Venting My parents expectations

[Fo4idhater]

It’s really funny looking back at my parents’ expectations. They expected me to be a millionaire, a Chad, super high IQ, with a beautiful girlfriend. And now they look at me I’m in my 20s, no job, never even kissed a girl, was bullied my entire life, sitting in a chair in a dark room, defeated and alone.
The thing I don’t understand is this: parents have these expectations, but when they had me, they knew they weren’t millionaires or Chad and Stacy themselves. So it doesn’t make any sense. Why would they think that?
And the most annoying thing is that they think if I just talk to people more and go outside and stuff like that, everything will magically change. Like, holy shit normies really are oblivious to reality.

 

[ToBurble&Pine]

I’m in my 20s, no job, never even kissed a girl, was bullied my entire life, sitting in a chair in a dark room, defeated and alone

same

 

[TooSomething]

Jfl at parents who have no clue about how money and the economy works wanting their child to become a millionaire, although they never taught that child anything in this regard.

My parents, especially my father, were similar.

At least I live on my own. There is that.

 

[Sugar Cookie]

Jfl at parents who have no clue about how money and the economy works wanting their child to become a millionaire, although they never taught that child anything in this regard.

My parents, especially my father, were similar.

At least I live on my own. There is that.

What job do you do?

 

[TooSomething]

What job do you do?

I used to work as a lathe operator. Not anymore though. I quit my job a while ago because some co-workers tried to pin their mistakes on me and neither management nor the boss himself did anything about the whole situation.

So I left and am looking for another job.

 

[Mr.Breb]

I’m in my 20s, no job, never even kissed a girl, was bullied my entire life, sitting in a chair in a dark room, defeated and alone

same

 

[parbate2025]

It’s really funny looking back at my parents’ expectations. They expected me to be a millionaire, a Chad, super high IQ, with a beautiful girlfriend. And now they look at me I’m in my 20s, no job, never even kissed a girl, was bullied my entire life, sitting in a chair in a dark room, defeated and alone.
The thing I don’t understand is this: parents have these expectations, but when they had me, they knew they weren’t millionaires or Chad and Stacy themselves. So it doesn’t make any sense. Why would they think that?
And the most annoying thing is that they think if I just talk to people more and go outside and stuff like that, everything will magically change. Like, holy shit normies really are oblivious to reality.

Normie parents think "hardwork" gets you money
Exercise and diet gives you chad bone structure and "personality" gets you a girlfriend.
Your parents are normies after all so don't bother thinking about them

 

[Sugar Cookie]

I used to work as a lathe operator. Not anymore though. I quit my job a while ago because some co-workers tried to pin their mistakes on me and neither management nor the boss himself did anything about the whole situation.

So I left and am looking for another job.

How do you pay bills? Money leftover from that job or unemployment?

 

[TooSomething]

How do you pay bills? Money leftover from that job or unemployment?

Money I have saved and I should be getting unemployment payment as I have paid for the insurance.

But I will be looking for a new job anyway. I on't want to spend all of my savings, but I can chill a couple of months an not worry a single bit.

 

[Its_Over_Now]

It’s really funny looking back at my parents’ expectations. They expected me to be a millionaire, a Chad, super high IQ, with a beautiful girlfriend. And now they look at me I’m in my 20s, no job, never even kissed a girl, was bullied my entire life, sitting in a chair in a dark room, defeated and alone.
The thing I don’t understand is this: parents have these expectations, but when they had me, they knew they weren’t millionaires or Chad and Stacy themselves. So it doesn’t make any sense. Why would they think that?
And the most annoying thing is that they think if I just talk to people more and go outside and stuff like that, everything will magically change. Like, holy shit normies really are oblivious to reality.

parents probably wanted to do the same but couldnt so they put their hopes and dreams in u....

 

[Sugar Cookie]

Money I have saved and I should be getting unemployment payment as I have paid for the insurance.

But I will be looking for a new job anyway. I on't want to spend all of my savings, but I can chill a couple of months a not worry a single bit.

Do you drive? And do you live in a one bedroom apartment?

 

[TooSomething]

Do you drive? And do you live in a one bedroom apartment?

I have a car, I have my own apartment, yes.

 

[GreerTech Creations]

It’s really funny looking back at my parents’ expectations. They expected me to be a millionaire, a Chad, super high IQ, with a beautiful girlfriend. And now they look at me I’m in my 20s, no job, never even kissed a girl, was bullied my entire life, sitting in a chair in a dark room, defeated and alone.
The thing I don’t understand is this: parents have these expectations, but when they had me, they knew they weren’t millionaires or Chad and Stacy themselves. So it doesn’t make any sense. Why would they think that?
And the most annoying thing is that they think if I just talk to people more and go outside and stuff like that, everything will magically change. Like, holy shit normies really are oblivious to reality.

-Parents (at least good ones) want the best for their child
-There was some hope in society in the late 90's - early 2000's. It was practically utopian compared to now. I remember being a kid in the late 2000's to early 2010's and having hope for the future, thinking society is going to get better.
- "Go outside" has to be some sort of reflexive boomer response. What does that even mean? Maybe it made more sense in a pre-internet age, where there were more social clubs.

 

[ConvertedAryanSpic]

It’s really funny looking back at my parents’ expectations. They expected me to be a millionaire, a Chad, super high IQ, with a beautiful girlfriend. And now they look at me I’m in my 20s, no job, never even kissed a girl, was bullied my entire life, sitting in a chair in a dark room, defeated and alone.
The thing I don’t understand is this: parents have these expectations, but when they had me, they knew they weren’t millionaires or Chad and Stacy themselves. So it doesn’t make any sense. Why would they think that?
And the most annoying thing is that they think if I just talk to people more and go outside and stuff like that, everything will magically change. Like, holy shit normies really are oblivious to reality.

Fuck your parents expectations, the best thing you can do in your life right now is to avoid being like those pieces of shit while being a better person than them.

I was conceived in lust, impurity, dishonesty and so were you, we are not the product (breed) of a higher purpose or greater good, we're here because some fuck ass selfish act and the ignorance of an elemental force (sex).