Cramming for exams is not studying, it is doing bitchwork to please one's masters in academia. To show that one is willing to hustle to complete an arbitrarily assigned bullshit task. Actual studying is something which should be stimulating and rewarding, not something which causes immense stress and anxiety. The only studying I've done is outside of my schoolwork. I've done more studying than ever since I've graduated (((university))).
We are incels because we took school seriously, worried about our grades, stayed up all night preparing for exams and doing projects, jumped through all the hoops hoping to one day be rewarded for it. Whereas Chad just used school to meet people and have fun, and bypassed the hoops with his charm and connections. He made the best of his youth by doing what felt best instead of what his (((elders))) told him, while we wasted our youth by being obedient beta slaves.