Paying for a whore is not the same as being desired by a woman.
1. Yes, and buying meat at the grocery is not the same as hunting for meat yourself, but it's still going to taste great in either case when you cook it. You are letting your ego get in the way of common sense, you are ironically fitting to a T what I talk about with the red pill mindset, all this "make yourself more attractive" looksmaxxing stuff is red pill stuff at it's core, it doesn't really have anything to do with the black pill.
2. Go back far enough in your ancestry and the men didn't give a fuck about that, so why should you limit yourself by some modern day "feminized masculinity" standard?
This has gone on since before hypergamy reached its current state. Men of the bygone era would wear expensive suits, gel their hair, wear cologne, etc.
This was about displaying your social standing and asserting dominance, because these things were expensive. If you think men were doing this to desperately try to get women to "pick them" you are delusional. Women were property, you went to a woman's father to ask for her hand in marriage, not to the the woman.
Men did not care about being attractive for women, until they gave women the right to refuse and then they had no choice lol.
Don't confuse the prerequisite with the goal, the prerequisite to get sex these days is to be attractive, the goal is sex. A lot of men like you confuse the two, and then you project modern day standards onto your ancestors, that were literally raping and pillaging like it was nobodies business lol.
Like come on
, you guys are literally making shit up at this point. Women were literally property just a few decades ago, they had to take what they could get, and basically EVERY GUY was "a catch" because they couldn't work, have resources and own property. Go back even further a few centuries and women were literally just being taken by force and claimed as wives, and the best case scenario would be that a woman's father would select her husband.
Why is it when men take real steps to improve their lives you accuse them of feminization?
Because self beautification for the large majority of our species existence, has always traditionally been a female practice.
We aren't birds (like a peacock) were mammals. Go do a little research on how mammals mate and court.
The men compete physically, they fight and kill eachother, and to the victor goes the spoils (women included). Male mammals groom themselves for the sake of being clean and to get rid of insects and pests, it's not to "look good for females", they get women through conquest not consent.
Masculinity for humans has indeed been feminized. Men are no longer claiming women, they are courting women as if they themselves are women.
What is even realistic about redpill? It's all lies so people could buy guides and programs from PUAs. If Redpill is reality, then why the fuck are we here believing in the blackpill?
Did you even watch the video?, seriously?
Do you not understand what a "half truth" is?
I even gave a clear example.
Did you miss the part where I said that nihilists are also realists, but they take realism to it's logical conclusion?
The difference between the red pill and the black pill comes down to two things:
1. Ego
2. Morality
Red pillers believe in the same evolution psychology stuff, and the same biology rhetoric as black pillers. The difference is that red pillers will appeal to nature to justify these things, and that's because:
1. Ego makes them assert that "the problem doesn't matter, as a man I'm supposed to over come it"
2. Morality makes them assert that "I don't want to hate women, so I must rationalize their actions with an excuse"
Dude, if you don't get it with a 20 fucking minute video filled with examples, I don't know what to tell you lol. I definitely couldn't explain it to you with text then. I'll end it here. The good thing about a video is that you can watch it over again.