My mum disapproves of me moving out.

[Clownworldcell]

My mum disapproves of me moving out she told me I can’t look after my self while also telling me I can’t afford it. I can look after my self I’m much more self reliant than she is so she just said a lie about me in response to why I should not move out. When it comes to wether or not I can or can not afford it I’d say a third to half my welfare payment would be going to rent if I moved out however the rental bond cost you have to make before moving in is close to all the money I have.

Another reason she opposed to me moving out was due to how she said it’s my duty to look after her because I’m her son. It’s not my duty to look after her she only says that because of her self entitlement. Wether or not you look after someone is based on a voluntary decision not an involuntary decision. I only look after her because she can’t take no for an answer and will harrass me if I don’t which is pretty much abuse. She talked to me like her say in wether or not I move out matters more than my say in wether or not I move out.

 

[wereq]

Stay with your family in spite of their imperfections. Look after her. As an incel, you are already alone in this world and almost everyone in it hates you. Don't make the equation more rigged against you than it already is.

 

[Copexodius Maximus]

My mum disapproves of me moving out she told me I can’t look after my self while also telling me I can’t afford it. I can look after my self I’m much more self reliant than she is so she just said a lie about me in response to why I should not move out. When it comes to wether or not I can or can not afford it I’d say a third to half my welfare payment would be going to rent if I moved out however the rental bond cost you have to make before moving in is close to all the money I have.

Another reason she opposed to me moving out was due to how she said it’s my duty to look after her because I’m her son. It’s not my duty to look after her she only says that because of her self entitlement. Wether or not you look after someone is based on a voluntary decision not an involuntary decision. I only look after her because she can’t take no for an answer and will harrass me if I don’t which is pretty much abuse. She talked to me like her say in wether or not I move out matters more than my say in wether or not I move out.

Where do you live and how old are you?

Stay with your family in spite of their imperfections. Look after her. As an incel, you are already alone in this world and almost everyone in it hates you. Don't make the equation more rigged against you than it already is.

Only if your parents were nice to you and were good parents. You don’t owe them anything if they treated you like shit.

 

[4channer4]

Is she single?

 

[Clownworldcell]

Is she single?

My dad died in 2011

 

[Clownworldcell]

Where do you live and how old are you?

I live in Australia I’m thirty one years old

 

[Mayocel]

The only way you will become independent is if you are forced to.
So the only way to foster independence and life skills is to move out. The way ai see it your mother is holding you back.

Get yourself some kind of a job, even if it involves something stupid like flipping antiques or funko pops on ebay, or flipping burgers. At least it means you are moving forward.

If you don't want to live in a large city, rent is usually more reasonable in smaller towns.

 

[Copexodius Maximus]

I live in Australia I’m thirty one years old

Isn’t it the norm in aussie culture to move out?

 

[Clownworldcell]

Isn’t it the norm in aussie culture to move out?

Not sure if it’s the norm the move out age is getting older due to inflation

 

[BlackPilledNeet]

Kids.is

 

[Monke]

I really want to tell you MOVE OUT NOW. But this is more complicated.

1. Make sure you are able to pay your bills. See how much money would you spend e very month and add 10-20% on top. Have some savings.
2. Do not ruin relationships with your parents. Tell your mom you just want to try if you're able to live by yourself. Visit her often. But don't react to "Oh, you're leaving, I'm having a heart attack now".

Remember once you're adult your parents need you more than you need them.

I've moved out of my parents apartment as soon as I was able to make enough money to support myself. One year later my life changed drastically.


Here's my cool story.

I used to live with my mom. Really she never cared about me. You should thank me I haven't aborted you was a standard tune of her. She couldn't. In soviet union they don't perform abortions on minors and she was 17. I hated her and when I was child I was afraid of her.

My only cope was thought that sooner or later I'll grow up. I'll be able to live out and live on my own. Noone will run into my room yelling because I spilled tea on the floor.

I grew up and my mother yelled at me less and less. Or its me who no longer cared. They just ignored me instead. You know I was returning home about 7 or 8 pm and I still needed to do my homework. My sister was returning at 2 yet they started playing viola at 8. Every time I returned home they were pulling viola out of the case and startibg to play. Arguing that I need to do my homework too did not help.

And then my mother asked me to participate in buying more expensive viola. Deep inside anger was burning, I told her no. Quietly.

Then I've got a real job. I started to make wagebuxx. I was saving most of my money. I knew it wouldn't last. Sooner or later I'll have to participate in home budget. So I told her I'll move out. She told me that this will happen only when I'll find a girlfriend. But I insisted.

At first it was hard. If you live with your parents you have very few nonelastic expenses. But then you need to buy food pay for your apartment etc. Nevertheless I maintained financial discipline. I did not even have a washing machine. So I did my laundry with soapy water. Disregard of this I was putting off $600 every month.

Then situation normalised and after 1 year of living alone I've got $15k in my bank account combining money I saved living with parents and without.

Then I've got an offer from a company abroad. I've bought one way ticket put my shit into a backpack and left. I live abroad. Noone yells at me. I'm a happy Monke.

Op. I really like you and I feel for you. Get your shit together. You. Will. Succeed. Good luck!

 

[IceStorm]

I live in Australia I’m thirty one years old

One of the few Australiancels lately

@30klhlvwizard

 

[asianfuck]

You're lucky