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Jfl, when normalfags know one person on the spectrum (most of one that had fortune in misfortune), they think they know everyone with Autism. Then they say: "Well, he has no problems, so clearly Autism isn't a problem!" Jfl, as if that meant anything, as if you could extrapolate the things you know from one person onto others, the persons with Autism that you see as a normalfag are mostly those who have remotely normal lives due to being high IQ/supported from an early age. The people that have Autism range from persons barely/not able to communicate that completely exist in their own world to slightly socially inept, far too friendly for their own good men (with everything in between). Just because one Autist can work, find GFs (when he is tall/good-looking, jfl), it doesn't mean that everyone can do it.
Autism is also not a fucking synonym for Savantism (thank you Big Bang Theory for spreading that myth, were really good high school years for everyone with Autism) or a sign that someone can do great things (in science/other fields). Most of the time it's a life-long social disability and most of the men who suffer from it have no GFs/no jobs despite wanting those things and suffer a lifetime of rejection/unfulfilled desires/bullying (and women are generally speaking less affected by it and have normal social lives despite having worse social skills).
And it's also not a personality (jfl), it means that you often have very narrow interests, value routine, troubles expressing (but most of the time not with feeling) emotions and are generally speaking socially inept, these are neutral traits on their own that say nothing about a person, his interests, his morals or his social/political views - Autism is a framework for a personality to form/develop, but nothing more. Jfl, just because you are an Autist you must be a very, very good/friendly doormat or a computer who only thinks in strictly logical terms - everything else doesn't exist according to normalfags. Jfl, have seen anarchocommunist/libertarian autists as well as autistic fascists/national socialists (in the true meaning of the word/self-identified), have seen people that care about everything too much and drug-addicted people that live in completely destroyed flats with animal shit lying on the floor with Autism, have seen NEETs, people who work in sheltered workshops and scientists with it - the latter are an exception, but are the only visible persons with Autism for regular society, therefore they think that people with Autism that don't have the same success are the exception and are just making excuses (ironically that "positive representation" is what hurts Autists the most nowadays due to unrealistic expectations that parents/society have in them afterwards), Autism is on its own not a blessing, but often a curse (especially if you don't have special talents/marketable interests).
Then when you display other traits that aren't stereotypically associated with Autism (like self-esteem/defensiveness/uncaringness/etc.) they act all surprised and ask whether you are self-diagnosed or not, jfl and then they accuse others of gatekeeping. "Hurr, durr, you are autistic and this means you are always friendly - and when you aren't you don't mean it that way, therefore you can never become angry, lose patience or something like that and you must also want to vomit rainbows whereever you go! You can also never hate somebody/something!", jfl, stfu normalfags, the patience of all people has its limits and Autism doesn't mean that you have to be a rainbow-vomiting faggot who wants to hug the world.
Autism is also not a fucking synonym for Savantism (thank you Big Bang Theory for spreading that myth, were really good high school years for everyone with Autism) or a sign that someone can do great things (in science/other fields). Most of the time it's a life-long social disability and most of the men who suffer from it have no GFs/no jobs despite wanting those things and suffer a lifetime of rejection/unfulfilled desires/bullying (and women are generally speaking less affected by it and have normal social lives despite having worse social skills).
And it's also not a personality (jfl), it means that you often have very narrow interests, value routine, troubles expressing (but most of the time not with feeling) emotions and are generally speaking socially inept, these are neutral traits on their own that say nothing about a person, his interests, his morals or his social/political views - Autism is a framework for a personality to form/develop, but nothing more. Jfl, just because you are an Autist you must be a very, very good/friendly doormat or a computer who only thinks in strictly logical terms - everything else doesn't exist according to normalfags. Jfl, have seen anarchocommunist/libertarian autists as well as autistic fascists/national socialists (in the true meaning of the word/self-identified), have seen people that care about everything too much and drug-addicted people that live in completely destroyed flats with animal shit lying on the floor with Autism, have seen NEETs, people who work in sheltered workshops and scientists with it - the latter are an exception, but are the only visible persons with Autism for regular society, therefore they think that people with Autism that don't have the same success are the exception and are just making excuses (ironically that "positive representation" is what hurts Autists the most nowadays due to unrealistic expectations that parents/society have in them afterwards), Autism is on its own not a blessing, but often a curse (especially if you don't have special talents/marketable interests).
Then when you display other traits that aren't stereotypically associated with Autism (like self-esteem/defensiveness/uncaringness/etc.) they act all surprised and ask whether you are self-diagnosed or not, jfl and then they accuse others of gatekeeping. "Hurr, durr, you are autistic and this means you are always friendly - and when you aren't you don't mean it that way, therefore you can never become angry, lose patience or something like that and you must also want to vomit rainbows whereever you go! You can also never hate somebody/something!", jfl, stfu normalfags, the patience of all people has its limits and Autism doesn't mean that you have to be a rainbow-vomiting faggot who wants to hug the world.