I've noticed they're only ever kind when they need something. Otherwise they ignore me. I'm getting fed up with this. I'm about to cut so many people off even if it means I'm socially isolated
S
Same, my "friends" message me in months/years and its ALWAYS ONLY when they need some tech assistance or computer fix. Otherwise i am irrelevant and invisible 
Same, my "friends" message me in months/years and its ALWAYS ONLY when they need some tech assistance or computer fix. Otherwise i am irrelevant and invisible
Just a tool. That's the fate of a sub 5 male.
ER?
Same.
Family, friends, it's all the same tiring pattern. They want something and then I'm dead to them.
Then I stop doing things for anyone and now I'm completely alone.
Family, friends, it's all the same tiring pattern. They want something and then I'm dead to them.
Then I stop doing things for anyone and now I'm completely alone.
The moment you stop and draw the line watch how quickly they try and guilt trip/gaslight you too. If anything, it's confirmation of their bias. People do nothing but use other people as tools. A repetitive theme throughout the entirety of civilisation. The fact that people still believe the facade of be the change you want to see in the world is yet another gaslighting tactic. It's all bullshit. You were never loved/cared for unconditionally.
truecel trait: all your "friends" laughed behind your back and only used you for benefits
I gave up on trying to bond with people years ago because they never genuinely care and always abandon me.
K
Drop them. I had similar friends and it wasn't healthy. You will be dropped as soon as you aren't helpful anymore. Not directly but slowly by not getting invited or talked to. It's worse if you are cut off than cutting them off yourself.
Or play the other game around. Don't help anymore and be fully aware that they will ignore you.
all strong relationships are give and take.
if you have a coding friend for example you can each do what you are strong at to build a project and benefit.
some neighbors borrow tools and appliances to save money.
its great to be needed, just make sure your friends have something to offer you back. if they don't then cut them off.
if you have a coding friend for example you can each do what you are strong at to build a project and benefit.
some neighbors borrow tools and appliances to save money.
its great to be needed, just make sure your friends have something to offer you back. if they don't then cut them off.
K
"Our friendship"
meaning?
K
People justify that you need to help them with the reason that "we are friends" and if you won't help that results in the message "nah we aren't really friends"
yup, I have cut off everyone except the people I need. Some close friends I can rely on sometimes financially , emotionally and ofcourse family
The ones who ask "how are you" unprompted are the real niggas.
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