Venting moving to a new state fucked up my life

[SomeRandomLoser]

when I was in 7th grade I had some friends after overcoming my social anxiety then at the end of middle school my family moved to Wisconsin and I eventually lost contact with my friends I'm currently in 11th grade and I have made 0 friends at my high school due to my social anxiety and to give you a hint on how bad it is it took me 5 days to get the courage to make this post. Anyways how the fuck do I overcome my social anxiety and make some friends or is it already over for me?

 

[Escthectrler]

Over

 

[Animecel2D]

How old are you

 

[SomeRandomLoser]

How old are you

16 currently turning 17 in December

 

[FrothySolutions]

5 days to make this post. I truly want better for you. That's no kind of way to live.

 

[Animecel2D]

16 currently turning 17 in December

Yes you are truecel, I can see your face from the webcam just ldar at this point

 

[FrothySolutions]

16 currently turning 17 in December

Oh, you're a teenager. Have you talked to your parents about your concerns?

 

[Deleted member 34301]

when I was in 7th grade I had some friends after overcoming my social anxiety then at the end of middle school my family moved to Wisconsin and I eventually lost contact with my friends I'm currently in 11th grade and I have made 0 friends at my high school due to my social anxiety and to give you a hint on how bad it is it took me 5 days to get the courage to make this post. Anyways how the fuck do I overcome my social anxiety and make some friends or is it already over for me?

Well, making this post is a first step to overcoming it.

Having had social phobia in highschool I can tell you that every little step is a good thing, and I congratulate you for it that you mustered up the courage to make this post.

Set small goals and work your way up. E.g. ask someone the time, borrow a calculator, say hi to someone in passing, etc. You can grow from there, but keep in mind most people won't recognize your efforts

 

[SomeRandomLoser]

Oh, you're a teenager. Have you talked to your parents about your concerns?

my parents are Hispanic so they will most likely just tell me to man up or something like that

Well, making this post is a first step to overcoming it.

Having had social phobia in highschool I can tell you that every little step is a good thing, and I congratulate you for it that you mustered up the courage to make this post.

Set small goals and work your way up. E.g. ask someone the time, borrow a calculator, say hi to someone in passing, etc. You can grow from there, but keep in mind most people won't recognize your efforts

thank you for the advice

 

[SubHumanCurry]

Wisconsin = shithole

 

[SomeRandomLoser]

Wisconsin = shithole

Yeah Wisconsin is a fucking shithole especially the part I live in only good thing about the state is that the homes are somewhat cheap

 

[FrothySolutions]

my parents are Hispanic so they will most likely just tell me to man up or something like that

I don't know any Hispanic people personally so I guess you would know better than I do. But I would try talking to them, or someone you do trust. If you do trust anyone.

 

[Deleted member 34074]

Try shrooms

 

[SomeRandomLoser]

I don't know any Hispanic people personally so I guess you would know better than I do. But I would try talking to them, or someone you do trust. If you do trust anyone.

I remember when my older sister told my parents that she had depression and they just told her it was all in her head and she needed to grow up and I don't have anyone I trust

 

[Rangercel]

Yep the same thing actually happened to me, believe it or not I was quite popular in my school because I'd also give people free weed (Degenmaxxed and wiggermaxxed), never got FUCKING LAID THOUGH!

Moved to a new state and I was essentially plankton on the bottom of the totem pole, never ended up making any friends until I became giga low inhib, now I just larp as a normie at work and am treated with only subtle contempt instead of open contempt!

Yay for me

 

[Transcended Trucel]

What's your height? If your 6'0, you have hope.

 

[SomeRandomLoser]

What's your height? If your 6'0, you have hope.

I'm 5'4

 

[Transcended Trucel]

I'm 5,4

Holy fuck it's over fellow manlet brother. Start thinking about money maxxing, find a career you'd like or can tolerate. The money Maxx and later escort Maxx/thirdworld maxx or anime/video game maxx. Those are the only real options for us manlets.

 

[FrothySolutions]

I remember when my older sister told my parents that she had depression and they just told her it was all in her head and she needed to grow up and I don't have anyone I trust

If you did have someone you trusted, would you talk to them about your social anxiety?

 

[Damo the incel]

If you did have someone you trusted, would you talk to them about your social anxiety?

Maybe he only has anxiety when In public

 

[RetardedChinlet]

These are the blackpills nobody will fucking tell you about. Only friends you can really count on are those from elementary and maybe middle school. You'll never make better friends or perhaps even no friends at all. From high school onwards, all acquaintances are made around external interests like studying, hobbies or partying, without any real personal connection.

 

[Rambocel]

I'm 5'4

Marty McFlycel here