I train a lot but being mentally stunted in my late teens somehow influenced my whole body and face to the point i am probably biologically much younger than my anagraphic age.
Because of this reason not only people subconsciously treat me like a kid (you can hear even from voice tone) but also people i tell my age use to fucking forget about it, go back treating me like my perceived age and then either get embarassed when they remember my actual age or they ask for it again JFL.
I experience similar things. I don't work out but I am physically stunted from puberty stress, sleep deprivation and health issues.
For instance, I am my moms weight, which is also the average weight of a woman in germany.
The next thing is that my little brother is taller and 15kg heavier than me, and my dad is even bigger and taller.
I was supposed to be easily 10cm taller. How do I know? Because I have the shoe size of a giant. My shoe size is 47EU, the size of a 190cm tall man, but I am 179cm. I have the stunted proportion of a teenager - giant feet, huge nose, long lanky arms etc. That's normal for a teenager, you are supposed to grow into the correct proportions later. That never happened to me.
Many people I interact with here, female social workers for example, have higher muscle mass than me and bigger bones. Bigger skulls.
The result of this is that I am treated like a retard and child very often. I have learned that if I act more "mature" people will shit on me. However when I play my cards, aka I exaggerate my traits, people treat me like a disabled person. So I am just playing into that now.
The social workers I talk to just assume shit like that I don't know how to install apps from the play store. Or that I can't read a clock - I swear, my autism diagnosis the doctor pointed at a clock and explained it to me like I am a baby. She was like, the big hand and the small hand bla bla bla.
You have to play your cards. If you are really ugly and fucked up - going harder into that can yield advantages. Think up a spectrum from down syndrome to chad looks. There is a kind of ugly where you are ugly, but not "victim" tier ugly. A down syndrome person is well into "victim" tier looks territory. So normies will virtue signal at them and treat them better.
If you are sub5 or even worse (good in this case), you can exaggerate your retardation. This will act as a multiplier with your looks, and so people will mentally move you from the "looser" to "victim" category. Thus you go from ppl pushing expectations on you, to people treating you like a victim.
Example, I have been dealing with social workers for 3 years now. If I act too competent, they will subtly hint at me just being a looser whos trying to leech welfare, they take subtle jabs at my credibility ("you know, you dont really
look like you have insomnia," "you know, you cant really see anything wrong with you"). They will also hint at me just getting a job and surviving on my own.
Since I got the autism diagnosis this year, at 26, I have been using the additional social leverage (normies are trapped in their presuppositions and biases. They cant deny mental illness, autism etc because thats unethical in their worldview). For example, I can appeal to autism traits, exaggerate them, I combine that with childhood abuse stories and acting more retarded than I am.
This has moved me squarely into the "victim" category now. The welfare office guy spent hours virtue signalling at me and said he can keep me on welfare indefinitely and shit. Another guy said if I got trauma therapy.
Now, with autism you have to do shit like this anyway, because normies tend to exaggerate their issues to make a point to doctors and shit. Autistic people may not be taken serious by professionals because they are very unemotional and dont seem like they are in pain and shit. I have an autism textbook that gives example of a guy with asthma attack who just patiently waited in the ER until he passed out.
I am 26 and yet the social workers call me a "young man" - they are not far from my age btw lmao.
Anyway, you get my point. Use what you have, no fucks given.
@SandNiggerKANG I have literally become a perfect example of a thomas szazs argument. He argued that many people with mental issues exaggerate or pretend because they are afraid of becoming homeless and shit.
I have no choice, if I don't do this shit, they will push me into another life or death situation, which got me into this shit in the first place. I don't want to go back to waging with people that call me a dwarf, rapist, school shooter and say I stink and what not. Being homeless was easier than waging and being with toxic family.
This just shows how looks is everything. People are not agecucks when someone older fucks a way younger foids people are agecucks when someone who is biologically older hence look older fucks someone who looks and biologically is much younger. If a 80 yo dude who was genetically engineer to stay 25 biologically for centuries fucked a 18 yo cunt nobody would do anything despite the massive age/life experience gap between the two.
Same with gender. If all men didn’t mature sexually and kept the female phenotype i bet 90% of problems affecting them and this huge lack of societal/sexual/familiar interest and protection toward men would also disappear since society tends to mistreat men based on their less neotenous LOOK (and i bet this huge lack of sexual/social value you get from the male body is subconsciously the cause of most trannymaxxing and trooning out episodes)
yes exactly. Another example - if a grandma fucked a teenage boy that would be worse than a younger woman, cuz shittier looks right.
The reason why women fucking students is ok is because women retain neoteny farther into life, supported by make-up, surgeries and so on.
And yes, if you balanced out sexual dimorphism, all of this shit would go away.
The principal issue is that women are doing everything in their power to widen the dimorphic gap by simultaneously enhancing their own neoteny and promoting behaviors for men that destory mens neoteny -> scars, fighting, self-destrutive behaviors that age you like drinking alcohol, smoking, pushing stressful jobs, enforcing hard gender roles that forbid men from enhancing their looks while they do the opposite - just check out surgery subs, or the jaw surgery sub. Women get positive attention and encouragement. Guys are told their non-existing chin is fine and they should get therapy.
I am trying to find images of women without make up and no shaved hair on google, and I can't even find anything. They either are partially shaved, wear makeup etc. The "unshaved" ones just have a hairy pussy, the legs ar still shaved. Not a single fully "natural" woman. Esther Vilar wrote in the 70s that if you put a natural man next to a natural woman, the difference would be shockingly little.
"About one in 14 women have hirsutism, a condition where “excessive” hair appears in a male pattern on women’s bodies." (mustache)
Female facial hair a series of contradictions – common yet considered abnormal – and the pressure to remove it represents the most basic rules of the patriarchy
www.theguardian.com
Just imagine a combo of this with a mustache.
This the raw of what men are worshiping, without hair.
