I think it's important to absorb the blackpill and understand that there are things in life you will never succeed at. I think it's very seductive for men to sit around thinking "ah whatever I can get a job/skill/girl when I feel ready for it" but you enter that complacency without even working to see if you can even attain any of that at all or if you even should. Then you get deeper into your adult life and realize all the shit you deluded yourself into thinking you were entitled to is actually priced out now; furthermore as time goes on the ideas you have about yourself become obsolete. Not just the pragmatic plan for yourself on what to do moving forward, but the metaphysical view of yourself as a person becomes outdated and you will become obsessed with a younger version of yourself.
