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Venting My mental health is declining

Lazyandtalentless

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The exhaustion is overwhelming, and I can’t seem to find anything that helps anymore. Nothing makes the pain go away. Sometimes I wonder if this is it for me—if it’ll just keep getting worse. It feels like no matter what I do, I’m stuck in this cycle of self-loathing and hopelessness. I see everyone else moving forward, but I’m just left behind, drowning in my own mind. I don’t know how much longer I can keep pretending I’m okay.
 
I find tiring myself physically helps my mind relax a bit. I still feel depressed overall, but it helps ig. Walk, gym, home workout etc.

Try one of those.
 
The whole world keeps on moving on while I am stuck, being suffocated by pain.
 
There's nothing to move forward to.

Why get married if all you're gonna be is a walking atm?

Why chase women when every single one of them is the exact same?

Why work a job when nobody appreciates you, and you have no reason to work for anything?

Why leave your room when there is nothing waiting for you outside of it?

Why eat healthy and exercise when nothing will improve your situation no matter how hard you try?

Everything we do has a logical purpose. It's the end result of a shit world and a shit creator.

Year after year can pass, and it won't matter if we sat on our ass or put everything we have into working because it's all worthless garbage.

Devoid of any meaning or reason for being.
 
The exhaustion is overwhelming, and I can’t seem to find anything that helps anymore. Nothing makes the pain go away. Sometimes I wonder if this is it for me—if it’ll just keep getting worse. It feels like no matter what I do, I’m stuck in this cycle of self-loathing and hopelessness. I see everyone else moving forward, but I’m just left behind, drowning in my own mind. I don’t know how much longer I can keep pretending I’m okay.
I feel you, comrade. My own mental wellbeing is not good last year, but I keep myself going by thinking about Our great Nation and the upcoming Revolution of Spirit that is coming soon, that will transformate the society, and will bring back our great Germanic will into this world.
 
Maybe stop pretending, embrace yourself, no one but you will
 
Yeah same i'm fucking stuck in this pit of misery and there is only one escape which is to rope
 
ive had depersonalization for the past 4 months and it is the most miserable thing ever. im going to a therapist though so hopefully i can heal fast.
 
The exhaustion is overwhelming, and I can’t seem to find anything that helps anymore. Nothing makes the pain go away. Sometimes I wonder if this is it for me—if it’ll just keep getting worse. It feels like no matter what I do, I’m stuck in this cycle of self-loathing and hopelessness. I see everyone else moving forward, but I’m just left behind, drowning in my own mind. I don’t know how much longer I can keep pretending I’m okay.
Sorry things are like this, I don't think I have any help to offer but I hope you win the coming battles :feelshmm:
 
ive had depersonalization for the past 4 months and it is the most miserable thing ever. im going to a therapist though so hopefully i can heal fast.
Same, it's scary sometimes
 
Same, seeing everyone pass you by getting their own life set up and getting married, while your just fucked. It's like being in a cage. I'm just watching my existence at this point I don't even have any goals or reason to live anymore
 
how did you get it? cause i got it from getting to high
Exact same way I was smoking a Delta 8 dab pen had a really bad high and was greening out and I haven't been the same since. Everything feels weird and I also can't remember shit anymore, fuck weed man
 
I don’t know how much longer I can keep pretending I’m okay.
First, you don't have to PRETEND to be okay.

It is absolutely justifiable, and acceptable to acknowledge your many failures and it is healthy to feel compassion for yourself.

The more you try to "beat" this game, the more you get beaten down. It's pretty healthy to just accept you won't ever become rich, beautiful, successful, neurotypical, etc. All those things are markers of social success for normies, but not for us.

Also, it's good to see a therapist, as long as it's not a cuck or a foid. Just never ask your therapist to fix your inceldom, ask for better coping strategies.
 

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