My parents are mad at me for having social anxiety yet they should be mad at society

[The Wolf]

They know how I get treated (they know, they've implied it and already reacted to someone staring once by mouthing stop it) but their attitude is more "it is what it is, he has to go outside to work, to support himself, sooner or later -- and rather sooner than later"

Instead of confronting people with words, like what's your problem ("fight") , I "flight" -- look down, walk away quickly etc.

Anyway. I think my parents should have a bit more empathy and be mad at society, not at me. As they angrily say "you're not normal, you're a young person who never goes outside and always hide at home!"

 

[wereq]

They should blame themselves for giving you anxiety and other bad genetics. You should hold them accountable for putting you through hell.

 

[The Wolf]

They should blame themselves for giving you anxiety and other bad genetics. You should hold them accountable for putting you through hell.

I can't blame you for not knowing this (I mentioned it a long time ago and you probably didn't read it) but my parents were chad and stacy when they had me and so is my sister.

I got a mysterious gene mutation/disability by total chance, so I look nothing like them (people have told this to my parents in the past - and no, I'm not adopted). I could have been a 6'1 chadlite, instead I am 5'4 with truecel face. I was a beautiful child until about 3, then again at around 7-9, then in the time-span of around 3.5-4 years, my skull and face changed extremely. Girls were disgusted and I got bad treatment by everyone.

 

[deleted fren]

I can't blame you for not knowing this (I mentioned it a long time ago and you probably didn't read it) but my parents were chad and stacy when they had me and so is my sister.

I got a mysterious gene mutation/disability by total chance, so I look nothing like them (people have told this to my parents in the past - and no, I'm not adopted). I could have been a 6'1 chadlite, instead I am 5'4 with truecel face. I was a beautiful child until about 3, then again at around 9-10 but then in the time-span of around 3 years, my skull and face changed extremely. Girls were disgusted and I got bad treatment by everyone.

 

[Esoteric7]

My parents wouldn't understand what Social Anxiety even is

 

[wereq]

I can't blame you for not knowing this (I mentioned it a long time ago and you probably didn't read it) but my parents were chad and stacy when they had me and so is my sister.

Oh yeah I remember you telling me. I definitely read it but forgot. My memory is not great.

 

[wereq]

I got a mysterious gene mutation/disability by total chance, so I look nothing like them (people have told this to my parents in the past - and no, I'm not adopted). I could have been a 6'1 chadlite, instead I am 5'4 with truecel face. I was a beautiful child until about 3, then again at around 9-10 but then in the time-span of around 3 years, my skull and face changed extremely. Girls were disgusted and I got bad treatment by everyone.

Yeah I remember this now that you've reminded me. Brutal tbh.

 

[The Wolf]

Oh yeah I remember you telling me. I definitely read it but forgot. My memory is not great.

np and same

Yeah I remember this now that you've reminded me. Brutal tbh.

yea I often have these fantasies/daydreams about likely scenarios if all this didn't happen (certain girls would've been my gf, i'm sure of it). it's insane how much puberty changed me (total skull & face change)

 

[wereq]

it's insane how much puberty changed me (total skull & face change)