I am ~5’8 and I’m done growing. The doctors literally confirmed to me that I will not be growing anymore when I was 16. I always thought I would be tall when I was young. I always had disproportionately large feet and everyone in my family kept telling me that I was going to have a huge growth spurt to grow into them. That never happened. I’m a us size 12 at 5’8. My stepdad is 6’3. I had his shoe size when I was 12. My mom always tells me things about him and “funny” stories about his height. I’ve tried telling her that I am insecure about my height but she doesn’t stop.
When I was a little kid, I would look at him and tell myself that I would be that tall one day. Up until I was like 14 I really thought that one day I would have my growth spurt and be as tall as him. Now, as a grown ass man, I still have to crane my neck to talk to him. It hurts so bad knowing that not even my height is attractive. Literally nothing about me is attractive to women and being below average height just makes everything worse because height directly correlates to success and content in life. It’s just not fair that things out of my control are what make me attractive
When I was a little kid, I would look at him and tell myself that I would be that tall one day. Up until I was like 14 I really thought that one day I would have my growth spurt and be as tall as him. Now, as a grown ass man, I still have to crane my neck to talk to him. It hurts so bad knowing that not even my height is attractive. Literally nothing about me is attractive to women and being below average height just makes everything worse because height directly correlates to success and content in life. It’s just not fair that things out of my control are what make me attractive
