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Serious No joy in socializing, are we defective ?

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I am 28 yo, soon to be a :feelsmage:

Due to 20 years of loneliness with no friends, i have lost the pleasure stimulus that drives humans to interact with each others.

I am incapable of forming a single friendship bond, the desire for socializing is simply non existent.

For so many years, I've always declined (except 2 or 3 times) to eat with coworkers or go to afterworks.
This got me to be labelled as the creep of the office and a potential shooter :society: , but I can't help it.

I feel no joy in socializing. Are we broken defective humans ? :feelsmage:
 
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Every time I tried to socialize with other people, I felt like I was just a third-person observator. :feelsrope:
 
Seeing as the majority of people like to socialise, I would say that yes, we are defective by nature.

Society isn't exactly set up for the asocial, which sucks. All we have are niche congregations such as this to vent and talk with others about our plight. So much for being progressive, society's view on people like us is still that we are dregs, failures.
A Woman how US however gets all the Genuine Support and Not the gaslighting Treatment, all she needs.

Fuck this Gynocentric world that Puts Woman above
 
you understand it when everyone tries to avoid you in office
Not if i avoid them first :feelsthink:
Joke aside. Avoidance is fine, i don't mind it.
I wish it was not accompanied by backbiting and mockery doe.
 
relatable thread. im autistic and have schizoid personality disorder
 
Not necessarily defective, there's just no joy to be had from socializing with people for self-aware subhuman males.
 
relatable thread. im autistic and have schizoid personality disorder
Same here.

I don't enjoy people at all. Most are fake and will stab you in the back or talk badly about you behind your back. Most guys would throw you under the bus for a crumb of pussy. And we all know being "friends" with females is stupid and cucked. Women get plenty of utility out of platonic male companionship. Attention, validation etc. We get nothing. Subchad and or aspie males who aren't bluepilled gain nothing from "socializing". People will naturally put you on the bottom of the social hierarchy. You are the one who gets sacrificed if ever someone must be sacrificed. It's the same concept of the "omega wolf", whose only value to the pack is that the others can bully them and take out their aggression on him. Better to simply avoid it altogether.
 
Same here.

I don't enjoy people at all. Most are fake and will stab you in the back or talk badly about you behind your back. Most guys would throw you under the bus for a crumb of pussy. And we all know being "friends" with females is stupid and cucked. Women get plenty of utility out of platonic male companionship. Attention, validation etc. We get nothing. Subchad and or aspie males who aren't bluepilled gain nothing from "socializing". People will naturally put you on the bottom of the social hierarchy. You are the one who gets sacrificed if ever someone must be sacrificed. It's the same concept of the "omega wolf", whose only value to the pack is that the others can bully them and take out their aggression on him. Better to simply avoid it altogether.
In a moment of danger or crisis, 'weird' unattractive physically unimposing male is a primary candidate for a scapegoat.
 
It's the same concept of the "omega wolf", whose only value to the pack is that the others can bully them and take out their aggression on him. Better to simply avoid it altogether.
I like this example.
Maybe the ngative social experience has rendered us defective, and to protect itself from further pain, the brain rewired itself to avoid the source of pain aka social interaction.
 
Can I apply for a refund? My game is not booting up for 23 years... I never had a chance to play it for more than 1 second.
 
Just be social bro
 
20 years? … i got nothing to say but i’m sorry.
what keeps you going?
 

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