Muh personality cope

[ardeys]

Let’s say personality mattered, how the fuck are you going to change it? If I’m reserved by nature you want me to fake being charismatic or some bs and feel bad asf because of it? You want me to fake being “”confident”” and then getting called arrogant by foids? And also they’ll give you both of the advices “personality matters dude” and “just be yourself” which one then?

 

[PersonalityChad]

Personally is heavily shaped by genetics anyway

 

[Livonica_Irreale]

It's over for persocels

 

[Animecel2D]

Changing your personality is just about as difficult as changing your looks

 

[Sex-Starved Beast]

That's what I think. Peope mention how looks matter over personality as if it's some brutal blackpill because looks can't be changed, but the same goes for personality. Most of the personality traits that matter are completely genetic like being NT.

 

[anglocelticcel]

Personally is heavily shaped by genetics anyway

 

[AtrociousCitizen]

Changing your personality is just about as difficult as changing your looks

 

[ardeys]

Changing your personality is just about as difficult as changing your looks

I think it’s harder even because at least your look is empirically visible, to change your psyche you only have your behavior clear not the source of it and a big chunk of it is genetics

 

[DoomThreeKoala]

Personally is heavily shaped by genetics anyway

It's a circular loop. Your personality is shaped by how people treat you, the way they treat you is determined by your looks.

 

[ardeys]

I think it’s harder even because at least your look is empirically visible to change your psyche you only have your behavior clear not the source of it and a big chunk of it is genetics

To change your looks doesn’t mean changing your genes but faking them, if you try to fake them on your psyche it won’t be as easy and you’ll just go mentally ill and feel depressed by acting always in a way that you aren’t

 

[nachtlieder]

you can't change personality for the better, they will see through it and know something's off. it is just an easy cop out argument against looks when they know the person is likely "weird" or socially inept.

 

[mariomariuss]

Personally is heavily shaped by genetics anyway

 

[mariomariuss]

Changing your personality is just about as difficult as changing your looks

some ppl told me ''just be more open, talk to ppl more'' like I can't become extrovert as an introvert

 

[PillarofReality]

How your personality develops is dependent on how the environment is treating you. Since good looking dudes are treated better than sub 5 inkwells, of course the good looking dude will adopt a "better personality" than an uggo, who is rejected by everyone.

That's why Looks = Personality

 

[Animecel2D]

some ppl told me ''just be more open, talk to ppl more'' like I can't become extrovert as an introvert

And then when you actually try and talk to people they just give you the cold shoulder

no point trying to talk to others when they don’t want to talk to you

 

[Sir Waco]

my personality is pretty damn good

 

[Autist]

Everything you do will be interpreted positively or negatively depending on your physical attractiveness. It's not worth wasting your time trying.

 

[Ambatukam Alone]

Let’s say personality mattered, how the fuck are you going to change it?

By getting a girlfriend. (Real answer: life experiences, increased understanding from books and stuff, meditation [I'm out of my depth here, but people have mentioned psychedelics, too], etc).

 

[Livonica_Irreale]

Personality can be a gamechanger, even if you're an ugly manlet - but you have everything 30x times harder.
Also, personality is rather genetics - you're getting born with unchangeable mental traits.

 

[Veyron]

Yuo cant change ur personality u can just jester which is worse

 

[ardeys]

By getting a girlfriend. (Real answer: life experiences, increased understanding from books and stuff, meditation [I'm out of my depth here, but people have mentioned psychedelics, too], etc).

An incel will probably have tried all of them with no change

 

[Ambatukam Alone]

An incel will probably have tried all of them with no change

Many are youngcels who have barely tried anything except for tiktok and skibidi 67.

 

[mariomariuss]

And then when you actually try and talk to people they just give you the cold shoulder

no point trying to talk to others when they don’t want to talk to you

yeah, they just treat like im clown or weirdo or something

 

[Smiggles]

Personality can be a gamechanger, even if you're an ugly manlet - but you have everything 30x times harder.
Also, personality is rather genetics - you're getting born with unchangeable mental traits.

 

[Rapistcel]

Changing your personality is just about as difficult as changing your looks