Brutal
 
Normfucks conflate public persona with personality
 
I don’t think normies do this anymore

They’ll just say “you hella chopped” or something

Bluepill crap is done
they sadly still do the personality bullshit btw. what changed tho, is even they know theyre just lying out their ass, but theyre happy to blatantly disrespect us, which is why they still do it, its to invalidate our experiences and identity.


Thing is they always let the mask slip, because when they come across a genuinely evil person, they'll be the first people to make comments about their looks rather than what theyve actually done.
 
Why on Earth do Normies' always resort to a "It's not your looks, it's your personality, You should work on that". At some point I think that Normies think that personality is like a toy you get when you are at a child from your nearest store and then once it stops working get a new one.

Like no dude, My personality is the way it is, is because it is the cummilative result of all the interactions I've had growing up which are themselves influenced by how people bounced off of my being and my looks.

Unless you want me to wear a mask and completely destroy who I am, I can't just "work" on my personality.

Not to mention how for most normies, personality just means humor. And they don't realize that understanding and learning humor objectively as someone who has missed the childhood window is one of the most humiliating processes in existence.
0% of this is about personality, if it was, there would be zero cases of domestic abuse. Women will never stop from seeking the thrills of life and call it good humor and good personality that concealed the evil person behind to get away with their absolutely idiotic decisions, and it is because men predominantly provide the grounds for their absolute power over social dynamics that we can't do anything to unite and break this fragile system. This might look unrelated but their dominance over even the language we use makes this easier. What words mean will never matter.
 
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Yeah the personality crap is bullshit. I've made women laugh and can be fun to be around but at the end of the day they want chad not me.
 
Because they're ignorant fuckwits who wouldn't last a day in our shoes
 
Because Normies believe foids when foids say they rejected a dude with subpar craniofacial bone structure because his 'personality' was bad.
 

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