SuicideFuel My Parents Are Mad at Me for Messing Up, and I Just Want to Cry

[Lazyandtalentless]

I messed up recently, and now my parents are mad at me. It feels like no matter how hard I try, I always end up disappointing everyone. I just want to cry, but I feel like I can’t even do that without feeling guilty for feeling this way. I can’t stop thinking about how I messed up, and it’s just this heavy weight on my chest. I hate feeling like I can’t do anything right, and it’s like I’m constantly falling short of what’s expected of me.


It’s hard to deal with the disappointment, especially from my parents, because I already feel like I don’t live up to their standards. I don’t know how to fix it, and the more I try, the worse it feels. It just makes me want to retreat, hide, and not deal with anything. But I can’t help but feel like I’m always the one causing problems, no matter how hard I try to avoid it.


Is anyone else dealing with this kind of thing? It just feels like I'm stuck in this endless cycle of disappointment, and I don’t know how to break free.

 

[xmiserablesoul]

sorry to hear man, i cried earlier like a little bitch

 

[Poopless One]

I punched my dad in the face and flicked and silenced my own mother. Fuck those idiots

 

[BSGMANLET]

It’s hard to deal with the disappointment, especially from my parents, because I already feel like I don’t live up to their standards.

Then don't live up to there standards
Live up to you're own. You don't owe your parents shit brocel. If they can't accept you that's there problem

 

[ViciousKanga]

Yes, I've been dealing with this ever since the university i go to called my parents telling them that i was failing some of my university classes. I can tell my dad feels embarrassed to have me as his son as his childhood friend/cousins son, who is the same age as me is exactly what he dreams of me to be. He does well in his academics, has many friends, is liked by all of our relatives, get a lot of female attention, whilst I just rot away in my bedroom playing games or gooning. Last time i met him (the son of my dads friend) i genuinely felt embarrassed and so obsolete when i was around him. I remeber when i came home that day i just sat in my room in the dark pondering why life has to be this horrible. I feel horrible about it as my parents are the only people who give af about me and if i didnt have them or i had a bad relationship with them i would have roped long ago.

 

[nightbane]

I punched my dad in the face and flicked and silenced my own mother. Fuck those idiots

thats how you get kicked out of your house and become homeless, terrible suggestion lol

 

[Aegon Targaryen]

Dude this sounds really gay but sometimes you gotta let it out.

Go in your room where you're alone and clear your mind. Never bottle up your emotions for too long or it will lead to prolonged depression. BTW fuck your parents. Retards need to get a grip.

 

[Aegon Targaryen]

thats how you get kicked out of your house and become homeless, terrible suggestion lol

He's most likely an infiltroon. All the shit he's been posting has been dogshittier like the comment above

 

[slapthatsillywilly]

Hey I'm sorry man what happened? What are they disappointed about? The pressure sounds really tough

 

[slapthatsillywilly]

Yes, I've been dealing with this ever since the university i go to called my parents telling them that i was failing some of my university classes. I can tell my dad feels embarrassed to have me as his son as his childhood friend/cousins son, who is the same age as me is exactly what he dreams of me to be. He does well in his academics, has many friends, is liked by all of our relatives, get a lot of female attention, whilst I just rot away in my bedroom playing games or gooning. Last time i met him (the son of my dads friend) i genuinely felt embarrassed and so obsolete when i was around him. I remeber when i came home that day i just sat in my room in the dark pondering why life has to be this horrible. I feel horrible about it as my parents are the only people who give af about me and if i didnt have them or i had a bad relationship with them i would have roped long ago.

This sounds really painful I'm sorry. I feel ashamed too idk what advice to give but I know how you feel man

 

[Poopless One]

thats how you get kicked out of your house and become homeless, terrible suggestion lol

Kick *them* out first.

 

[Lazyandtalentless]

Hey I'm sorry man what happened? What are they disappointed about? The pressure sounds really tough

i don’t feel like talking about it

 

[Haden_]

He's most likely an infiltroon. All the shit he's been posting has been dogshittier like the comment above

 

[ViciousKanga]

This sounds really painful I'm sorry. I feel ashamed too idk what advice to give but I know how you feel man

nothing i can really do it is what it is

 

[Izayacel]

You still feel like you owe somebody something , while being in a Gynocentric World that is hostile towards Average / below Man .

Dont feel Bad about shit that isnt your fault .

 

[HomicidalSuicidal88]

My parents are always getting made at me for thing like that it gets anooying to a point were im just feel bad and worthless about myself

 

[oldNgreycel]

Is anyone else dealing with this kind of thing?

No. I moved out of my parents house 20 years ago and haven't spoken to them for at least 10 years now. Maybe you should do the same

 

[sconswap]

You don't need to be sad because most of the things you experience are their fault anyway.

You didn't want to come this far behind in this life. If you are failing, they didn't teach you what it meant to succeed little by little in your childhood, they didn't even draw a life plan suitable for you, and you had to find everything yourself. Why do you think so much about people who don't even think about you that much?

 

[TooSomething]

Yes, I've been dealing with this ever since the university i go to called my parents telling them that i was failing some of my university classes. I can tell my dad feels embarrassed to have me as his son as his childhood friend/cousins son, who is the same age as me is exactly what he dreams of me to be. He does well in his academics, has many friends, is liked by all of our relatives, get a lot of female attention, whilst I just rot away in my bedroom playing games or gooning. Last time i met him (the son of my dads friend) i genuinely felt embarrassed and so obsolete when i was around him. I remeber when i came home that day i just sat in my room in the dark pondering why life has to be this horrible. I feel horrible about it as my parents are the only people who give af about me and if i didnt have them or i had a bad relationship with them i would have roped long ago.

Then you should get your act together. If you actually appreciate what your parents are doing for you, try your best. Don't waste time with games, I guess.

 

[ViciousKanga]

Then you should get your act together. If you actually appreciate what your parents are doing for you, try your best. Don't waste time with games, I guess.

i have no hope anyways

 

[TooSomething]

i have no hope anyways

You do this for your parents, and then yourself. It's your choice and life.