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I have a brother who’s 4 years older than me. During my teenage years, we would always play video games together and he would physically and mentally abuse me whenever we lost a match. This shit went on for 2 years, from when I was 12 to 14. Our parents did nothing to stop him. They didn’t take it seriously and just let him beat me all the time. They just called it ’’sibling love’’. I’m still angry at my parents for this. I never realized how bad his behaviour was until I got older.
I got diagnosed with autism at the age of 16. At first I didn’t want to accept it, but when I began high school and kept getting into trouble, I knew I had to accept my autism if I wanted to improve as a person. I made a lot of research and learned that autism is inheritable. I found a study which said that if the first child has autism, then the chances of the second child having autism is very, very high. This is when I started putting the pieces together. My brother’s lack of empathy and friends, and his antisocial behavior and video game addiction finally made sense to me. The fact that he was an adult and physically abusing a child without feeling any kind of remorse, was another proof of his autism.
When I was a teenager, he would constantly tell me that I was autistic. Note that this was years before I even got diagnosed with autism. And a few years later it turned out to be true. So how the hell did he know? Well, because he has it himself. I don’t know if he has ever gotten an actual diagnosis for it, but it’s so obvious to me. He has never been in a relationship or had sex. He is socially awkward and has no friends. It could be one of the reasons why he beat me so much. Maybe he hated himself for having autism, and I was a constant reminder of that.
I truly believe that my brother is the reason I’m an incel. He is the root of all problems. If my brother wasn’t born autistic, then I wouldn’t have been either. Just imagine if I was never born with autism. Then me and my brother would’ve had a normal relationship. And I would’ve never been rejected by every girl I’ve had a crush on. And I would’ve never been bullied for being the weird kid. And I would’ve never had any social problems and mental health issues during my most of my life. And I would’ve had a normal childhood. And I would’ve most likely not been a virgin. And therefore I wouldn’t have been an incel.
This leads me to the question. My fellow autistcels, do you believe that you wouldn’t have been an incel if you never had autism?
I got diagnosed with autism at the age of 16. At first I didn’t want to accept it, but when I began high school and kept getting into trouble, I knew I had to accept my autism if I wanted to improve as a person. I made a lot of research and learned that autism is inheritable. I found a study which said that if the first child has autism, then the chances of the second child having autism is very, very high. This is when I started putting the pieces together. My brother’s lack of empathy and friends, and his antisocial behavior and video game addiction finally made sense to me. The fact that he was an adult and physically abusing a child without feeling any kind of remorse, was another proof of his autism.
When I was a teenager, he would constantly tell me that I was autistic. Note that this was years before I even got diagnosed with autism. And a few years later it turned out to be true. So how the hell did he know? Well, because he has it himself. I don’t know if he has ever gotten an actual diagnosis for it, but it’s so obvious to me. He has never been in a relationship or had sex. He is socially awkward and has no friends. It could be one of the reasons why he beat me so much. Maybe he hated himself for having autism, and I was a constant reminder of that.
I truly believe that my brother is the reason I’m an incel. He is the root of all problems. If my brother wasn’t born autistic, then I wouldn’t have been either. Just imagine if I was never born with autism. Then me and my brother would’ve had a normal relationship. And I would’ve never been rejected by every girl I’ve had a crush on. And I would’ve never been bullied for being the weird kid. And I would’ve never had any social problems and mental health issues during my most of my life. And I would’ve had a normal childhood. And I would’ve most likely not been a virgin. And therefore I wouldn’t have been an incel.
This leads me to the question. My fellow autistcels, do you believe that you wouldn’t have been an incel if you never had autism?
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You sound like a redditor. I think the autism is more the problem (maybe not, it does sorta seem like victim blaming) than your brother.
