I'm 19 and now almost 2 years removed from high school. I did a lot of things wrong but learned how to fit in after high school with the people I went to school with. Here is my honest, no BS advice:
1. Socialize outside of school as much as possible. Lunchtime and sport/club interaction is not enough. Hanging around friends will help develop your personality and identity, it will give you connections, and it will give you social skills (If you act the same as the group, bam, you're normal and have social skills)
2. Don't be afraid to be goofy (Especially middle schoolers). MY biggest mistake was letting my low self-esteem/fear of embarrassment prevent me from developing any sort of personality or identity. It's ok to mess up. Everyone does, every single person. IT IS BETTER TO MESS UP AND HAVE A LAUGH ABOUT IT THAN SIT IN A CORNER AND NOT SHOW YOUR FACE. I refused to socialize due to fear and severely paid for it as a result. If you're scared, just start with a small friend group and work your way up.
3. Copy your friend group's fashion. Your clothes need to say something about you, you need to catch someone's attention. As long as you look the same as your friends, you're golden. You don't have to wear the EXACT same clothes, but trend in their general direction.
4. Say yes to drugs and alcohol. Newsflash: The adults telling you not to do drugs and alcohol spent all of their teens and 20's doing drugs and alcohol. Everyone does drugs and alcohol. Every single person. If you don't succumb to peer pressure, not only will you be left out, but you won't relate to everyone else who has their brain calmed down from drugs and alcohol. Don't be fooled with what you see in school and who you think is innocent: EVERYONE does drugs and alcohol and you need to too if you want to fit in.
5. Don't make the mistake of thinking girls want love. Girls only want dick. Don't make the mistake of thinking girls are people. Girls are sex objects. Our society brainwashes kids like myself into thinking girls are these precious innocent little angels begging to be taken up by some loving and caring man. Thinking like this made me cringy and ruined any chance I may have at a girl. NEWSFLASH: GIRLS ARE MATERIALISTIC AND HORNY, WAY MORESO THAN BOYS. THEY ONLY CARE ABOUT BEING ABLE TO BRAG ABOUT SEX TO THEIR FRIENDS IN ORDER TO BE BETTER THAN OTHER GIRLS. Realize girls are sex objects and treat them like such. Act like a fuckboy, because fuckboys always get girls. And I really mean this. When a girl says she hates fuckboys, what she really means is she hates one fuckboy in particular because he is trying to get with her, meanwhile she wants a different fuckboy instead. Girls ARE NOT the innocent creatures our media wants you to believe they are. They are selfish sluts thirsty for cock, and the most successful men are the men who realize this.
Bonus: If youre stupid like I was, you sit around being humble and making chatter with those around you, thinking females are innocent and will therefore want to be with a quite and respectful person with a good sense of humor like me. NEWSFLASH: Women like guys who are loud and flamboyant, because they come off as the most confident, and therefore most dominant. Don't be a humble and quiet kid, be an obnoxious brute. The most popular guy in my former high school right now is a hardcore pothead who does and sells other dugs as well and acts like a complete fuckboy wigger. And the girls love him for it. Act like the person your parents tell you not to if you want to have success.
My brain is permanently fucked up and i suffered through 6 years of being suicidal during high school because i did not follow this advice. Heed my warning seriously. My life is over because i did not connect with people for so long, its like i spent 6 years locked in solitary, and even though i can kind of function, its just not the same. My life ended the day I decided to go full anti-social mode back in middle school due to fear and anxiety.
1. Socialize outside of school as much as possible. Lunchtime and sport/club interaction is not enough. Hanging around friends will help develop your personality and identity, it will give you connections, and it will give you social skills (If you act the same as the group, bam, you're normal and have social skills)
2. Don't be afraid to be goofy (Especially middle schoolers). MY biggest mistake was letting my low self-esteem/fear of embarrassment prevent me from developing any sort of personality or identity. It's ok to mess up. Everyone does, every single person. IT IS BETTER TO MESS UP AND HAVE A LAUGH ABOUT IT THAN SIT IN A CORNER AND NOT SHOW YOUR FACE. I refused to socialize due to fear and severely paid for it as a result. If you're scared, just start with a small friend group and work your way up.
3. Copy your friend group's fashion. Your clothes need to say something about you, you need to catch someone's attention. As long as you look the same as your friends, you're golden. You don't have to wear the EXACT same clothes, but trend in their general direction.
4. Say yes to drugs and alcohol. Newsflash: The adults telling you not to do drugs and alcohol spent all of their teens and 20's doing drugs and alcohol. Everyone does drugs and alcohol. Every single person. If you don't succumb to peer pressure, not only will you be left out, but you won't relate to everyone else who has their brain calmed down from drugs and alcohol. Don't be fooled with what you see in school and who you think is innocent: EVERYONE does drugs and alcohol and you need to too if you want to fit in.
5. Don't make the mistake of thinking girls want love. Girls only want dick. Don't make the mistake of thinking girls are people. Girls are sex objects. Our society brainwashes kids like myself into thinking girls are these precious innocent little angels begging to be taken up by some loving and caring man. Thinking like this made me cringy and ruined any chance I may have at a girl. NEWSFLASH: GIRLS ARE MATERIALISTIC AND HORNY, WAY MORESO THAN BOYS. THEY ONLY CARE ABOUT BEING ABLE TO BRAG ABOUT SEX TO THEIR FRIENDS IN ORDER TO BE BETTER THAN OTHER GIRLS. Realize girls are sex objects and treat them like such. Act like a fuckboy, because fuckboys always get girls. And I really mean this. When a girl says she hates fuckboys, what she really means is she hates one fuckboy in particular because he is trying to get with her, meanwhile she wants a different fuckboy instead. Girls ARE NOT the innocent creatures our media wants you to believe they are. They are selfish sluts thirsty for cock, and the most successful men are the men who realize this.
Bonus: If youre stupid like I was, you sit around being humble and making chatter with those around you, thinking females are innocent and will therefore want to be with a quite and respectful person with a good sense of humor like me. NEWSFLASH: Women like guys who are loud and flamboyant, because they come off as the most confident, and therefore most dominant. Don't be a humble and quiet kid, be an obnoxious brute. The most popular guy in my former high school right now is a hardcore pothead who does and sells other dugs as well and acts like a complete fuckboy wigger. And the girls love him for it. Act like the person your parents tell you not to if you want to have success.
My brain is permanently fucked up and i suffered through 6 years of being suicidal during high school because i did not follow this advice. Heed my warning seriously. My life is over because i did not connect with people for so long, its like i spent 6 years locked in solitary, and even though i can kind of function, its just not the same. My life ended the day I decided to go full anti-social mode back in middle school due to fear and anxiety.
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