Venting No friends, no family, no girlfriend. It's time to admit I'm just not a likeable person

[Esoteric7]

At this point in my life, I have to stop blaming the world and bad luck, and look at the common denominator: me.

I have no friends, no family, no girlfriend. I think I'm just simply not a likable person. Admitting this feels like swallowing glass, but it's the truth.

Everywhere I go: my current and previous workplaces, no one has ever liked me. Looks wise, I'm average faced and 5'7".

I’m not mean, cruel, or aggressive. I’m just very quiet, socially avoidant, and socially awkward. This is due to several years of isolation and watching from the sidelines of couples holding hands. This has taken a toll on me. Especially seeing couples, it acts as a reminder of my own exclusion. It's created a deep bitterness.

This is how normies view my social anxiety and avoidance:

• Arrogance: "He thinks he’s too good to talk to us."
• Weirdness: "There’s something wrong with him. I feel creeped out."
• Contempt: They take it as a personal insult to their ego.

My quietness is read as superiority. My lack of participation is read as arrogance. I don't want to perform for people I have no interest in, and they, in turn, are repulsed by my refusal to play their game.

If I met a copy of myself, same personality, would I want to be friends with myself?

Probably not.

My loneliness isn't a punishment from the universe, it's probably just a natural, logical consequence of who I am.

 

[Qech__]

I have no friends, no family, no girlfriend

I would list "no friends" before "no girlfriend" too. It's not place to ask for a girlfriend when I can't even make friends.

I’m not mean, cruel, or aggressive. I’m just very quiet, socially avoidant, and socially awkward. This is due to several years of isolation and watching from the sidelines of couples holding hands. This has taken a toll on me. Seeing couples, holding hands acts as a reminder of my own exclusion. It's created a deep bitterness.

I experience this too and I don't fucking understand anymore. It feels like I've been doing something horribly wrong this entire time but I don't know what. It feels blatantly obvious but I've never really figured it out. I just sometimes wish I could step out of my body and view what I look like and how I behave from another person's perspective. Maybe then I'd understand.

 

[Steiner_Atlas]

A hard pill for a lot of forum users to swallow, but a lot of us are just fucked up emotionally. This isn't to prove bluepillers right, though, more so years, or in some cases, decades of Inceldom have warped a lot of us into being this way.

 

[Caichan]

I'm average faced

KAY

 

[tired as fuck]

A hard pill for a lot of forum users to swallow, but a lot of us are just fucked up emotionally. This isn't to prove bluepillers right, though, more so years, or in some cases, decades of Inceldom have warped a lot of us into being this way.

Just a testament to the determinism... Put in certain inputs, receive certain outcomes.

 

[WastedPotential]

At this point in my life, I have to stop blaming the world and bad luck, and look at the common denominator: me.

I have no friends, no family, no girlfriend. I think I'm just simply not a likable person. Admitting this feels like swallowing glass, but it's the truth.

Everywhere I go: my current and previous workplaces, no one has ever liked me. Looks wise, I'm average faced and 5'7".

I’m not mean, cruel, or aggressive. I’m just very quiet, socially avoidant, and socially awkward. This is due to several years of isolation and watching from the sidelines of couples holding hands. This has taken a toll on me. Especially seeing couples, it acts as a reminder of my own exclusion. It's created a deep bitterness.

This is how normies view my social anxiety and avoidance:

• Arrogance: "He thinks he’s too good to talk to us."
• Weirdness: "There’s something wrong with him. I feel creeped out."
• Contempt: They take it as a personal insult to their ego.

My quietness is read as superiority. My lack of participation is read as arrogance. I don't want to perform for people I have no interest in, and they, in turn, are repulsed by my refusal to play their game.

If I met a copy of myself, same personality, would I want to be friends with myself?

Probably not.

My loneliness isn't a punishment from the universe, it's probably just a natural, logical consequence of who I am.

It feels so impossible to change too

 

[superpsycho]

i too am a very unlikable person

i have the mental maturity of a 12 year old

 

[irishforeheadcel]

Theres nothing wrong with your personality its just that your either ugly or short.

 

[fokusin]

i too am a very unlikable person

i have the mental maturity level of a 12 year old

 

[Freixel]

It's time to admit I'm just not a likeable person​